Time and time again: give her something from the heart, genuine, thoughtful, and creative, something that took time to think up. One creative idea that I thought up was giving her a "newspaper" from the day of her birth. Usually I date intelligent girls, so i dont think my ideas would work on materialistic girls. If you have one of those girls, get her a burberry or coach purse. Works like a charm all the time. You'll be out a couple hundred though.