Blondes, bitches in some areas but cool in others, what gives?

[sharkbeat]

Well, the mistake here is that the stereotypes that blondes carry certain type of personality, and it's supposedly the same for all blondes. Obviously wrong. I haven't been dealing with NYC women a lot, though from spending one night clubbing there, it seems that the expectations is that you would have to be at least 6' tall, white, and carry some sort high-paying job. Anything lower than that is not worth paying attention to.

 

[EyeBRollin]

i dont think non white guys do very well in rural areas or areas that arent very city like.

Hate to say it, but the country (and the world, by extension) is extremely racist, and it spills into dating. As I've said before, white women prefer white men. However, interracial couples typically exist if both parties are of similar socioeconomic background. It is not uncommon to see white woman- non-white man in middle and lower class circles, but you won't see affluent white women dating anyone other than affluent white men, outside of professional athletes.

 

[Good Gao]

Hate to say it, but the country (and the world, by extension) is extremely racist, and it spills into dating. As I've said before, white women prefer white men. However, interracial couples typically exist if both parties are of similar socioeconomic background. It is not uncommon to see white woman- non-white man in middle and lower class circles, but you won't see affluent white women dating anyone other than affluent white men, outside of professional athletes.

As I have said it countless times, it varies dramatically based on area. It is pretty bad in a lot of east coast blue blood type cities such as NYC, Washington DC, Atlanta, and a lot of other major east coast cities. Basically any big city with the "professional" culture loaded with kids from top universities is going to have white girls who are highly conscious of their status. It will be relatively rare to see a hot blonde in an interracial relationship in such places.

One thing I can say is this though, Americans don't care if a minority dates a good looking brunette or even a good looking redhead but to see one with a hot blonde has guys losing their ****. I think it is some sort of unwritten taboo, like a minority getting a hot blonde is somehow the ultimate middle finger to white men.

Then again, as I have mentioned, it is the worst in blue blooded east coast cities with a massive country club type culture. I have seen non-white guys dating hot blondes in the midwest states, touristy areas, and cities with more of a party culture.

 

[Good Gao]

Well, the mistake here is that the stereotypes that blondes carry certain type of personality, and it's supposedly the same for all blondes. Obviously wrong. I haven't been dealing with NYC women a lot, though from spending one night clubbing there, it seems that the expectations is that you would have to be at least 6' tall, white, and carry some sort high-paying job. Anything lower than that is not worth paying attention to.

I do think that blondes who fit the mold of blonde, good looking, and affluent do carry certain personality traits and are very strict on what kinds of guys they go for.

Shocked btw, did not know race was that big of a deal on the NYC dating scene. Then again, the most racist whites I've met and known were from blue blooded east coast cities like NYC.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Shocked btw, did not know race was that big of a deal on the NYC dating scene.

It's a big deal in all dating scenes.

Then again, the most racist whites I've met and known were from blue blooded east coast cities like NYC.

The most racists folks are in the locations with the lowest levels of income and education.

 

[Good Gao]

It's a big deal in all dating scenes.



The most racists folks are in the locations with the lowest levels of income and education.

Not really, in most places if you look good, have game, and have some cash then it is usually an after thought, even with blonde bitches.

 

[rEDoNE]

For real. Two fingers in the pink and one in the stink. Turn them upside down, they all look the same

 

[Good Gao]

^ wtf

 

[Ambitious Player]

I used to think it was the hair color but in truth, it is more so her background and social groups she runs in. I've had a relatively easy time with blondes from foreign countries and more rural areas. The only group of blondes that most guys will struggle with, especially if they are not white, are WASP blondes in big cities who run in higher class social circles. Then again, I realized that they are just not worth the effort as in the end, most are bottle blondes with massive egos. I think that is what is going on, the blondes in the midwest were probably not the type that fit the mold of a WASP girl from a wealthy family while the ones in NYC were from tight knit WASP social circles.

A guy of a minority group with his **** together can definitely do alright with good looking blondes that aren't of a WASP background, a few in my experience actually want to try out something "different".