Biatch!

[Boricua_33015]

For some reason I get really offended when I get called a b1tch. I never really get called a b1tch for any specific reason because I don't act like one. There is a difference between being called a b1tch because you were acting like one and DESERVED to be called one, and being called a b1tch for no specific reason at all.

Its like, when a guy says "hey b1tch" or "later b1tch". I don't know why they do this. They might be playing around and all but still what the hell will people around me think when someone he calls me a b1tch? Do they call me a b1tch on purpose because it has a hidden meaning? Do they call me a b1tch because they think they have more POWER than me!? What is the damn reason?

I swear next time a guy calls me b1tch for no reason, or because he thinks he has more power than me and can call me that Im not going to take it lightly, Im not even going to laugh, Im going to say "dont call me that I aint a b1tch". And if he refuses to stop I will be forced to beat the living sh*t out of him. I cant take someone calling me a b1tch for no damn reason so it can make me look like a b*tch in front of people. I can take it if I deserve it but I never deserve it.

my questions are.....

1. what is the reason that a guy would call me that? I have done nothing for him to call me that.

2. am I doing the right thing telling him to stop and if not then take it into physical aggression.

3. Am I just taking it to the heart and really shouldnt care about it?

4. Who does this guy think he is? DOes he think he has more power than me? He IS bigger than me, but it doesn't intimidate me at all.

 

[Solja J]

Forget about what they think about you. You know you're not a ***** so dont worry about it. Remember you are what you think and not what they think. So the hell with them man what they call you is what they think of themselves!

 

[Eventide]

quit crying like a little b!tch and maybe you wont get called one

seriously, "wha wha I slapped my friend," "wha wha I got called a b!tch."

Read your post again. It serves no purpose. You aren't giving or asking for advice, you're simply crying to us, but then telling us you aren't going to take it. Good for you. But guess what, "Those who can: do. Those who can't: talk about it."

Less talk, more do.

 

[Boricua_33015]

well my questions, I forgot to put them, are:

1. what is the reason that a guy would call me that? I have done nothing for him to call me that.

2. am I doing the right thing telling him to stop and if not then take it into physical aggression.

3. Am I just taking it to the heart and really shouldnt care about it?

4. Who does this guy think he is? DOes he think he has more power than me? He IS bigger than me, but it doesn't intimidate me at all.

Eventide, there are my questions. But I gotta tell you something. I dont cry like a b1tch to anyone, so the guy has no reason really to call me one. The reason why I come on here and post things like this is because I am always told that I handle things the wrong way. Im looking for ways to handle these things maybe without physical agression. Perhaps maybe a COMEBACK or something that I cant think of.

Now tell me, WHAT THE FVCK IS WRONG WITH THAT!?

 

[Pheonix:ScndrlReborn]

Originally posted by Boricua_33015
well my questions, I forgot to put them, are:

1. what is the reason that a guy would call me that? I have done nothing for him to call me that.

You whine constantly. Every little thing, you come to this board, vomiting your emotions on us, you're worse than a woman.

2. am I doing the right thing telling him to stop and if not then take it into physical aggression.

Stop being a *****, and he'll stop calling you one.

3. Am I just taking it to the heart and really shouldnt care about it?

I would care if someone called me a *****.

4. Who does this guy think he is? DOes he think he has more power than me? He IS bigger than me, but it doesn't intimidate me at all.

If you let him treat you like a *****, he will.

 

[Eventide]

Whats wrong with that? Nothing. My response was to the first post, which has no questions, just crying.

Now to your questions.

1. He calls you that because watching you struggle to think of a comeback, watching you take it to heart, makes him feel more powerful.

2. Personally, I feel that if you were to say anything along those lines, warning him to stop, would make him feel even better, because it would be hard proof to him and everyone else that you are taking it to heart.

Of course, this depends on how you do it. If you're like, "dude don't call me a b!tch or else I'm gonna hurt you." Then its proof. Just tell him to watch his fvcking mouth.

3. You are taking it to heart, which you shouldn't do, and I don't think you should really care about it.

4. Of course he sees himself to be more powerful than you. Of course he thinks he is better than you. He sees you as an easy target, you're a tasty gazelle for the tiger to feast on in his eyes.

If I were you, and he called me a b!tch, I would grab my balls, smile, and say, "yeah I got your b!tch right here" and walk away.

 

[Superman X]

I haven't read your post, and I'm not going to help you either because your a b!tch.

 

[heteropedro]

How come you have 2 posts complaining about being mae fun of. If you can be made fun of and not let it get to you than your fine. Your probably making it really obvious that your letting it get to you. Stop being such a pus2y and shrug it off.

 

[MoAF]

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[DX_Flyer]

Originally posted by Eventide
quit crying like a little b!tch and maybe you wont get called one

seriously, "wha wha I slapped my friend," "wha wha I got called a b!tch."

Read your post again. It serves no purpose. You aren't giving or asking for advice, you're simply crying to us, but then telling us you aren't going to take it. Good for you. But guess what, "Those who can: do. Those who can't: talk about it."

Less talk, more do.

what he said. you should be able to answer those questions on your own, if not, you need alot of self esteem and confidence.

 

[oakraiderz2]

I didnt even read this and i think youre a bytch. Shut the fuk up and stop complaining. Damn, youre worse than my mom...

 

[lemieux66]

Originally posted by Superman X
I haven't read your post, and I'm not going to help you either because your a b!tch.

now that's just funny right there.

Boricua:
I don't know how much good this site is doin you buddy. The first time I remember you posting is when you were complaining about slapping your buddy and then crying. What was that? Two months ago? At least a month. And you have not grown at all since then. Honestly, I don't even read your posts any more because they are all just ****ing complaining. The only time I've read a post of yours recently was when I looked in the health and fitness forum and didn't look at who posted the question, and I read this one because I thought you were actually talking about a girl and not more guys that disrespect you.

You gotta grow up buddy. Quit ****ing feeling sorry for yourself. Quit making up excuses. You want these guys respect? EARN IT!

Coming here and whining to us does nothing man. It does nothing. Quit making it seem like these guys are the asses. They might be, but what's the common thread here? It seems like EVERYBODY calls you a *****. Everybody isn't the common thing there. You are. You ARE a *****. But you don't have to be. And that's part of what this site is supposed to be about, not just pulling babes, making yourself better. But you don't make yourself better by complaining about how much your life sucks. Suck it up and do something, *****.

I feel bad for being a little mean, but I really hope this will help you. I'm guessing somebody's tried this before though. I dunno. We'll see.

Oh, and I see a lot of other people have called you a ***** on here too. Well, replying with something like "**** you guys. you don't know me. *****" isn't gonna make us wanna help you more.

Good luck,
--Mike

 

[Evil-Rom]

1. what is the reason that a guy would call me that? I have done nothing for him to call me that.

Maybe he doesnt like you.

2. am I doing the right thing telling him to stop and if not then take it into physical aggression.

Why dont you tell him to STFU?

3. Am I just taking it to the heart and really shouldnt care about it?

If you like being called a b1tch...

4. Who does this guy think he is? DOes he think he has more power than me? He IS bigger than me, but it doesn't intimidate me at all.

He thinks your his b1tch.

Next time he calls you a b1tch, tell him "I love you too".

Ok, maybe that wont work in your situation...