Time for Church
DonGorgon said:
yeh well thats life offline also.. as a black man you are far from alpha and far from relationship or marriage material for most women unless you are a celeb or very very very rich.
many women will experiment with you to see if the big **** myth is true but seldom take you seriously beyond that.
WHY?
Well the reality is that due to americas racially influenced socioeconomic structure, the black male has a lower earning potential higher jobless and firing rate making them less able to provide stable support for a wife and kids. They will be less able to afford education and good medical care and more prone to low level crimes of desperation.
Just for the record (before a race war starts) we all know that all of the above poster's statements should be prefaced with the phrase, "statistically/historically speaking"
Secondly (to set the record straight), half of the statistics being referred to were compiled mainly from the lower income/class neighborhoods of America (which have been disproportionately populated with African Americans since Reconstruction) specifically for the purposes of being promoted under false pretenses as common knowledge, with the intent of creating self-fulfilling prophecies on a consistent enough basis to create the same self-destructive mentality in the black communities of America that are often prevalent in desperate third world nations.
Obviously, only the significantly above average children and people (outliers that will be successful in almost any situation due to specific intangibles) will break free from the trap, as these outliers are characteristically geniuses in multiple forms of intelligence.
If you applied your same Black Male profile in say Manhattan, Scottsdale, Silicon Valley, etc. where the majority of the aforementioned is much less relevant due to socioeconomic structures having much less variance...the same simple-minded racial profile is still just as prevalent, which is what I believe the OP was so less eloquently referring to.
On a side note - isn't it funny how black people often have a ton of white friends, and most white people seldom have more than one or two black friends? lmao, so true...
Fact of the matter is this - Many of the Black Girls that ONLY date white guys often have serious family and self-esteem/perception issues. Some don't, but many do. The portion that are gold-diggers is surprisingly VERY low....unless of course, your talking about the lower and not middle to upper class society, which is a whole different conversation.
As a black male myself, I noted a similar observation at one point in time. What the OP also fails to mention is that A GREAT EQUALIZER EXISTS! - a SIGNIFICANT number of White Women ONLY date black guys!
Being that there are more White Women than Black Women in America, if we agree (for the purpose of this exercise) that the percentages of Black Women that only date white guys and vice versa are identical (which we know is untrue due to the whole Black Women only dating white men being a recent phenomena and the reverse going back much further) the actual volume and numerical value of White Women that date only black guys is MUCH MUCH greater than the opposite!
I say all that to say - GONNAMAKEACHANGE - get off your soapbox and onto your horse and go find all the white girls on the other side of the spectrum! OJ did it, you can do it too!
CHUUCH
P.S. Black people often speak the Queen's English much better than their the melanin lacking counterparts, but only in private while planning the revolution.