SeymourCake
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I think this is a crock load of bullsh*t. Why not come forth right after it happened? He could she tell if she was groped when she waa drugged up? Something doesn't add up.
Bill Cosby [merged]
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It could be a number of reasons:SeymourCake said:
Shame
Fear of losing one's career and livelihood
Legal costs
Fear of the ensuing media circus
Generally speaking it takes a while for victims of sexual abuse and rape to come to terms with what happened to them. It typically takes years and therapy before someone feels like a victim and a survivor and lose the misplaced guilt and shame.
Is Bill Cosby a somnophiliac?
http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2014/12/10/is-bill-cosby-somnophiliac/
Is Bill Cosby a somnophiliac?
At least 16 women have accused Bill Cosby of sexual assault, and in many cases their stories are eerily similar: The women claim the comedian gave them some pills and proceeded to assault them.
But one woman, Dr. Charlotte Laws, claims her friend had a long-running affair with Cosby in the early ‘80s and was drugged by him, too, even though they were already in a consensual sexual relationship.
“[My friend] came to me and was distraught and said he had drugged her and had sex with her, and she said ‘it’s not like I would have said no to anything,’” Laws told FOX411. “She was pretty sexually adventuresome. She was perplexed as to why he would have done that, and she felt betrayed and she was confused about it.”
Laws said her friend, whose name she does not wish to reveal, eventually split from Cosby, but Laws kept in touch with him because she “liked him as a person.” She said looking back on the incident she suspects the famed comedy king drugged her friend because he enjoyed having power over her. Laws, who holds a Ph.D. in social ethics, recalled a strange meeting when she heard him offer her friend a large sum of money to grow her hair longer. Laws claims Cosby even offered her money to convince her friend to grow her hair as he’d asked.
“It could be that he enjoyed having that power over women or that control over someone who was not in control,” she speculated. “I think that he probably… it turns him on somehow to see a woman incapacitated or out or not in control of herself.”
The word “somnophiliac,” meaning someone who is aroused by sex with a person who is asleep or unconscious, has popped up in several articles related to the recent Cosby allegations. Could the man once dubbed “America’s dad” indeed be a somnophiliac who wanted to have sex with unconscious women?
According to Dr. Judy Kuriansky, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist who has not treated Cosby, if the women’s accounts of their interactions with Cosby are true, he is a somnophiliac who also suffers from a serious need to dominate and control other people.
“Basically, this is an inability to have a normal, sexually intimate and respectful exchange with a partner,” Kuriansky explained. “Therefore, that partner needs to be drugged and semi-conscious in order for [one] to interact. It is not a matter of the sexual pleasure as it is of the dominance or control.”
Kuriansky emphasized that in some relationships partners fantasize about and even engage in “sleepy sex,” where they agree that one person can have sex with the other while they are sleeping, but when drugging and sexual assault are involved it becomes a dysfunction.
“We have differences between people who have fantasies about these things [and] people who have actually carried these fantasies into an act,” she said.
Dr. Mark Griffiths, of Nottingham Trent University, however, countered that from the extensive research he’s done on somnophilia he believes the paraphilia – another term for sexual deviation -- is very rare and is probably not a factor in the alleged Cosby rapes.
“I think [allegedly] using roofies to drug people is definitely one step removed from being a direct somnophiliac,” he said. “The date rape is just about having total power over somebody but not about being asleep as much.”
Both doctors agreed that somnophilia is on a larger spectrum of sexual behavior and it is somewhat related to necrophilia, which is the sexual attraction to corpses.
“I refer to it being pseudo-necrophilia,” Griffiths said. “There are some people who really won’t go through a necrophilia act but having someone who is drugged or asleep may be enough for someone.”
Kuriansky, who teaches a course about human intimacy at the Columbia Teachers College, speculated if Cosby is suffering from any type of sexual perversion it is likely due to an incident during his childhood.
“I would love to have him on the couch to explore how some of his early childhood behavior led to this need to [allegedly] dominate women and the difficulty with intimacy,” she said.
Laws said she suspects based on what she knows of him, Cosby probably has somnophilia.
“People take incredible risks when they have compulsions or obsessions,” she said. “It seems he gambled it all -- his career and legacy --and he lost.”
Cosby’s lawyer, Martin Singer, did not return FOX411’s request for comment.
Cosby, 77, has never been criminally charged stemming from any of the sex-abuse allegations, many of which date back to the 1960s, 1970s and 1980s.
http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2014/12/10/is-bill-cosby-somnophiliac/
Is Bill Cosby a somnophiliac?
At least 16 women have accused Bill Cosby of sexual assault, and in many cases their stories are eerily similar: The women claim the comedian gave them some pills and proceeded to assault them.
But one woman, Dr. Charlotte Laws, claims her friend had a long-running affair with Cosby in the early ‘80s and was drugged by him, too, even though they were already in a consensual sexual relationship.
“[My friend] came to me and was distraught and said he had drugged her and had sex with her, and she said ‘it’s not like I would have said no to anything,’” Laws told FOX411. “She was pretty sexually adventuresome. She was perplexed as to why he would have done that, and she felt betrayed and she was confused about it.”
Laws said her friend, whose name she does not wish to reveal, eventually split from Cosby, but Laws kept in touch with him because she “liked him as a person.” She said looking back on the incident she suspects the famed comedy king drugged her friend because he enjoyed having power over her. Laws, who holds a Ph.D. in social ethics, recalled a strange meeting when she heard him offer her friend a large sum of money to grow her hair longer. Laws claims Cosby even offered her money to convince her friend to grow her hair as he’d asked.
“It could be that he enjoyed having that power over women or that control over someone who was not in control,” she speculated. “I think that he probably… it turns him on somehow to see a woman incapacitated or out or not in control of herself.”
The word “somnophiliac,” meaning someone who is aroused by sex with a person who is asleep or unconscious, has popped up in several articles related to the recent Cosby allegations. Could the man once dubbed “America’s dad” indeed be a somnophiliac who wanted to have sex with unconscious women?
According to Dr. Judy Kuriansky, a clinical psychologist and sex therapist who has not treated Cosby, if the women’s accounts of their interactions with Cosby are true, he is a somnophiliac who also suffers from a serious need to dominate and control other people.
“Basically, this is an inability to have a normal, sexually intimate and respectful exchange with a partner,” Kuriansky explained. “Therefore, that partner needs to be drugged and semi-conscious in order for [one] to interact. It is not a matter of the sexual pleasure as it is of the dominance or control.”
Kuriansky emphasized that in some relationships partners fantasize about and even engage in “sleepy sex,” where they agree that one person can have sex with the other while they are sleeping, but when drugging and sexual assault are involved it becomes a dysfunction.
“We have differences between people who have fantasies about these things [and] people who have actually carried these fantasies into an act,” she said.
Dr. Mark Griffiths, of Nottingham Trent University, however, countered that from the extensive research he’s done on somnophilia he believes the paraphilia – another term for sexual deviation -- is very rare and is probably not a factor in the alleged Cosby rapes.
“I think [allegedly] using roofies to drug people is definitely one step removed from being a direct somnophiliac,” he said. “The date rape is just about having total power over somebody but not about being asleep as much.”
Both doctors agreed that somnophilia is on a larger spectrum of sexual behavior and it is somewhat related to necrophilia, which is the sexual attraction to corpses.
“I refer to it being pseudo-necrophilia,” Griffiths said. “There are some people who really won’t go through a necrophilia act but having someone who is drugged or asleep may be enough for someone.”
Kuriansky, who teaches a course about human intimacy at the Columbia Teachers College, speculated if Cosby is suffering from any type of sexual perversion it is likely due to an incident during his childhood.
“I would love to have him on the couch to explore how some of his early childhood behavior led to this need to [allegedly] dominate women and the difficulty with intimacy,” she said.
Laws said she suspects based on what she knows of him, Cosby probably has somnophilia.
“People take incredible risks when they have compulsions or obsessions,” she said. “It seems he gambled it all -- his career and legacy --and he lost.”
Cosby’s lawyer, Martin Singer, did not return FOX411’s request for comment.
Cosby, 77, has never been criminally charged stemming from any of the sex-abuse allegations, many of which date back to the 1960s, 1970s and 1980s.
Bill Cosby Accuser Meets With Police, Will Pursue Sexual Assault Charges
http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slat...e_model_meets_with_los_angeles_police_to.html
In December, a 24-year-old model named Chloe Goins told the Daily Mail that Bill Cosby had sexually assaulted her. Goins said that in 2008, when she was 18, she met Cosby at the Playboy mansion, drank a mixed drink he handed her, passed out, then woke up to find herself naked in a bed, with Cosby masturbating over her and licking her toes. Today, Goins met with police to pursue formal criminal charges against Cosby in Los Angeles.
Since 2000, 32 women have gone public with accusations that Cosby drugged or sexually assaulted them. Most of them came forward after the statute of limitations for filing criminal charges and civil suits related to the incidents had expired, but some have tried, and failed, to make criminal charges stick. In 2000, 20-year-old actress Lachele Covington filed a police report in New York City accusing Cosby of grabbing her hand and guiding it down his sweatpants; police determined that no crime had occurred. And in 2005, Temple University employee Andrea Constand told Ontario police that Cosby had fed her a pill, “touched her breasts and vaginal area, rubbed his penis against her hand, and digitally penetrated” her in Pennsylvania; a local prosecutor declined to pursue charges, citing lack of evidence. Constand later sued Cosby in civil court and settled for an undisclosed amount. In December, Judy Huth filed her own lawsuit against Cosby, alleging that he’d fed her alcohol and sexually assaulted her at the Playboy mansion in the 1970s, when she was 15 years old.
“Ms. Goins is now determined to accomplish what so many other victims no longer have the opportunity to do—to be the girl that puts Mr. Cosby behind bars, where he belongs,” Goins’ attorney, Spencer Kuvin, said in a statement today. Kuvin acknowledged that Goins’ decision lays an “immense responsibility” on her shoulders, but she’ll have at least some help from the LAPD, which has pledged to investigate any reports against Cosby filed in Los Angeles, even for incidents that fall outside the statute of limitations. (It's not yet clear if Goins' claims do). Officers have already begun looking into Huth’s allegations, and have urged others with information to come forward. In November, as the claims against Cosby mounted, Cosby lawyer John P. Schmitt said in a statement that “Mr. Cosby does not intend to dignify these allegations with any comment.” This time, he may not have a choice.
http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slat...e_model_meets_with_los_angeles_police_to.html
In December, a 24-year-old model named Chloe Goins told the Daily Mail that Bill Cosby had sexually assaulted her. Goins said that in 2008, when she was 18, she met Cosby at the Playboy mansion, drank a mixed drink he handed her, passed out, then woke up to find herself naked in a bed, with Cosby masturbating over her and licking her toes. Today, Goins met with police to pursue formal criminal charges against Cosby in Los Angeles.
Since 2000, 32 women have gone public with accusations that Cosby drugged or sexually assaulted them. Most of them came forward after the statute of limitations for filing criminal charges and civil suits related to the incidents had expired, but some have tried, and failed, to make criminal charges stick. In 2000, 20-year-old actress Lachele Covington filed a police report in New York City accusing Cosby of grabbing her hand and guiding it down his sweatpants; police determined that no crime had occurred. And in 2005, Temple University employee Andrea Constand told Ontario police that Cosby had fed her a pill, “touched her breasts and vaginal area, rubbed his penis against her hand, and digitally penetrated” her in Pennsylvania; a local prosecutor declined to pursue charges, citing lack of evidence. Constand later sued Cosby in civil court and settled for an undisclosed amount. In December, Judy Huth filed her own lawsuit against Cosby, alleging that he’d fed her alcohol and sexually assaulted her at the Playboy mansion in the 1970s, when she was 15 years old.
“Ms. Goins is now determined to accomplish what so many other victims no longer have the opportunity to do—to be the girl that puts Mr. Cosby behind bars, where he belongs,” Goins’ attorney, Spencer Kuvin, said in a statement today. Kuvin acknowledged that Goins’ decision lays an “immense responsibility” on her shoulders, but she’ll have at least some help from the LAPD, which has pledged to investigate any reports against Cosby filed in Los Angeles, even for incidents that fall outside the statute of limitations. (It's not yet clear if Goins' claims do). Officers have already begun looking into Huth’s allegations, and have urged others with information to come forward. In November, as the claims against Cosby mounted, Cosby lawyer John P. Schmitt said in a statement that “Mr. Cosby does not intend to dignify these allegations with any comment.” This time, he may not have a choice.
cordoncordon
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I really have to LOL out the people defending this creep early in the thread.
This guy is as dirty as they come.
This guy is as dirty as they come.
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The Many Hoes of Pill Cosby
Are some of hoes looking to get paid? Hell, I don't know. Probably. However, I do know this, out of 35 women, not all of them are lying. Also, these are the women that came forward, don't forget about the chicks who took the cash out and kept their mouths shut. So the number of chicks he raped could actually be higher. This is some disturbing sh*t. You're Pill effing Cosby. You have chicks literally throwin' you the ass, but you feel the need to engage in this f*ckery. For example one of the chicks who's accusing him of giving her ludes and taking the ass was 15 years old at the time (it was 1974,) and he met her at a party at the Playboy Mansion.
A 15 year old at the Playboy Mansion, in the 70's. Come on, bruh. We all know why ole girl was there. She was down to f*ck. She probably would have willingly given Pill the ass, (being that it was the 70's,) popped the ludes, but potna had to engage into some ole deviant sh*t. Shakin' my muthaf*ckin' head.
http://www.slate.com/content/dam/sl..._content/renditions/cq5dam.web.1280.1280.jpeg
That empty chair is some cold sh*t.
Are some of hoes looking to get paid? Hell, I don't know. Probably. However, I do know this, out of 35 women, not all of them are lying. Also, these are the women that came forward, don't forget about the chicks who took the cash out and kept their mouths shut. So the number of chicks he raped could actually be higher. This is some disturbing sh*t. You're Pill effing Cosby. You have chicks literally throwin' you the ass, but you feel the need to engage in this f*ckery. For example one of the chicks who's accusing him of giving her ludes and taking the ass was 15 years old at the time (it was 1974,) and he met her at a party at the Playboy Mansion.
A 15 year old at the Playboy Mansion, in the 70's. Come on, bruh. We all know why ole girl was there. She was down to f*ck. She probably would have willingly given Pill the ass, (being that it was the 70's,) popped the ludes, but potna had to engage into some ole deviant sh*t. Shakin' my muthaf*ckin' head.
http://www.slate.com/content/dam/sl..._content/renditions/cq5dam.web.1280.1280.jpeg
That empty chair is some cold sh*t.