BIG PROBLEM with HB that i met thru internet

[Jango_Xavier]

About 2 weeks ago i met this hb thru internet in a very very strange way id say its in the top 10 list of strange meeting, we havent meet each other yet but weve seen pictures of each other and after new years were gonna meet. The thing is we have heaps in common and can talk 4 ages about everything and nothing, she also said she estactic about meeting me if she had a she'd come over right away. The thing thats troubling us is were in a way scared that it wont click between us as it does thru internet but thats becaue of the safety barrier thru the internet, could anyone plz give me some advice on what i should do, id really appreciate any advice. Ill just recap on what the question is what can i do 2 have more chance that after it becomes more than just a meeting? this might sound a little afcish but im out of my afc shell im on my way 2 djhood.

Jango_X

 

[D4H]

Um... if you want to save time, id say NEXT.
1) You met her through the internet
2) You talked to her for AGES
3) You've already admitted you are worried when you guys meet you wont click.

These 3 things show her that you lack in the confidence department.

If you really want to hook up with her... go ahead.
Grab your balls, set up the date, and make things work... dont be all wishy washy "hoping" that things work. You're the man.

 

[Jango_Xavier]

Whahahahahahahahaha, ur right.
Well yesterday we made a sort of semi date so ive got a week left 2 build a little confidence but im also very cheerful person so u dont see as fast that im lacking in the confidence department but i think she just as unconfident as me.

Oh my god what i said in post was afcish but didnt really notice i was drunk when i posted.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Since you talked to her for 'ages' - I would suggest you quit talking and set up a date and until then do little, if any correspondence. I would plan an activity to do - you talked enough and now it is time to have fun. She seems interested already so don't try to impress too much.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

Yeah listen to the rican. Set things up with her, turn down contact. One thing though, dont expect much, your a novice, chalk it as a learning experience. Remember the internet is the breeding ground of psychos,(sike ho's)insecure, low sense of self people. I'll let you think about that one.

 

[barbarianthemadserb]

About 4 years ago I met this girl on the internet. It was thru one of those chat rooms which I do not frequent any more. We talked for ages-at least 7 months before she felt comfortable to meet me. We got to really know each other on the net. Just prior to actually meeting, we both had the same anxieties. But, when we both met in person, it was no different from the net! It was as if we had met months before. There was no difference between the net chats and in person! We hit it off. Had sex that same night (dang was she hot to trot-haahhaa). I did not act any different from the net chats to the actual physical meeting. There were no surprises for either her or me.
What I am saying is not to sweat it dude.
M

 

[Tao of Steve]

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when u meet a girl online, make sure as a rule to not spend too much time emailing. exchange a few emails, get a vauge sense that there is some interest, and set a meeting.

its essential that u meet in person, or u will develop an unrealistic image of each other.