Blocking girls

[Dazzlenuts]

This girl I was messing around with for a few months left me for a drug dealer short man, during the last bit of this fling she was literally messaging this dude on my bed. I didn’t think anything of it as I believed they were friends.

So anyway a friend posted a picture of us having a drink, so this girl messages my friend and says is (my name) there I want to see him. She turns up and I tried it on with her, she deliberately showed me her phone screen saver which was her and this dude. So anyway I get a little too drunk and ringing this dude to come down.

So the problem I’m having is trying to move on from her because she’s always the first one to view my story, sends me breadcrumbs messages, post pictures of her and other guys. She’s also living with this dude in a hotel, taking drugs, funded by him being a drug dealer.

I know Ams said to never delete a women’s number but he said if a ex girlfriend is showing this kind of behavior, that would warrant her getting deleted. I just don’t want to come across as being butthurt because we are in the friend group. Also I have this dude on Snapchat aswell so he posts pictures of them together, I do t have any contact with him though so blocking him would come across as being butthurt by.

I will also add that they knew each other before I met her and they were dating previously. She a very attractive girl also.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated in this kinda painful situation.

 

[Bandolero]

Sounds like you are getting cuckéd

Block them , who cares . I mean at this point they are spamming you ,or am I wrong ?

The other option is that you are getting overly aggressive next time and catch a case.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

Sounds like you are getting cuckéd

Block them , who cares . I mean at this point they are spamming you ,or am I wrong ?

The other option is that you are getting overly aggressive next time and catch a case.

Getting cucked lol.

No they’re not spamming me but it’s painful seeing all their photos together probably after sex I would imagine. I’ve just gone no contact till the other day, when she wanted to see me and then all that happened.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

Sounds like you are getting cuckéd

Block them , who cares . I mean at this point they are spamming you ,or am I wrong ?

The other option is that you are getting overly aggressive next time and catch a case.

I don’t think there will be a next time with this girl, especially not now. I looked like a fool because I got too drunk, she didn’t even say bye or look at me when she left the house with this guy. And she’s ****ing another dude so it’s best to move on but it’s very very painful because I got too attached to this girl and she knows it all our friends know it too.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

Re-read this every time you continue to feel down. It's easy for us to give you a hard time because based on this, it's CLEAR AS DAY you should avoid her...but I get it. We've all been there.

Also this means nothing:



Fell for this trap one too many times. I thought this meant something until I would message them and get the cold shoulder.

Women are natural detectives; most enjoy spying on your life to be nosey and not because they actually care about you. Don't let the social media algorithms convince you this matters.

Take care, bud. With time, you'll look back and laugh at this - I promise.

*Edit* Bet the house she will come crawling back to you in a few weeks. I will troll you for the rest of eternity if I find out you took her back.

Thanks man, so should I blocked her on social media or would that come across as being butthurt?

i now you said her watching my stories don’t mean nothing but it’s just the fact that I’m trying to not be reminded of her.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

Re-read this every time you continue to feel down. It's easy for us to give you a hard time because based on this, it's CLEAR AS DAY you should avoid her...but I get it. We've all been there.

Also this means nothing:



Fell for this trap one too many times. I thought this meant something until I would message them and get the cold shoulder.

Women are natural detectives; most enjoy spying on your life to be nosey and not because they actually care about you. Don't let the social media algorithms convince you this matters.

Take care, bud. With time, you'll look back and laugh at this - I promise.

*Edit* Bet the house she will come crawling back to you in a few weeks. I will troll you for the rest of eternity if I find out you took her back.

You know I don’t think she will come back that’s why I’m look for advice as to whether I should block her for my own good. I got kicked in the face and got my nose broken at this party in front of her so.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

Thanks man, so should I blocked her on social media or would that come across as being butthurt?

I know you said her watching my stories don’t mean nothing but it’s just the fact that I’m trying to not be reminded of her.

You know I don’t think she will come back that’s why I’m looking for advice as to whether I should block her for my own good. I got kicked in the face and got my nose broken at this party in front of her so.

 

[Scars]

You're getting butthurt over a woman who literally left you for a crusty ass drug dealer. Move the fvck on. She's probably on drugs herself and fvcks him to get **** for free. I've seen this story a thousand times.

Find yourself some new pvssy and move on with your life. Preferably NOT a girl who is spun out on drugs.

 

[Dazzlenuts]

A common question asked around here, and my stance on blocking, is that it's acceptable, as long as you're doing it to get over the situation and not as a tactic to get back at her or something.

If it gives you peace of mind, who cares what anyone else thinks? Plus, you'll look absolutely pathetic to her if you continue sulking around in HER stories.

Dude, you're 25, you're fine. However, it sounds like a slightly humiliating situation...we've all been there.

You clearly lack self-esteem chasing this drug-abusing h0e. Jesus man...way more women out there. My suggestion is to block her ass on social media. Who cares if she comes back or not (If you've slept together then I bet the house she does if you go silent now), it's trouble all around my guy so don't bank on her coming back as it'll just put you back in the forum making these threads.

Stay patient. Stay present and put the work in to eventually land someone who's relative quality. At least for a short period of time before the bullsh1t starts

thanks man

 

[Dazzlenuts]

You're getting butthurt over a woman who literally left you for a crusty ass drug dealer. Move the fvck on. She's probably on drugs herself and fvcks him to get **** for free. I've seen this story a thousand times.

Find yourself some new pvssy and move on with your life. Preferably NOT a girl who is spun out on drugs.

it’s not that I’m butthurt I just don’t want to see her or be reminded of her because I’m trying to move on and improve myself. I was doing ok until the other day when I seen her, she’s a very attractive girl though so that’s why. I just don’t want to appear butthurt because we’re both in the same friend group.

EDIT I’m not trying to get her back just so you know