Bi Straight or Whatever

[5string]

During a discussion about women, a gal admitted to me she had a one time thing with another woman. She tells me "I slept with a woman a few times about 15 years ago". According to her, it was the only time. She told me she is "not BI" and needs a man. I wanna know what you guys think. Is she straight? Is she BI? Or was she just curious? Opinions?

 

[lakeshore]

IDK, but if I were a girl, I wouldn't want to be with some dude that banged some other dude 15 years ago.

 

[zekko]

IDK, but if I were a girl, I wouldn't want to be with some dude that banged some other dude 15 years ago.

I agree, but in our society that isn't the same thing. In fact, women are taught that guys like to see two women together. I think most women are cuirous about it, and probably experiment a bit. Look at all the girl on girl action in porn, they don't seem to have any qualms about it. I wouldn't hold it against the girl, as long as there aren't signs she's still looking to hook up with females.

 

[SBW]

I would say that most women are bi to some degree, although many won't admit it. I've known more than a few avowedly straight women who have had a brief same-sex "experiment" and confirmed themselves by it. Also at least an equal number of self-confessed "bi" women who have never actually been with another woman but at least recognise they can occasionally be attracted to a member of their own sex.

If this really was a one-off from fifteen years ago, don't worry unless it is causing some internal identity conflict in her today.

 

[5string]

I would say that most women are bi to some degree, although many won't admit it. I've known more than a few avowedly straight women who have had a brief same-sex "experiment" and confirmed themselves by it. Also at least an equal number of self-confessed "bi" women who have never actually been with another woman but at least recognise they can occasionally be attracted to a member of their own sex.

If this really was a one-off from fifteen years ago, don't worry unless it is causing some internal identity conflict in her today.

I truly believe that she is being honest about it. She has always told me the truth, and trusts me as far as I have ever known. There is no conflict as a result of her past history. To each his/her own, however, homosexual sex is just that. My personal opinion that if she went so far as to actually do it, then she is bi. Even if it was years ago. Apparently she has "confirmed" to herself that another girl is not what she truly desired. She still did it though. As men, we have taught women that it is cool and sexy for them to get together with other women. I see it all the time. It's disgusting, and I have a right to that opinion. That's just me though. Funny thing. I don't believe most guys are bi to a degree. Rather just the opposite. Therein lies another difference between the sexes.

 

[zekko]

As men, we have taught women that it is cool and sexy for them to get together with other women. I see it all the time. It's disgusting, and I have a right to that opinion.

Yeah, girls will get suggestive with other girls on the dance floor because they think it turns guys on and gets them attention. You see this in the media all the time - another case of AFC portrayal of men on TV perhaps? On TV, girls make any slight suggestion of getting with each other and all the guys around them stop in their tracks and drool. Is this another case of the media telling women they have all the sexual power and whatever they do with it is fine?

I'm not saying it can't be sexy, but I know I don't want to see my LTR with her face buried between some other girl's legs.

 

[hamilton]

I don't see the problem here, I find bi girls hot, and I'd much rather my girl hook up with other girls than random dudes.

Anyways, she was probably just curious, but she might be bi and lying about it because she can sense that you would judge her for it.

 

[(JJ)]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_6i0V9OWo0s

lol oh jc chasez.

is this woman a prospect or just a random friend who is a girl?

what is your fear here? that in a relationship with the girl she may decide to cheat on you and return to her lesbian ways? i think that there's not any more risk of that than there is that a LTR will return to an old ex boyfriend. of course the risk is there, but you don't avoid that girl because she hasnt been a boyfriendless virgin for her whole life...

 

[DonGorgon]

you purpose is to F her chick and cheap.... who else she Fed has nothing to do with you... no matter how good or bad she is you still have a limited time with her until its the next mans turn.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

People experiment. Just because someone CAN be sexually aroused by members of the same sex doesn't make them bisexual. It's really determined by behavior and emotions.

A lot of bisexual people prefer only to date one sex, whereas they are capable of being aroused by both sexes. It's all about self identification in that case.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Who gives a sh!t?

Use this opportunity to remind her of those long dormant lesbian longings, then have a juicy three-way.

Make new memories, fvck old ones.

 

[Packers2010]

lol. if a girl is into a girl it wouldn't worry me.

 

[twixt]

hell no, I actively seek out such gals, in fact.

 

[pinhas]

Shes straight; girls experiment when they are young. But the fact that she is open to this is good for you; I may see a threesome in your future.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

What's next? Women in general experimenting with animals to see if they like it? To see if it turns men on?

Will Big Jimbo stop experimenting with 13 year old Ukrainian boys?

 

[5string]

What's next? Women in general experimenting with animals to see if they like it? To see if it turns men on?

Will Big Jimbo stop experimenting with 13 year old Ukrainian boys?

That was good!