Hey,
I had a problem which I am not sure that can be helped, just looking for anything I can get as advice. I just recently found out that my ex-gf is pregnant. Here is the thing, we broke up on very bad terms and she is overreacting and completely hates my guts as of right now. I think it is retarded because I didn't cheat on her or hit her, I jus said some nasty things in a letter and that was it... and shes holding it against me for over a month. Anyways, the problem is she will NOT under any circumstances talk to me anymore. I had to basically leave a msg saying its an emergency for her to call back so I could even ask if she was pregnant or not (I had a feeling she might have been), and she said she was, I was in shock. Ok, so right now she is completely ignoring me not pickin up any calls or respondin to anything (she said the last time we talked would be out last), and I really want to know wats goin on in her mind, like she said shes actaully thought about keeping the baby but is pretty sure about the abortion, but pretty sure jsut isnt good enough in this situation if u know wat i mean, i dont want to find out 10 years later i have a child! She is crazy too, she wasnt even goin to tell me she was pregnant if i didnt call her, she told me this. Ok so any advice or thoughts or solutions will be great.
o yea an she lives like 2 hours away and i was thinkin bout just driving over an waitin outside her house but i dunno how she will react or if she will even be at home (she has a hectic work schedule).
thanks.
I had a problem which I am not sure that can be helped, just looking for anything I can get as advice. I just recently found out that my ex-gf is pregnant. Here is the thing, we broke up on very bad terms and she is overreacting and completely hates my guts as of right now. I think it is retarded because I didn't cheat on her or hit her, I jus said some nasty things in a letter and that was it... and shes holding it against me for over a month. Anyways, the problem is she will NOT under any circumstances talk to me anymore. I had to basically leave a msg saying its an emergency for her to call back so I could even ask if she was pregnant or not (I had a feeling she might have been), and she said she was, I was in shock. Ok, so right now she is completely ignoring me not pickin up any calls or respondin to anything (she said the last time we talked would be out last), and I really want to know wats goin on in her mind, like she said shes actaully thought about keeping the baby but is pretty sure about the abortion, but pretty sure jsut isnt good enough in this situation if u know wat i mean, i dont want to find out 10 years later i have a child! She is crazy too, she wasnt even goin to tell me she was pregnant if i didnt call her, she told me this. Ok so any advice or thoughts or solutions will be great.
o yea an she lives like 2 hours away and i was thinkin bout just driving over an waitin outside her house but i dunno how she will react or if she will even be at home (she has a hectic work schedule).
thanks.
