skip2mylou781
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So you've done a cold approach, u got the #, u have the date, u make out passionately in the back of ur car/at the park/at the movies/even at ur house
maybe feel her up a lil bit, maybe finger her, maybe she rubs ur c0ck, but of course if ur somewhere remotely public, then chances are u wont have sex with her that night. So you take her home say bye and ill call u......
THEN WHAT HAPPENS????
all of a sudden u somehow someway end up never seeing her again!!!!
i KNOW that for all those who got lotsa experience with girls have this happen at least sometimes, AFCs probly have it happen the most (if they even get to the point of kissing the girl lol), players have it happen sometimes due to bein with so many girls and obv not ALWAYS having 100% success....and im sure even those who consider themselves alpha male have had this happen too!
so, WHAT IS THE MISTAKE I SPEAK OF????
THE GUY DOES NOT ATTEMPT TO ESCALATE THE KISSING/FONDLING INTO SEX
i know for a fact that if i take a sample size of 10 girls ive at teh very least kissed, i ended up fvckin girls who i didnt think i would, but i did simply cuz i TOOK THEM TO MY ROOM, PUT THEM ON MY BED, AND JUST ESCALATED THE KISSING INTO SEX
but out of those 10, i did that to lets say only 4 or 5.........and well well well, the other 5 or 6 girls i for some reason simply decided not to try to escalate, and what happened?? I NEVER SAW THEM AGAIN
lets look at it this way - best case scenario/worst case scenario if u choose to escalate from kissing to sex
worst case - she says NO and u carry on with the kissing, then decide if shes worth it later (btw turn up the kino and eye contact and try to finger her, she mite change her mind
best case - u take the kissing and turn it into sex by simply progressing and escalating things (kissing, rubbing, fingering, undressing, ect) - aka u END UP GETTIN LAID
this is why, my advice (and i speak from successes AND failures) is no matter WHERE U ARE, whether its dinner, movies, bowling, action date, club, WHEREVER THE **** U ARE, always and i mean ALWAYS ask her subtly if she wants to go back to ur place to watch a movie, eat, drink, w/e (make it subtle, but she WILL get the hint that u wanna **** her) and if she says YES, then u are 100% in and the only thing that could stop u from getting laid at that point is YOU
by the way, goign to HER place would work too
****IN ESCALATE - ive made the mistakes of not escalating and i would prob have ****ed the girls that i didnt ****, yet at the same time there were girls i didnt really think id **** but thanks to me just going for it, to my surprise, i DID **** them (girls seem to really want to have sex as long as its all private and no one knows about it aka they dont fear people seeing them as a slut)
just some advice there, no matter if ur afc, pimp, alpha, virgin, THIS is the #1 reason u didnt get laid by the last girl that u passionately made out with and then never saw again!
maybe feel her up a lil bit, maybe finger her, maybe she rubs ur c0ck, but of course if ur somewhere remotely public, then chances are u wont have sex with her that night. So you take her home say bye and ill call u......
THEN WHAT HAPPENS????
all of a sudden u somehow someway end up never seeing her again!!!!
i KNOW that for all those who got lotsa experience with girls have this happen at least sometimes, AFCs probly have it happen the most (if they even get to the point of kissing the girl lol), players have it happen sometimes due to bein with so many girls and obv not ALWAYS having 100% success....and im sure even those who consider themselves alpha male have had this happen too!
so, WHAT IS THE MISTAKE I SPEAK OF????
THE GUY DOES NOT ATTEMPT TO ESCALATE THE KISSING/FONDLING INTO SEX
i know for a fact that if i take a sample size of 10 girls ive at teh very least kissed, i ended up fvckin girls who i didnt think i would, but i did simply cuz i TOOK THEM TO MY ROOM, PUT THEM ON MY BED, AND JUST ESCALATED THE KISSING INTO SEX
but out of those 10, i did that to lets say only 4 or 5.........and well well well, the other 5 or 6 girls i for some reason simply decided not to try to escalate, and what happened?? I NEVER SAW THEM AGAIN
lets look at it this way - best case scenario/worst case scenario if u choose to escalate from kissing to sex
worst case - she says NO and u carry on with the kissing, then decide if shes worth it later (btw turn up the kino and eye contact and try to finger her, she mite change her mind
best case - u take the kissing and turn it into sex by simply progressing and escalating things (kissing, rubbing, fingering, undressing, ect) - aka u END UP GETTIN LAID
this is why, my advice (and i speak from successes AND failures) is no matter WHERE U ARE, whether its dinner, movies, bowling, action date, club, WHEREVER THE **** U ARE, always and i mean ALWAYS ask her subtly if she wants to go back to ur place to watch a movie, eat, drink, w/e (make it subtle, but she WILL get the hint that u wanna **** her) and if she says YES, then u are 100% in and the only thing that could stop u from getting laid at that point is YOU
by the way, goign to HER place would work too
****IN ESCALATE - ive made the mistakes of not escalating and i would prob have ****ed the girls that i didnt ****, yet at the same time there were girls i didnt really think id **** but thanks to me just going for it, to my surprise, i DID **** them (girls seem to really want to have sex as long as its all private and no one knows about it aka they dont fear people seeing them as a slut)
just some advice there, no matter if ur afc, pimp, alpha, virgin, THIS is the #1 reason u didnt get laid by the last girl that u passionately made out with and then never saw again!