Best way to transition from fingering to sex

[Dr. Feelgood]

what's up guys.

i've been seeing this girl for a little while and want to know the best way to transition from fingering to sex. there are no issues getting to that point i just don't know a good way to transition. i don't want to advice like it should come natural or anything like that... just legit advice.

also, to help minimize lmr, what is the best way to get her really turned on during foreplay?


thanks guy.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

what's up guys.

i've been seeing this girl for a little while and want to know the best way to transition from fingering to sex. there are no issues getting to that point i just don't know a good way to transition. i don't want to advice like it should come natural or anything like that... just legit advice.

also, to help minimize lmr, what is the best way to get her really turned on during foreplay?


thanks guy.

This was part of your reply in another thread:

if you wanna get better in bed learn how to make it about the chick. learn how to get her so ready for action that shes beggin for it. get that sex god book or whatever. listen to the way the chick is breathin how shes moaning and all that. if your doing it right shell be making some noise. work with it. make it louder and better.

and btw dude its easier to get sex when you are good at sex.

Which is it? Do you or do you not know what you're doing?

 

[bigneil]

You need to learn to use your tongue. If you go down on a woman you can make a friend for life.

 

[PapiChulo]

What kinda woman are you dealing with? I don't see how there should be any transition, it's practically intercourse. If a woman stuck a finger up your butt, would you let her go all the way?! Usually getting to that part is the main obsticle. Look up the "ladder of escalation", as it has a good grasp of how to go around potential resistance.

 

[marmel75]

what's up guys.

i've been seeing this girl for a little while and want to know the best way to transition from fingering to sex. there are no issues getting to that point i just don't know a good way to transition. i don't want to advice like it should come natural or anything like that... just legit advice.

also, to help minimize lmr, what is the best way to get her really turned on during foreplay?


thanks guy.

I always found making them squirt makes them beg for it...

 

[incognito42]

Orally

 

[PDubb75]

This is one of those things I don't really think about. It just happens at that point.

The only suggestion I can think of, is have your clothes off already. You don't want to get her screaming and moaning from your fingers, then watch you spend 30 seconds playing with your belt and getting your ear caught on your shirt collar.

Just kiss her nipples/chest/neck while you are fingering her, and once she's going crazy for it, climb on top and work your magic.

 

[goodfoot]

You need to learn to use your tongue. If you go down on a woman you can make a friend for life.

+1

 

[Zerro]

You need to learn to use your tongue. If you go down on a woman you can make a friend for life.

This, you'd be surprised how few men actually do it and how much it impresses a chick. My only condition is that she be hairless and clean down there: I just mention that and if they weren't that time they will be the next.

 

[d!ckmojo]

What!? If you are already fingering a chick, and all you want to do is fcuk her, its SOOO unnecessary to start licking her pu$$y.

Now, I'm not saying "DON'T LICK HER PU$$Y", you can if you want to and its a perfectly legitimate sex act, and there's an art to it for sure, and you can provide a lot of enjoyment with it as well.

But if all you want to do is get your end wet, its way simpler just to transition fingering straight into sex.

I don't even know how this could be an issue, if she's letting you finger her, all you need to do is get an erection, (you have an erection, right?) and press it into her.

Make sure she knows about your erection, don't be shy about it. If she can see your erection as well, she will be super aroused. Take your pants off and proudly display your erection.

And then, when your fingering her, simulate as if it was your d1ck. Don't just put it in and rub with it, thrust it in and out like you actually would if it was your d1ck. Then, put your hand down on your lower abdomen, and use thrusting movements with your hips, so it seems like the force behind the fingering is coming from your pelvis, not your arm. When your doing this, your erect d1ck will be banging into the inside of her leg and lower part of her butt, and she will be able to feel the big, hardness of it.

And then, without breaking rhythm of the thrusts, put your finger your penetrating her with ON your d1ck. So that every time your finger penetrates her, your d1ck punches up against her labia. And let your d1ck punch up a bit further each time, until with one thrust, you take your finger out of the way and whallah! your d1ck is inside her.

 

[Single4Life]

Rip her clothes off and take charge.

 

[d!ckmojo]

In other words, just merge your finger and your erect d1ck into one, so that fingering her IS fcuking her.

You need to have taken her pants off though for this to work. Is it going to be a problem for you to take her pants off? If so, just keep persisting with it. Every time you try and take off her pants and she stops you be like, "oh cool" or "yeah ok" or whatever, and keep talking to her as normal and massaging her, rubbing her erogenous zones etc like nothing's the problem, and then just try to take them of again a few minutes later. Act like its no big deal (coz its not), and don't do it slow, do it fast, like rip them off real quick (but casually).

And for every step forward, take a long pause afterwards, even take a step backwards.

I.e., take the pants half off, then pull them back on again and act like nothing happened, and continue talking to her, turning her on. Then take them 3/4 off a few minutes later, but put them back on, etc. Just escalate persistently, but in a two steps forward, one step back kinda fashion.

Honestly, this sh1t is so easy, its my favourite part of the game. I have a lot of trouble with opening sets and isolating chicks, but when it comes to sexing them, its impossible to fail.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

The O.P has most likely already finished finger banging his poo shooter and transitioned to sex by giving his soiled "HB9.5" pillow some 'serious business'.

 

[drewsg]

You're 37 and still fingering women? No wonder she doesn't want to have sex with you.

 

[PapiChulo]

Have you tried fingering her butthole?

 

[Dr. Feelgood]

ninja, sometimes its easy to give advice and when your dealing with yourself its easy to lose sight of things.

i appreciate the real responses i got here. i think the issue is that clothes arent coming off. she wears a dress or skirt most of the time so access doesnt require clothing coming off. i will try removing clothes next time. if shes naked then it would be natural to transition.

 

[Dr. Feelgood]

d!ckmojo this chick is not on the pill and i dont need to knock her up. the transition thats been fvcking with me is the condom. that always feels weird to me for some reason and i want to be congruent with it.