Blown off

[RestoretheROAR84]

So I've had a couple girls give me their number and wanting to hang out without me asking... and then when I actually call them they make up some lame excuse and blow me off... what's the deal?

 

[supajsilver2]

Sometimes it's tough to tell if they're actually busy. Here's a thread for you:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=112140&highlight="busy"
I really onlied replied because I'm a fellow hardcore Tiger fan. Sigh. We'll be back next year though (assuming Leyland doesn't die of lung cancer by then..)

 

[RestoretheROAR84]

I just got blown off again and it's really starting to piss me off. Maybe I missed something but all I got from that thread was how to find out if they're interested when they blow you off. I know that these girls are losing interest, I am just confused as to why they lose interest in me so quickly. This last girl was so excited on thursday to hang out with me during the weekend, but the very next day she wouldn't answer her phone and wouldn't return my call. I still haven't heard anything from her. What are some things that would cause such a sudden loss of interest? Also yes the tigs will be back next year, WE GOT SHEFF!

 

[art of]

Are you calling them after they give you their numbers? Also, how often do you call them? Don't act too needy. You obviously showed enough confidence to approach them. Extend that confidence a little and believe that if you give them space they're only going to build more anticipation for your call. If you call her right away then your only giving her a chance to second guess her decission to give you her number. Wait a bit and she'll be wondering why you havn't called. It'll put you on her mind, and thats a good thing.