War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Body language is undoubtedly one of the most vital aspects of attraction. We all heard the phrase "Sh1t she/he don't even know me" but the truth is, we can already tell a lot by their posture, facial expressions, etc. So what parts of body language attracts women?
Chest:
When you're walking, lift your chest up until your back is straight, and relax your shoulders. As an exercise you can stand up against a wall with the back of your head, your upper back, and heels touching the wall. Stay there for ten seconds, walk away from the wall for five seconds, and then come back. Repeat it as many times as you like. The point of coming back is to get you used to this position. At first you won't be comfortable and might even feel a little artificial, but keep on practicing it and you'll get eventually get it down.
Neck:
When you tilt your head back a little bit, it'll make your neck look thick, and I have no idea why, but thick necks are attractive to women. I guess the thickness of your neck reflects power and strength. Though don't tilt it too much; to the point it looks good and it's comfortable for you.
Walking:
People usually walk with their heads or chest leading their bodies. Instead, lead with your hips. While you're walking, make slow movements. Move at your own pace. Don't make it seem like you're in a rush. Your hands shouldn't be touching your hips. Keep them an inch or two away from your hips.
Sitting, eating, drinking:
While you're sitting, lean back. If you can, rest your arm over the shoulder of the chair or bench you're sitting on. Place your other arm on your thigh, near your crotch, but not on it. When you're drinking, grab the bottom of the can or bottle, and slowly drink. I don't know why clasping from near the bottom of the can or bottle is attractive, but it is. Never lean forward when you're eating your food. If you have to, lean forward a little bit, and then come back.
Smiling:
I didn't realize how important smiling was until last week. Girls tell me all the time I look cute on myspace and facebook, but I never got those compliments in real life. A week ago, I visited my friend's homegirl's house, and she had visitors over. Most of them were really cute themselves too. I was smiling the entire time. A day later my friend tells me from his friend that the girls thought I looked really good. I didn't realize it was my smiling that got them to say that.
I'm not asking you to go around looking like Krusty the Clown. Instead, go around looking like James Bond. Bond always seems to have this smile on him. Try emulating that onto your face. When you're smiling, it tells other people that you're open for conversation, approach, etc. In the next few weeks, be conscious of your face. Smile even when there's no people around, that way you'll get into the habit of it and you'll activate it unconsciously.
Chest:
When you're walking, lift your chest up until your back is straight, and relax your shoulders. As an exercise you can stand up against a wall with the back of your head, your upper back, and heels touching the wall. Stay there for ten seconds, walk away from the wall for five seconds, and then come back. Repeat it as many times as you like. The point of coming back is to get you used to this position. At first you won't be comfortable and might even feel a little artificial, but keep on practicing it and you'll get eventually get it down.
Neck:
When you tilt your head back a little bit, it'll make your neck look thick, and I have no idea why, but thick necks are attractive to women. I guess the thickness of your neck reflects power and strength. Though don't tilt it too much; to the point it looks good and it's comfortable for you.
Walking:
People usually walk with their heads or chest leading their bodies. Instead, lead with your hips. While you're walking, make slow movements. Move at your own pace. Don't make it seem like you're in a rush. Your hands shouldn't be touching your hips. Keep them an inch or two away from your hips.
Sitting, eating, drinking:
While you're sitting, lean back. If you can, rest your arm over the shoulder of the chair or bench you're sitting on. Place your other arm on your thigh, near your crotch, but not on it. When you're drinking, grab the bottom of the can or bottle, and slowly drink. I don't know why clasping from near the bottom of the can or bottle is attractive, but it is. Never lean forward when you're eating your food. If you have to, lean forward a little bit, and then come back.
Smiling:
I didn't realize how important smiling was until last week. Girls tell me all the time I look cute on myspace and facebook, but I never got those compliments in real life. A week ago, I visited my friend's homegirl's house, and she had visitors over. Most of them were really cute themselves too. I was smiling the entire time. A day later my friend tells me from his friend that the girls thought I looked really good. I didn't realize it was my smiling that got them to say that.
I'm not asking you to go around looking like Krusty the Clown. Instead, go around looking like James Bond. Bond always seems to have this smile on him. Try emulating that onto your face. When you're smiling, it tells other people that you're open for conversation, approach, etc. In the next few weeks, be conscious of your face. Smile even when there's no people around, that way you'll get into the habit of it and you'll activate it unconsciously.
