Beware of some of the "help" you receive in life.

[HumbleNinja]

Some people in life you meet who want to "help" you, as WELL as some of these dudes on SoSuave I really believe have their own agendas for "helping" posters on here. = Trying to make as many bitter men as they can poisining their minds with ideas that one can have had a bad experience once or several times in their lives and say thats how EVERYTHING is so they can "get back" at women through these other "men" they're "helping".

Not actually resolving their own issues, and that part of the problem may be them themselves and their choices in life..but finger pointing and then "helping" others to achieve some sort of same diseased minded "attack" on chicks due to themselves being "wronged" or whatever disease plagues their mind.

Take all advice in life with a grain of salt but common sense and rational not emotional decisions as well. Look at what YOU may have done wrong AND the source of the "advice" you're taking advice from. Some people simply though it may seem like "good" advice are operating from a "you must get over at all times FIRST" consistant negative mindset.

Just use common sense in regards to a specific situation and don't be a dumbazz sheep to anyone operating off of your emotions alone.

 

[VikingKing]

Are you a chick? Or a white knight, because you now sound like one of those two things.

You are right about taking advise with a grain of salt.

Yes, as men we have to actually resolve our issues, unlike women who most of the time run around unchecked.

No one on here is teaching anyone to attack women at all. They just teach you to not be a nice guy, or a doormat, and learn how to develop self respect.

I challenge you to show examples of advice that directs some one to attack women.

 

[user name]

he's a 44 year old with a full time job AND a part time job yet he's still finds time to post this sh1t.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Like the post HN.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Actually pretty good post.

I think that experience should be your teacher and common sense your guide.

Objective advice can never hurt though.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Take all advice in life with a grain of salt but common sense and rational not emotional decisions as well. Look at what YOU may have done wrong AND the source of the "advice" you're taking advice from. Some people simply though it may seem like "good" advice are operating from a "you must get over at all times FIRST" consistant negative mindset.

Just use common sense in regards to a specific situation and don't be a dumbazz sheep to anyone operating off of your emotions alone.

Agreed. On that note, I'm taking your post with a grain of salt. It sounds like you might have some kind of a hidden agenda

 

[HumbleNinja]

Are you a chick? Or a white knight, because you now sound like one of those two things.

You are right about taking advise with a grain of salt.

Yes, as men we have to actually resolve our issues, unlike women who most of the time run around unchecked.

No one on here is teaching anyone to attack women at all. They just teach you to not be a nice guy, or a doormat, and learn how to develop self respect.

I challenge you to show examples of advice that directs some one to attack women.

If you are completely unaware you need to open your eyes. (Unless you are the same bitter type of poster who refuses to use self reflection to learn and grow but chooses to blame everything on everyone else in every situation and needs to group think en masse to get the "enemy".)

It's not ALWAYS some chicks fault. Same sht for a chick. It's not ALWAYS some dudes fault. There are two parties to every situation (sometimes more).

I couldn't possibly expect anyone to take me seriously if I wound up in one fvked up situation after the next with chick after chick, went after h0e after h0e and blamed everything on chicks and "that's just the way they all are" mentality. Self reflection, common sense in situations needs to be exercised as well or else you become simply a finger pointing clown shoe who refuses to take accountability for things YOU should be able to control. Not act as if chicks completely control every "misfortunate dealing" you have with them.

Learning from mistakes and using self reflection then GROWING from them IS NOT a weakness. Some would rather blame EVERYTHING on chicks. It's laughable.

If it IS "all chicks faults" in your life. Well then..you are a dopey little PUPPET to the pvzzy of low quality chicks in which YOU chose no matter how many "alpha" name tags you can beat on your chest. Like it or not.

 

[Epimanes]

What you see.. Depends on what your looking for.

Good post humbleninja.

Epi

 

[sylvester the cat]

Seriously - if you didn't know this already and had to learn it from some stranger on the internet then there's no hope for you.

The absurdity of you people buttmunching OP for his sage advice on telling you not trust anyone's advice.

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