sodbuster
Master Don Juan
I've been called bitter.... I just said "yes I AM", just so they would STFU and leave. It was only because I said something that didn't fit in her female world view....
Bingo! Guys, "bitter" is a taste sensation, ever sit around and talk about "bitterness" with men other than ones who learned the word from women? Ever hear your dad or uncle use it? Ever talk about being "bitter" at the lake or out in the woods hunting/fishing? Ever say "I'm bitter because I didn't catch a trout today?" Of course the f not. It's been programmed into you/us, and as tits says it is very much politically charged towards an agenda. IME "bitter" as a feeling only comes to men via women. So...( . )( . ) said:I wouldn't put too much stock into a word given life by high IQ jwish feminists.
Wow... for real?In2theGame said:I found out she was talking to other guys on a secret email exchanging sexual pictures and to top it off talking sh!t about me. I could not believe it. She ended up fvcking another guy behind my back and began saying the most disgusting things to me. How much she loved other guys Fvcking her in the azz and how she was having ONS with other guys cvmming on her face.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
lol my current GF accuses me of giving my dog more affection than I do her. I do.noobolgy said:I would trust a dog more than a woman.
Yes for real. It wasnt over the phone or text either. She told me this to my FACE. I jumped in a cab one night to her apartment building and told her to come down as i was outside and wanted to talk to her. She said she didnt care about me anymore and proceeded to tell me how guys from ONS came on her face and fvcked her. I stood standing there mixed with deep hurt but so much anger I almost snapped and wanted knock her out cold. All that coming from a girl who said she was deeply in love with me and wanted to get married just a short few weeks before. We were together for 5 years Then a few weeks after, She posted that she was engaged to another guy.AttackFormation said:Wow... for real?
I'd probably have smashed her to the curb unless my mental restraints (you'll go to jail/lose your job/etc.) kept working, your mind was strong to not do it and recover from this.In2theGame said:Yes for real. It wasnt over the phone or text either. She told me this to my FACE. I jumped in a cab one night to her apartment building and told her to come down as i was outside and wanted to talk to her. She said she didnt care about me anymore and proceeded to tell me how guys from ONS came on her face and fvcked her. I stood standing there mixed with deep hurt but so much anger I almost snapped and wanted knock her out cold. All that coming from a girl who said she was deeply in love with me and wanted to get married just a short few weeks before. We were together for 5 years Then a few weeks after, She posted that she was engaged to another guy.
Holy cow dude, how do you not see this coming?In2theGame said:Yes for real. It wasnt over the phone or text either. She told me this to my FACE. I jumped in a cab one night to her apartment building and told her to come down as i was outside and wanted to talk to her. She said she didnt care about me anymore and proceeded to tell me how guys from ONS came on her face and fvcked her. I stood standing there mixed with deep hurt but so much anger I almost snapped and wanted knock her out cold. All that coming from a girl who said she was deeply in love with me and wanted to get married just a short few weeks before. We were together for 5 years Then a few weeks after, She posted that she was engaged to another guy.
You know what... right now I'm sitting here talking to a girl. It began with her saying how she was going to get drunk at the weekend and how if she passes out in a bush somewhere I'll have to come get her. I asked what she meant by that and she said, "take care of me ". I told her it sounded like she was trying to tell me about a fantasy she has and she said "haha maybe ".Bible_Belt said:I don't want to believe something like "there's a wh0re in every woman"
There's at least the fantasy of being a wh0re in every woman. They won't admit it until they trust you a lot. It tends to come out in the bedroom, even if it is only pillow talk.
Another female fantasy that is very common that you're not allowed to talk about is a rape fantasy. Women will often have the fantasy of a tall dark stranger slipping into their house and forcing them into passionate sex. That doesn't mean that real life rape victims enjoy rape, but that fantasy still exists.
Show me the nicest, sweetest girl you can find, and I will bet that there is something twisted in her secret sex fantasies. And I like that about women - it's one of the things that keeps me from being bitter.
Your still a young dude and your bound to fall for a girl that's really into you. I don't like telling younger guys to think all girls are slvts and wh0res because that takes away from the guy ever experiencing truly loving someone & understanding what its like to care for a girl. On the other hand, The potential for getting massively hurt is there and i guess its a double edge sword. Women do the nastiest things sometimes and this is why i always encourage guys to be a rock when it comes to dealing with them in a relationship or not because they WILL try to run over you even when they are the weaker sex. I kind of feel bad for younger guys growing up now in terms of dealing with girls because the deception is getting worse and worse with feminism growing, Gay agenda being pushed, lowering Testosterone as whole so Men become more woman-like causing women to be less and less respectful of Men.AttackFormation said:I'd probably have smashed her to the curb unless my mental restraints (you'll go to jail/lose your job/etc.) kept working, your mind was strong to not do it and recover from this.
Would you say:
1. there was something wrong with her and the minority of women like her
2. something you in hindsight know you f*cked up
or 3. is this just a risk you take when you get involved with any girl because female psychology is just messed the f*ck up?
I've had sex but never been in a relationship and haven't gossiped about any either, so I'm not sure what I should expect being young and inexperienced. I don't want to believe something like "there's a wh0re in every woman" because it sounds like when feminists say "every man is a potential rapist", but if it turns out to be true...
Being committed seems to do something to a woman's mind when I read posts here. It's like doing the most depraved things they can think of turns them on, whether it's blowing a guy in her husband's driveway and entering the door when it's done and pretending nothing happened or letting guys f*ck her in the ass and cvm on her face and sh!t when she's about to be married. It's as if the act of something they know is considered morally disgusting actually makes their pvssies wet, feeling like a dirty wh0re turns them on, like a criminal who gets a high out of breaking laws.
IMO the whole "Operation De-Ball" movement as I call it saves women lots of work in the end.. The act of a man adhering to this and being femine lets the women know right off that he isn't fvck or relationship material. It saves HER the work of having to figure it out. Thus it reduces the number of men left. If she has 100 prospective men wanting her, but 90 of them are feminine, that means she only has to s!it test and WORK with the last 10. If she plans on giving each guy 10 s!it tests thats 900 less s!it tests she has to do. For her it's all about work, effort, and numbers..In2theGame said:I kind of feel bad for younger guys growing up now in terms of dealing with girls because the deception is getting worse and worse with feminism growing, Gay agenda being pushed, lowering Testosterone as whole so Men become more woman-like causing women to be less and less respectful of Men.
Right On!Colossus said:You may trust a good woman who has been carefully screened and selected, but you should always verify.
Why do you think i was so hurt & in shock, I didn't see ANY red flags and she didn't act or do anything unusual. At first I did those things and she never gave me a reason to suspect she was doing anything. She was always on point with doing whatever i asked her to do and stayed with me at my place. The relationship began getting stronger and more serious as our years together went on. Family started getting involved and it got to the point where everyone "Knew" we were going to get married. I was always the one in the back of my mind scared of getting the shaft and when i finally thought about it, I said She treats me very well, she does things that show that she does love and and her parents like me alot as well as my family liking her alot. I went forward with the mentality that this was going to become my Wife soon.SgtSplacker said:Holy cow dude, how do you not see this coming?
If a woman is keeping anything private after 5 years together... RED EFFING FLAG
At least once a year you have to make sure ANY female is being honest with you.
Check that phone.
Surprise visit where she is supposed to be at.
Make sure her car is supposed to be where she says it is.
Check that FB account messages.
Standard procedure dude, I mean even if you don't do any of this stuff and still notice a high value for privacy in her life SPIN PLATES!!!
I will not honestly commit to a woman that has secrets on her phone.
Never ever no way no how.
In the end I honestly don't care who she bones, as long as I can bone other women i'm happy. And if what i'm looking for is a decent LTR i'll find one while i'm boning her on the side with her thinking were committed the whole time just like she did to you. Play the game dude, because it's playing you no matter what.
The Problem, This is what it's turning into overall:...logicallefty said:IMO the whole "Operation De-Ball" movement as I call it saves women lots of work in the end.. The act of a man adhering to this and being femine lets the women know right off that he isn't fvck or relationship material. It saves HER the work of having to figure it out. Thus it reduces the number of men left. If she has 100 prospective men wanting her, but 90 of them are feminine, that means she only has to s!it test and WORK with the last 10. If she plans on giving each guy 10 s!it tests thats 900 less s!it tests she has to do. For her it's all about work, effort, and numbers..
As for gay men, think about this guys. The more men that hook up with each other, the more free women in the pool there are for us.
#1In2theGame said:Why do you think i was so hurt & in shock, I didn't see ANY red flags and she didn't act or do anything unusual. At first I did those things and she never gave me a reason to suspect she was doing anything. She was always on point with doing whatever i asked her to do and stayed with me at my place. The relationship began getting stronger and more serious as our years together went on. Family started getting involved and it got to the point where everyone "Knew" we were going to get married. I was always the one in the back of my mind scared of getting the shaft and when i finally thought about it, I said She treats me very well, she does things that show that she does love and and her parents like me alot as well as my family liking her alot. I went forward with the mentality that this was going to become my Wife soon.
I will tell you the craziest things about how this whole thing started and how i suspected something was wrong. It may sound "Supernatural" but honest to God this is how it started....
I was in the starting phase of putting together a client base for a business i was building with Financial Markets. A client called me one night and said he is going to start the client account with $50,000. I was very excited about this as I put a lot of work into speaking with investors and getting all the paper work done. I texted my then girlfriend and told her about it and she was excited and wrote something along the lines of "Thats great baby! Miss you Love you so much" I wrote back "Thanks babe, I will call you later. Love you too" I went to families house to play a game of Poker and some drinks. When i got home i called her and everything was just as it has always been... Normal conversation with the Girlfriend. We said our I Love you's and she said she was coming over the next day. We got off the phone and i went to sleep. I will never forget this but the next morning I was having a flash type of dream that she was having sex with some guy. I woke up like you would during a nightmare. It felt so real that i had an uneasy feeling in my gut (you know what im talkin about) I got up from the bed and texted her to call me. 3 Hours went by without a text back and this was HIGHLY unusual. With every passing minute that gut feeling kept telling me something was wrong. I finally called her and she didnt answer the phone, I tried to call again No answer. On any other given day, I would have just thought she will call me later shes probably busy or with her Mom. When i began getting really worried after the 4th hour i was close to calling her Mom to see if everything was alright when i finally got a text from her. All it said was "Im getting on the train". So for 4 fvcking hours thats all i get back? Right there i knew something was wrong for sure and i couldnt stop thinking about that dream of her having sex with some guy.
After about another hour she called me and sounded like she had been crying. I kept asking what was wrong over and over and all she kept telling me was that she felt lost and depressed. I said WTF happened? I was going crazy wondering what was going on but again, deep down i couldnt get that dream out of my head. She sounded spaced out and i offered for her to come over or for us to meet later. She refused and kept saying shes depressed. I finally go to see her that day and she was acting "normal" but would not look at me in the eyes. We went upstairs and i tried having sex with her.... I got her pants off and when i got on top... she busted out crying. That was it... I sat her up and demanded her to tell me WTF was up. I couldnt imagine that she would cheat on me. No matter what she would refuse looking at me in the eyes. I didnt want to believe it and my emotional state was in chaos. she clinged on to me with the tightest hug ive ever gotten from her almost digging her nails in me. We left her apartment and went to my place,... She was 100% quiet, Then i see her grabbing all her Victoria secret panties and throwing out her other ones. I didnt understand what she was doing at the time but she was packing the Lingerie so she could wear it for the other guys. When night came... She asked me if i would take her back if we went on a break, I said we've been together for 5 years why the fvck would we take a break?.... anyway I said No, i dont do breaks.... She went hysterical throwing herself on the floor crying, I had to pick her up. I calmed her down as she was shaking, so i said lets lay down. We ended up going to bed and she latched on to me again tightly. The next day she was quiet again and she went home. I tried calling her and she wouldnt pick up and texted me "I need to be alone"... I started doing some investigating work and this is where the flood of deceptions came pouring in. I found out her secret email account she had from a gaming site, I guessed the password she told me 4 years previously, When i got in i saw conversations with multitude of guys and talking sh!t about me and I'll never forget reading what she wrote to one guy " LoL I hope to break up with him soon, I want other c0ck" "I Hope i made the right choice " after that, I lost it.
The next day she called me crying saying that she feels like shes going crazy.... I stood quiet. She went on to say she feels like the Devil is inside her and she wants to go out fvcking random guys. Shes telling me this sh!t on the phone while im hurting. I hung up and she called me back but i didnt pick up... she left a voice mail again crying saying to please help her. I obviously loved this Woman deeply and i called he back because i was afraid she would hurt herself... Only for her to tell me she had a few ONS the past week without condoms. we got off the phone and i was hurt beyond belief, Thats when my first anxiety attack hit, I had to ask God to help me because i was going crazy while the Woman that i genuinely loved and wanted to Marry was telling me that she was fvcking random guys and tells me that her eyes hurt from a guy cvmming on her face. Taking morning after pills.
I found out further that she sent some Random guy she met online Money, She began using drugs and Drinking. I was in a huge shock at how she was acting. When word got out to family and friends... Her Family and my Family were asking me what i did!!!. Im thinking to myself... WTF did I do!? The finger was being pointed at me, Meanwhile i was the one hurting the most. She switched everything on me and then after that, She gets engaged to another guy and took off from everyone. Thats the last i heard from her.
It has been a long road to mental and emotional recovery since then but I definitely have a traumatic disorder now and anxiety that make me feel panic at random times when something reminds me of her or our breakup. A lot of other fvcked up things were done and said also but i wanted to make this as brief as possible. To this day, I cannot trust another Woman fully like i did. Once that happened, Everything else in my life collapsed... My business, Clients, Lost my Luxury car, My health was in bad shape, Lost all my money, even lost my damn phone, All my friends were no where to be found either. I went at it completely alone with God. I eventually recovered by going to the gym and attaining a body like a fitness model, I got myself back into the Wall st area to build capital for my Business that i have built again. I made a comeback better than ever and dated some gorgeous Women but one thing that i will always carry with me is how bad i was betrayed and i promise myself that i will never, ever again let myself be that vulnerable to a Woman as long as i live.
BullseyeSgtSplacker said:#1
Why would you let a woman know you would marry her if she has not even moved in? In my eyes you are bending over backwards for her and this is never a good thing. It just shows you don't have options. This leads us to #2
#2
A woman can never think she has all of your love and appreciation. You have to neg them every once in a while. There have to be situations where you make her feel worthless and that you are angry at them. She has to be kept thirsty for your approval. This is the best thing for HER! Trust me she will live a happy life in this state of mind. If you would have been doing this look at all the hardship you could have avoided her? Think!
When it comes to love i'm a Sith, only through suffering can their be happiness!