BEWARE of the EX with they're games . . almost destroyed everything!!

[Jondo]

Guy's many of you know this, but NO GOOD comes from talking or trying to get back with the EX.

Let's take me back last weekend, i was able to approach for the first time in my life, i was also able to get some numbers and i felt ON TOP of the world.

Thing's could'nt get much better, i mean i did the one thing i'd been wanting to do all my life.
I conquered that side of me and i tell ya, the feeling was like ecstacy (not that i've ever done that)

Ok

NOW FORWARD 1 ... yes 1 WEEK!!!

Ok so i had me a week of talking with my ex, she currently has a boyfriend ..
Now she has ALOT of power over me, you see non like all the one night stands and the women i've felt nothing for ... she was my FIRST girlfriend and i care about her, i shared feelings with her that i'd never had in my life.

I'm a mess, she was saying all week how she's been dreaming of me and that she loves me and wants me etc... now i basically said all week that if you think you love me then drop the bf ( the guy she said she never has sex with)

But she said she would'nt drop him as i deserve better than her and that she want's me to be happy and that she could never make me be.

So i called her out on this and told her it's bull**** ....

Forward to today and the first txt she send's is "thinking of you" ....

Guy's this ****ing me up bigtime ... have any of you guy's had this with ex's and how did you get past it?.

Is there ANYTHING i could do or say to reverse roles and make her angry or sad?

No contact. I tried the same thing recently. Your ex got a new bf so any form of communication on your part would be viewed as clingyness. If your new to this it's hard. If your not, you know what to do:

Next time you get a gf, don't get so attached.

you will know in your gut and heart if it's possible to get back together again, and if she truly loves you.

If not, take our advice and don't ignore her, but move on from her in your heart soul and mind.

 

[Jondo]

You know how difficult that is, i mean she works in the same hospital as me so i'm gonna end up bumping into her.

Maybe i could start maybe missing txts, like purposely ignore a few?... ok maybe this sounds bad, but i WANT her to know when i hook up with other women .. i want HER to feel how i've felt!.

I know how you feel. It will not affect her.

 

[f283000]

But what do i do if i get txts from her like "i'm thinking of you?" i don't want to outright ignore her....

Not play into her trap. You fell for her trap when you told her to drop her bf. That's the sort of thing you need to avoid. You can't be giving her any hints you still want her because this is her drug. Women get high off of knowing we are paying attention to them/want them.

Nothing will burn her more than you ignoring her texts. But it seems you will ignore our advice because it seems you still want this gal. So if you do reply don't give any hints you still want her but make her seem as the one that is chasing

hb: I'm thinking of you
hero: I know

hb: I'm dreaming of you
hero: i don't blame you

hb: I love you
hero: i hear that a lot

I would just keep it c&f making yourself seem the prize. Since you are not going to ignore her txts like we are telling you at least don't ever be the first to initiate contact and keep your responses short and c&f like the examples I gave you.

 

[teddy240]

I just had this happen to me also, learn one thing. Women will tell you everything and anything you want to hear. Dont go by what she says, BUT what she does. If she says she "misses you" then wait for her to PROVE it by planning time to spend with you, visiting you, etc. Girls want to know that even thou they have a boyfriend, that they are still attractive to others, that way in case anything happens, they can rebound quickly. All guys should learn from women and do the same thing so we can stop being lil babies when a girl rejects us. If we all have a rebound or a girl on the waiting list, then none of us will deal with bullsh!t behavior becuase we have another girl just waiting to be with us!