The problem, as stated before by others, is not with the gold diggers.
It's about how you see your business.
It amazes me how you're not able to sell yourself while working in sales.
Being vague is better as a rule of thumb.
Also, most women ask about your job on the first date because it defines most people today. It's another topic to talk about, no big fuss. I mean they ask me what I do, I state it and they're like "Ohh, ok. Can I see your d1ck now?" Or some random stuff like that.
So here it goes: They don't really care about it. Unless you're a lion tamer or a Saudi Arabian prince, no one cares about that. If you're a fun guy/good company, they just don't care, its' that simple.
But if they don't feel attraction/feel you're insecure about it, they will find negatives about it.
You're a doctor, so you have no spare time. You're an accountant, so you're boring. You're a rich NBA player, you travel too much.
Do you understand me? Really think about it. Really.
If you think about what I said and work on it, no woman will raise an eyebrow again. Never again.
Think about it instead of raising your posts count and finding an excuse/explanation for everything.
Wish you the best!
A.