Well, DJIronGirevik spared me a lot of trouble.
It was about time that I cleared things up.
I posted this, rushed to fight the rising wave of "so what, I'm not popular,I can be happy,f*ck being popular".
For the unpopular people, it's so easy to stay in their comfort zones and not become popular, not even try.
And then they complain that they can't meet new women, or get school's women because of lack of status.
That's why people get mad when they read this. Because they think that they'll have to stop being themselves to fit in.
They can't grasp the possibility of being who you are, and popular being that person.
I said, if you don't want to be popular, you must face the consequences of your decisions.
But I never said, abandon all your values and principles to become popular.
You can become popular, well-known, without losing your personality.
Of course, you'll have to ADAPT some things, but the core of who you are will remain the same.
Myself, BBB, is one of the few popular guys I know of that likes heavy metal, plays guitar, goes to concerts, dresses differently than all other people, talks differently, is very different as a whole.
That's the great catch. It's about being unique, and being able to market that "uniqueness".
My clothes are different, my hair is different, my vocabulary is different, my musical tastes are different, hell, even the soccer team I like the most is different from everyone else. And yes, I am popular.
Because I have learned to market my uniqueness.
You see, there are the medium popular kids, there are the popular kids, there are the ultra-popular kids, and there's BBB.
Me, I am a legend!
If I had given up my personality to become popular, I would be going against everything that I stand for here in Sosuave.
I only ADAPTED myself, to a more social and sociable persona.
To SteelDragon, I wish all luck for you on the road. I have friends who have bands, I know how hard it is to make it and I know how awesome it is to rock a full bar. I'm a guitar player myself
I just don't want everyone to postpone the efforts of ADAPTATION, because the longer you take, the harder it will get.
I place so much value in this because I grew in an environment filled with unpopular people. Since I found Sosuave, in 2001, I have met only 3 or 4 women through my friends.
That's way too little. Think about it. In the same year of 2001 they met 4,5 in just one month through me.
So, I was alone in my journey to popularity. I never had the comfort of meeting ladies through my buds. I always had to go by myself and find them... especially because I have a unique vision of the game... there are no DJs around here.
So, I don't want people to postpone it, and then suffer later.
All my friends question how can I be so popular being the way I am. Being this unique persona.
Only the fittest will survive. I'm still waiting for my buds to introduce me new women. This year they have introduced me 0 so far.
Don't wait for women to come knocking on your door, because they won't. Go out, make an effort, and "market" yourself.
Well, I hope I made myself clear.
BBB
