birth control

[Colossus]

Karma's thread got me thinking...

Kind of a silly topic, but I absolutely loathe condoms. It's like having sex with a dish glove on your d!ck. In my last LTR of 2.5 years, i wore a condom all of twice; and pulled it off halfway through. Now granted she was on the pill most of the time, which is usually the case with younger gals.

Unless it's a ONS or the girl isnt on BC, i wont wear one. Yeah, i know, it's not always the brightest decision...I tend to get caught up in the heat of the moment. Im not saying i blast inside of my girl on the regular, but condoms kill the experience. Sometimes you gotta wear one, but if you have the option, you aint livin unless youre ridin' bareback!

 

[KontrollerX]

Well you could always get snipped and solve the problem for good.

Of course that wouldn't guard against STD's though but it would solve the problem of getting robbed for 18 years.

 

[lookyoung]

I used to use a condomn 100% of the time. But over the last year I use it 80% which is pretty immature on my part. I will start using it 100% of the time from this day on. I had 2 scares over the past year. On one I thought I caught herpes and on the other a cvnt accused me of gettting her pregnant.

 

[STR8UP]

If I have to use a condom, I usually experience so little sexual satisfaction that I don't even care to bust a nut a lot of the time. I can always manage to get it up, and it isn't like I'm not "aroused", but without skin on skin contact it totally kills it for me.

Nowadays if I have to use a rubber I just focus on giving the chick the time of her life. For some reason that's more enjoyable for me than trying to concentrate hard enough to get a nut when you can't feel a goddamned thing.

I would say I use one about 30% of the time, and most of the time it isn't by choice.

 

[PeeGee]

Kegels.

Really now, the reasons in this thread for not wearing a condom scare me.

 

[Magma]

You know, I used to think that not wearing a condom was okay if you knew the girl was clean and on the b.c. However, the more you think about the reprecussions of a child with a woman, the more you realize how stupid it is to NOT wear one.

I mean, come on guys! You really want to blow your earnings on child support for the next 18 years should you slip one past the goalie? It scares the **** out of me to think about it. The sex isn't as good as it could be, obviously, but compared to the consequences of the alternative, I'll wear a rain coat every day and twice on Sundays!

 

[Purple-Haze]

You know, I used to think that not wearing a condom was okay if you knew the girl was clean and on the b.c. However, the more you think about the reprecussions of a child with a woman, the more you realize how stupid it is to NOT wear one.

I mean, come on guys! You really want to blow your earnings on child support for the next 18 years should you slip one past the goalie? It scares the **** out of me to think about it. The sex isn't as good as it could be, obviously, but compared to the consequences of the alternative, I'll wear a rain coat every day and twice on Sundays!

The condom and pill, etc are pretty much on par in terms of preventing pregnancy. If you are in an LTR and know where your partner has been (or hasn't been), then what's the problem with going sans glove?

I personally do not like condoms. I feel that it really takes away from an otherwise intimate experience.

 

[Real_Deal]

The condom and pill, etc are pretty much on par in terms of preventing pregnancy. If you are in an LTR and know where your partner has been (or hasn't been), then what's the problem with going sans glove?

I personally do not like condoms. I feel that it really takes away from an otherwise intimate experience.

I hate condoms but I don't even trust a woman in a LTR not to decide a kid is worth keeping / revenging you.

What if your LTR woman thinks it might be over soon and starts tossing the pills in the garbage because baby payments will keep her fed for nearly 20 years.

 

[STR8UP]

I think you are all going to die lonely deaths. I swear to god this forum is starting to make me sick to my stomach...

I think someone might have gotten their cheerios peed in recently......

 

[Magma]

If you are in an LTR and know where your partner has been (or hasn't been), then what's the problem with going sans glove?

I don't dig on LTR's. Not a fan. I've been in them, and to be honest, I get bored after about 6 months of boning the same chick (aside from my last gf, which I stayed with way too long only because the sex was phenominal). If you're in a committed, long-term relationship, and are sure that both of you are taking every precaution to avoid a pregnancy, then sans glove might be okay for you. But can you ever really trust someone 100%? Even your girlfriend?

However, and I say this with no disrespect, don't be so gullible as to think that there are women out there that won't "accidentally forget" to take a pill, or wait the required amount of days before inserting a new ring and fuk up that cycle. Especially when relationships begin to sour. There are women out there that will leverage a pregnancy against a man.

Like I said, it feels GREAT when your skin on skin. But I'll repeat, compared to the consequences of the alternative (read: pregnancy), I choose GLOVE LOVE.

 

[Magma]

I wonder if half of you are actually gay. You want to put it in a hole without any risk, there's your solution.

You sound like a bunch of selfish pricks.

Condoms REDUCE the risk of pregnancy and the spread of STD's. It's still a risky proposition. Don't kid yourself sir. But it's not like I'm going to stop fvcking women. I'm just going to be SMART when I do.

You want kids? That's fine. I DON'T WANT KIDS! That's why I protect MYSELF. Because no one else will.


And you're goddamn right I'm selfish.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I loathe condoms because they make an otherwise natural part of my sexual experiences clinical.

If I don't trust the chick, I don't poke the chick. This comes with prioritizing what's important to me. Is it the overall experience which makes me grow or taking a moment to slide on a piece of thin rubber which ruins the moment and turns it into just a load dump?

I love Mrs. K and trust her completely which is much more satisfying to me than meeting a chick and dropping a load into a balloon just to pass a momentary urge.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I think you are all going to die lonely deaths. I swear to god this forum is starting to make me sick to my stomach... I don't get you guys at all. You build your DJ skills so that you can participate in the circle of life. Then when you get all the skills you need, you run away screaming. You're still little girls, not men... I don't honestly think that the definition OF A REAL MAN, runs away from pregnancy because a REAL MAN is a supplier of DNA... (thats our fvcking job on this planet) and then ensure that DNA has a fighting chance. I wonder if half of you are actually gay. You want to put it in a hole without any risk, there's your solution.

Why even have sex if you are so concerned about getting a chick pregnant? Why not just cut your **** and balls off altogether and then you don't need to worry about sex, pregnancy or women... Heres a tip: If you don't like the chick or shes fvcked up, DONT SLEEP WITH HER. And for christ sakes don't complain when you get a girl pregnant...

I seriously hope none of you become fathers. You sound like a bunch of selfish pricks. (robbed for 18 years) is that how you describe children... jesus christ what the fvck is this world coming to.

Nothing else to add to this dumbsh!t other than you're an idiot.

 

[KontrollerX]

Never mind him Karma.

Fuzzx is a cool guy in many ways but he still hasn't unplugged from his AFC Knight mentality and feminist programming that says he should just go along with a pregnancy should it happen regardless of if he's told the girl before hand he's just in it for sex and doesn't want kids.

A chick that would deceive Fuzzx in such a way and carry out a pregnancy despite what he told her...hell...and a tear comes to my eye as I say this because I am a compassionate man.

Karma I think fuzz would probably marry the b!tch.

Reality check fuzz: YOU DON'T HAVE TO MARRY THE B!TCH!!!

IT IS NOT DOING THE RIGHT THING EVEN THOUGH THATS WHAT THE FEMINIST MEDIA WILL TELL YOU!!!

So sure pay your child support to avoid getting locked up but just make sure you realize getting screwed over for what it is which being put in this kind of situation is especially if you've told the girl up front that you don't want any kids and the b!tch agrees with you that she doesn't want any either only to betray what you both told eachother later.

There should be laws to protect men against this kind of deception but the feminist brainwashing is so strong even growing DJ's have come to believe it ie they'll "man up" for bullsh!t like this rather than do everything in their power to frustrate the process and force the chick to either get an abortion or just fight for more rights surrounding this issue in general.

And by frustrating the process I mean if a chick tricks you into getting her pregnant you just know that she's either out for a pay day or she mistakenly thinks that deceiving you like this will guarantee that you will stay with her as the man in her life and oh you'll stay with her alright.

For the next 18 years but not as her man.

So by frustrating the process of being robbed I mean tell a chick like this that tells you she is having your kid and there is nothing you can do about it that she will not be able to rob you blind because you will go and get a low paying job at Mcdonalds and that will be the only funds she will be able to steal from you if she goes through with this deception.

Yeah you'll be forced to pay but at least it will be chicken mcnugget wages and not all the great money you were making at a previous job should you of had it together in life and had an awesome high paying job when you met this lying loser.

If she sees that you are serious and you quit your high paying job and go work at Mcdonalds or somewhere else low paying she may rethink her little child creation scam and go get an abortion.

If she genuinely wanted a kid and any man will do you are screwed but eh you can still frustrate the b!tch for as long as you can put up with low wages and I'm all for that in cases of deception.

AFC's though they'll do the feminist version of the "man up" process and marry this lying scumbag and happily pay for a kid they didn't want and didn't ask for.

You see a normal healthy guy that didn't want to be a daddy before fvcking some chick, he's not going to suddenly want to become a daddy after a chick tricks him into getting her pregnant but an AFC oh well he will accept being screwed over and any kind of deception society can throw at him because he simply doesn't know any better.

 

[KarmaSutra]

So sure pay your child support to avoid getting locked up but just make sure you realize getting screwed over for what it is which being put in this kind of situation is especially if you've told the girl up front that you don't want any kids and the b!tch agrees with you that she doesn't want any either only to betray what you both told eachother later.

There should be laws to protect men against this kind of deception but the feminist brainwashing is so strong even growing DJ's have come to believe it ie they'll "man up" for bullsh!t like this rather than do everything in their power to frustrate the process and force the chick to either get an abortion or just fight for more rights surrounding this issue in general.

And by frustrating the process I mean if a chick tricks you into getting her pregnant you just know that she's either out for a pay day or she mistakenly thinks that deceiving you like this will guarantee that you will stay with her as the man in her life and oh you'll stay with her alright.

For the next 18 years but not as her man.

So by frustrating the process of being robbed I mean tell a chick like this that tells you she is having your kid and there is nothing you can do about it that she will not be able to rob you blind because you will go and get a low paying job at Mcdonalds and that will be the only funds she will be able to steal from you if she goes through with this deception.

Yeah you'll be forced to pay but at least it will be chicken mcnugget wages and not all the great money you were making at a previous job should you of had it together in life and had an awesome high paying job when you met this lying loser.

If she sees that you are serious and you quit your high paying job and go work at Mcdonalds or somewhere else low paying she may rethink her little child creation scam and go get an abortion.

If she genuinely wanted a kid and any man will do you are screwed but eh you can still frustrate the b!tch for as long as you can put up with low wages and I'm all for that in cases of deception.

AFC's though they'll do the feminist version of the "man up" process and marry this lying scumbag and happily pay for a kid they didn't want and didn't ask for.

You see a normal healthy guy that didn't want to be a daddy before fvcking some chick, he's not going to suddenly want to become a daddy after a chick tricks him into getting her pregnant but an AFC oh well he will accept being screwed over and any kind of deception society can throw at him because he simply doesn't know any better.

Every word of this is Gospel truth and should be pounded onto every skull and stabbed in every AFC heart.

Brother KontrollerX even took me to school with this beauty!

 

[KontrollerX]

"This forum is full of pure negativity towards women..."

No it isn't. Its full of negativity towards harmful people.
Here we give advice to chicks who make topics and identify bad men in their lives and the lives of their friends the same way we identify bad women in people's lives. We tend to call bad men pr!cks, morons or assh0les and bad women b!tches, slvts and wh0res. Big deal. We're a colorful group on Sosuave filled with colorful language to describe the scumbags we all meet on the road of life.

And anyway since this site is male oriented and dominated more talk is done about bad women.
You however, moron that you are cannot decipher and discern this simple fact and conclude that the site has become negative towards ALL women when that is simply not the case. Hell most of us regard the iqqster as a troll but if you look in the member list for reputation she has a higher rep than Penkitten who the majority of us like as a female poster much more. I think her being higher in rep than Penkitten is a goddamned travesty but her being higher is also proof that we welcome even those we disagree with here which is a huge positive about the site especially when it comes to women we disagree with.

"no I'm not a fvcking afc"

Yes you are. Otherwise you wouldn't be throwing such an infantile temper tantrum.

"and I could probably out game most of you."

In your dreams sweetheart.

"I'm the one who took it upon myself to LEAVE my feminazi country and move to one where women WANT to take care AND PLEASE men.. you lot are the idiots still in the 'land of the free', gaming women who aren't worth sh1t, no wonder you're all scared. No you don't have to marry 'the *****' but why are you dating a ***** anyway? Why are you living in the '*****' society?"

If you are saying you left America or Canada to move to a country without their culture just so you could land some pvssy not only are you an AFC but a pathetic AFC with absolutely no game at all.

"What I see? A bunch of frustrated guys who can't get/choose quality women so they are scared PERIOD.... Newsflash, women and men are here to make more life on earth, NOT LESS. You know what is 'un' natural and weird? A guy that lives purely for himself and wants some weird ass peter pan lifestyle, me me me me (sounds like reverse-feminist talk) and you know what happens to extreme feminists? They become lesbians.l.. I think half of you are clearly on your way to becoming gay."

The way I look at this is a peter pan lifestyle is alright for anyone who wants to live it and men that are going for this playboy type of lifestyle are only working to take back what feminism has brainwashed us that we couldn't or shouldn't have.

As for us becoming gay I think you already are gay pal and are simply looking for a date and fishing for someone interested on this forum to make your little theory be true.
You are a disgrace to the gay community sir. No decent gay person would ever impose their homosexuality on a group of straight men which we have here like you are trying to do just to land a date.

"You do realize that life will go on after the DJs are gone? You do know that the only reason DJ'ing' even exists is because of the internet. You are all a bunch of NERDs... you are SS Nerds... guys who sit around and 'discuss' life instead of actually trying it."

You are babbling now like you are tripping on LSD or some sh!t but I'll try to answer your garbage and I will say that DJing existed long before Al Gore invented the internets and it has exploded because of the internets existance and kind natural born DJ's sharing their secrets with we nerds so that we can choose to grow and become awesome like the naturals already are. Also to call us nerds is the height of stupidity since you are here, you are queer and a Sosuave nerd along with the rest of us little lady.

"I like the way life is, its fvcking fine"

Well then quit b!tching at us about it and have fun living your life if its so great...which I doubt it is if you are this angry.

"and I'm seriously sick of being around a bunch of nut cases who think its a MANs mission in life to **** every chick and have lots of money.... what kind of life is that?"

One of the best lives a man can have you little negative nancy you.

"If you look at REALITY and people in general (Not america/canada mind you), what do you see? People are generally NOT RICH and People are part of 'families'. How did they and YOU get here, by your father giving some DNA to a less than perfect woman. Got some info for you guys (YOUR MOM IS THAT ***** AND YOUR FATHER IS THAT AFC IDIOT). Complete disrespect"

My parents were only together because of their sick co-dependency needs towards eachother. Theirs was not a real relationship based on mutual respect and true love at all but I do love and respect both of them despite what you've said you dumb sh!t and I'm sure everyone else whose parents showed them love respects their parents as well. One thing you need to keep in mind is respect even among ones parents has to be earned through their actions so if ones parents are sh!t and have treated you the child badly then you can feel free to get them out of your life and not respect them at all IDIOT. I don't even know how to respond to your rich people blatherings as its such a drug up rant on your part I don't think even Cheech or Chong themselves could decipher the hyroglyphics.

"What would you all do if there was no such thing as BIRTH CONTROL or CONDOMS...or 'THE INTERNET' what then???? God forbid you might have children and a family to take care of."

Who needs a family or to be married? Its not a requirement to live a fulfilled life you little brainwashed feminist AFC drone you.
A person can be single and live out their lives being content with hooking up and partying if thats what makes them happy.
If one truly wants marriage and family for themselves however I say good for them. A person has to go for what they want, not what you tell them is ok with your stupid rant.

"If we were all as selfish as you pricks there would be NO sosuave website and no information and you'd all still be AFCs walking around with your pocket protectors and coke bottle glasses."

LOL, are you fvckin sh!ttin me? If Allen Thompson couldn't somehow generate money off of this site it would not exist. I'm not saying Allen is a bad guy or anything like that but I'm just saying your point is moronic since capitalism and money making is what this world is all about. This website and information contained within doesn't exist because people are oh so benevolent and kind. It exists as useful information hub that generates money somehow and is motivated by each invidivual man's self interest at improving themselves through the knowledge of others. We all contribute to feed this information flow because it serves our self interests. Not because we are inherintely good dip sh!t.

Even everyone's hero Pook said he was only here for himself and put his posts out there incase someone else could benefit but the primary fact remains. He was here for himself before anybody else. His needs above ours.

"One thing, I guarantee: my DNA will out last your DNA and will be stronger and faster because I take care of my own."

And all your children will hate you and your wife will divorce you because Karma is right. You are a fvckin idiot.

 

[Colossus]

This forum is full of pure negativity towards women... no I'm not a fvcking afc and I could probably out game most of you. I'm the one who took it upon myself to LEAVE my feminazi country and move to one where women WANT to take care AND PLEASE men.. you lot are the idiots still in the 'land of the free', gaming women who aren't worth sh1t, no wonder you're all scared. No you don't have to marry 'the *****' but why are you dating a ***** anyway? Why are you living in the '*****' society?

What I see? A bunch of frustrated guys who can't get/choose quality women so they are scared PERIOD.... Newsflash, women and men are here to make more life on earth, NOT LESS. You know what is 'un' natural and weird? A guy that lives purely for himself and wants some weird ass peter pan lifestyle, me me me me (sounds like reverse-feminist talk) and you know what happens to extreme feminists? They become lesbians.l.. I think half of you are clearly on your way to becoming gay. (This bs about owning 'things' was also sold to you by your feminist media)

You do realize that life will go on after the DJs are gone? You do know that the only reason DJ'ing' even exists is because of the internet. You are all a bunch of NERDs... you are SS Nerds... guys who sit around and 'discuss' life instead of actually trying it.

I'm seriously sick of being around a bunch of nut cases who think its a MANs mission in life to **** every chick and have lots of money.... what kind of life is that? If you look at REALITY and people in general (Not america/canada mind you), what do you see? People are generally NOT RICH and People are part of 'families'. YOU and THEY got here the same way, your father giving some DNA to a less than perfect woman. Got some info for you guys (YOUR MOM IS THAT ***** AND YOUR FATHER IS THAT AFC IDIOT) and if your mom had an abortion, YOU WOULDN'T BE HERE. Complete disrespect.

What would you all do if there was no such thing as BIRTH CONTROL or CONDOMS...or 'THE INTERNET' what then???? God forbid you might have children and a family to take care of.

If we were all as selfish as you pricks there would be NO sosuave website and no information and you'd all still be AFCs walking around with your pocket protectors and coke bottle glasses. We would have no one to take care of children and teach them how to be men, we'd have more irresponsible fathers who consider their children to be little more than garbage, to be fed money and tossed out with the trash. You all make me sick... I really hope you are successful at your DJ careers because you are writing yourselves and your DNA out of life... You are no better than the AFCs you started as.

One thing, I guarantee: my DNA will out last your DNA and will be stronger and faster because I take care of my own.

Who sh!t in your mess kit, dude...

I intended this to be a funny thread about wearing condoms.

You were obviously blatantly offended by someone's take on it, but one or two people's opinions arent necessarily reflective of this whole community.

No birth control is foolproof and women get pregnant all the time. I think if you do happen to get a woman pregnant you should own up to it and support that kid and be a stand-up father. It is part of life. So she's a b!tch? Yeah, that's still life and you are no less responsible for the child just because she may be a b!tch or a money-grubber. The child did not ask to be brought into the world and two people are responsible for it. If she wants to abort then it is ultimately her call. I personally wouldnt endorse it, but that's me.

Not all women are money-grubbing cheating *****s who wish to rob us blind. Most of them are just trying to get by like you and I. I have no doubt that there are a lot of good men here who live solid lives and have strong principles. There are also a lot of douchebags. Whatever, it's the web. You can read or not read someone's take. I am here to better myself and learn better ways to deal with things. I really dont care what kind of lives everyone else lives. I have my own problems and challenges.

So chill, fuzz. Your DNA is no more special than anyone elses. Engaging in useless battles on a web forum is a lot like the special olympics. Even if you win, you're still retarded.

 

[KontrollerX]

ok you got me... thats right, I'm working with the feminists... yes that MUST be it. I MUST be an AFC...

I'm glad you are so smart Kx... I bow down to your infinite wisdom..as you, victory unlimited, interceptor and the rest of the SS nerds seem to have an answer to everything... I'm done posting for the likes of you. Go have a LAN party, you are truly victorious.

Yep you are livin so well (your words in an earlier post!) you are back for yet another little troll comment.

Get the fvck outta here already ya fvckin tool.

Stop trying to defend your non existant honor and your pathetic life at our expense.

And take care that the door doesn't slap your little ass on the way out. :crackup:

 

[KarmaSutra]

ok you got me... thats right, I'm working with the feminists... yes that MUST be it. I MUST be an AFC... I'm angry because you are writing yourself out of life... but you know what... I should be happy shouldn't I. Go on dude I agree now with what you are doing.

I'm glad you are all so certain of yourselves Kx... I bow down to your infinite wisdom, you are truly a diplomat, you have won me over..as you, victory unlimited, karma, interceptor and the rest of the SS nerds seem to have an answer to everything... I'm done posting for the likes of you. Go have a LAN party, you are truly victorious.

Don't let the door hit you hard on the ass while you sache' your sweetness out of here.

If you have the answers to women go and become the next "Guru" like RJ or Deangelo. My next guess would be you'd be just as big a failure in that path as in this one.

 

[bigjohnson]

I keep saying this, no one listens. Guys, take action and control your own damn destiny.

• Step 1: Store some little soldiers in multiple, secure facilities for future use.
• Step 2: Snip. Get a vasectomy already, don't be a chicken****.
• Step 3: Steps 1&2 are your personal business, don't air them.
• Step 4: Laugh your ass off while you're having porn star sex with the girl who thinks she has just trapped you. Then, if she really is pregnant, tell her you're sterile and next her.

It's really simple.