Alphas can bring as many problems if not more than betas.
I have a “friend” who is fine but he is a complete womaniser and has done it to 2 of his friends behind their back with their girl.
I’ve known the dude a long time and don’t want to totally lose him, but the bad thing is he is very, very good looking. Every woman immediately likes him, and I have no way of really competing with it.
this may sound beta but I will never let my wife mix with him and just brush off his company now I’m married.
For 20 years I saw Every girl who met him fall for him, and he seems to have a penchant for other men’s women.
I know he feels deep regret over the past but I don’t think he can help himself. He cheated on his pregnant wife too.
I have beta friends who would never be these issues.
I find with “alphas” if they try to Mack me in front of my woman it goes straight to blows. I’ve had fights over it and I do not play games with them. Im not sure if I’m alpha or beta or what but as soon as I pick up on this shyt I will offer them out, immediately. It’s not because I fear them in general, it’s because it’s low and disrespectful to try.
I have a similar friend, who was good company to go out with every now and then, but can't be trusted around women. History of constantly cheating with women, which he always apparently regrets, but continues to do it.
Decent looking, but extremely charismatic and quick witted with humour - a lot of women gravitate towards him. Annoying thing with his would be he'd be decent company one on one, but the moment theres an audience he'd start making remarks to people, almost as if trying to assert his dominance in the group.
Like yourself, moved away from him more once I was married. Had 1 night out a few years back and my now ex wife mentioned he was flirting with her, pushing it a little bit when I wasn;t around.
TBH since divorce, I've had a few drinks with him on occassions and find we see the world differently anyway - he's almost pro feminist type things, left wing ideals, so I don;t feel to much of a loss minimizing time spent with him.
I'm same as you, find it really disrespectful, would never do that stuff to other friends.
To answer original question, I wouldn't get rid of people because they're alpha or beta, more interested in their behaviour, character. You get good/bad, sound/idiots on both sides of spectrum. Same as I don;t discriminate on whether someone is rich/poor. Certain situations I may be more likely to do certain things with certain people, like nights out I wouldn;t go out with someone who likes getting into punchups, or introduce certain people to my business dealings. But they could be alpha or beta.