<kinda relavant and similar to what I am going through this week>
Girl I am interested in, and THINK a good friend of mine, I will call him Bob, may also interested in her. I don't think Bob knows I am interested, though.
She has bluntly showed signs of interest to both of us...
I asked her out this Friday night. She said she's going to a party our group of friends is having, and asked me if I was going.. I said "hmm, I had thought about it but hadn't decided". Then she asked me if Bob was going. I said "yeah I think so".
Her plan: lets get them both there and let them compete for me
My plan: sealed another date with another chick. Not going to the party. Told Bob that I had a date and asked him to tell our girl I said "Hi, and sorry I couldn't make it".. If she cares and askes where I am at, well, Bob is innocent, he will tell her the truth! ;-)