Hey DJs!
I want to know how you feel when a woman is straight forward and tells you exactly what she wants and when as long as she isn't too overpowering. Is that a turn off?
I have a girlfriend who portrays this image of being blunt but a lot of guys don't want her. Maybe they sense her being fake. But she is totally outspoken when it comes to things. When she flirts, she could be making herself sound like she is a slut or too open but she is definitely the opposite. On the other hand I am very quiet to a point. But when I get comfortable I speak up. I don't have a problem with meeting guys but I am too selective with whom I want to be open with. I can be the wild type, y'know the phrase "becareful with the quiet ones as we are the crazy ones!" It's true!
I don't like to compare myself with her because we are 2 different people and we have different preferrences in men. She is attractive but I think it's how she presents herself. I'm confidently easy going and she comes off as an easy tease I suppose.
Bottomline is, we are not going to change the way we are.
I want to know how you feel when a woman is straight forward and tells you exactly what she wants and when as long as she isn't too overpowering. Is that a turn off?
I have a girlfriend who portrays this image of being blunt but a lot of guys don't want her. Maybe they sense her being fake. But she is totally outspoken when it comes to things. When she flirts, she could be making herself sound like she is a slut or too open but she is definitely the opposite. On the other hand I am very quiet to a point. But when I get comfortable I speak up. I don't have a problem with meeting guys but I am too selective with whom I want to be open with. I can be the wild type, y'know the phrase "becareful with the quiet ones as we are the crazy ones!" It's true!
I don't like to compare myself with her because we are 2 different people and we have different preferrences in men. She is attractive but I think it's how she presents herself. I'm confidently easy going and she comes off as an easy tease I suppose.
Bottomline is, we are not going to change the way we are.