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Venom01

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I went on a date to dave and busters and had a great time with this chick. It came to the end of the night (our first date) and she was in my car, and she knew i had to call it a night. she just sat there for like 20 mins and talked and fiddled with her keys.

I kinda wanted to play hard to get, so im waiting until the second date to initiate something. You think this was the right move? or should i have have done it on the first.I know the key sign was the perfect tell tale sign that she wanted it.
 

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for the most part guys dont play hard to get. You set up a date with her, acting like you may not be interested just confuses them.

Right now shes second guessing herself about you. He either doesnt like me, is gay, or not man enough to make a move.

but no biggie. If she had a good time on the date she will defenently look for one or two more dates, to see what comes from it. You can make your move then. I just usually dont wait till the second date if im seeing good signals.
 

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Venom01 said:
I went on a date to dave and busters and had a great time with this chick. It came to the end of the night (our first date) and she was in my car, and she knew i had to call it a night. she just sat there for like 20 mins and talked and fiddled with her keys.

I kinda wanted to play hard to get, so im waiting until the second date to initiate something. You think this was the right move? or should i have have done it on the first.I know the key sign was the perfect tell tale sign that she wanted it.
You should have teased her. Even if she's interested, you can only play hard to get if she's thinking about you as a puzzle, that way she'll want to figure you out. Kiss her and pull her away, there are numerous things that you could've done. Try it out next time.

-drtk
 

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john paul said:
for the most part guys dont play hard to get. You set up a date with her, acting like you may not be interested just confuses them.

Right now shes second guessing herself about you. He either doesnt like me, is gay, or not man enough to make a move.

but no biggie. If she had a good time on the date she will defenently look for one or two more dates, to see what comes from it. You can make your move then. I just usually dont wait till the second date if im seeing good signals.
100% agree.
 

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She played with her keys for 20 mins? You should of kissed her, idiot!

Hopefully she likes you enough to where it wont matter. But that was a clear sign of.. OK, KISS ME ALREADY! No need to play games. You got the date didn't you? She's interested.. now move in for the kill buddy.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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