Well, in Pook's anti-dump machine, it is stated that you shouldnt be with a girl more than once a week in the 1st month, to keep the mistery and the excitment of getting to know eachother, letting her wish to be with you again.
I started dating a girl a month ago. And during the first 3 week i gave her a lot of atention. Since she had little spare time during the day, and can only go out on saturdays, if i wanted to be with her, it had to be in her free time, which kinda bothered me in terms of keeping the control.
So i gave her a lot of atention for 3 weeks, i was kinda loosing control and even tough i knew i shouldnt be talking to her again so soon, or in msn in the next day, i did, and did again.
I knew i had to be the strong link, and finally i did it. Last weekend i setup going out with friends, and she went along. This weekend im going to dinner with 5 of my best friends, and she said she will meet me there cause all she wants is to be with me. This week i spend it all away from her, at other town, and guess what when i come back.. She told me she called me twice last day, but my phone was off, that she felt a pain in her heart cause of not being able to reach to me, thinking to herself about my whereabouts. And then told me she's in love with me.
3 weeks of hard atention, and 1 week of no atention at all, made her see how much she misses me, and that she's in love with me.
I started dating a girl a month ago. And during the first 3 week i gave her a lot of atention. Since she had little spare time during the day, and can only go out on saturdays, if i wanted to be with her, it had to be in her free time, which kinda bothered me in terms of keeping the control.
So i gave her a lot of atention for 3 weeks, i was kinda loosing control and even tough i knew i shouldnt be talking to her again so soon, or in msn in the next day, i did, and did again.
I knew i had to be the strong link, and finally i did it. Last weekend i setup going out with friends, and she went along. This weekend im going to dinner with 5 of my best friends, and she said she will meet me there cause all she wants is to be with me. This week i spend it all away from her, at other town, and guess what when i come back.. She told me she called me twice last day, but my phone was off, that she felt a pain in her heart cause of not being able to reach to me, thinking to herself about my whereabouts. And then told me she's in love with me.
3 weeks of hard atention, and 1 week of no atention at all, made her see how much she misses me, and that she's in love with me.