whats up yall? Today walkin to my car on campus, I see this fine black woman whose walkin carryin tons of stuff. I jokingly say, "Damn u mus be goin on a trip or somethin(the bag she had was like what u see airline passengers take). she told me she need help carrying some stuff(she parked in handicapped) and asked if I could do it. Since I believe in treating others the way I want to be treated, I said yes and did that. In return, I asked her to give me a ride to my car(was farther away) and she said fine. We got to know each other a little, I used some C+F , some kino goin on. She told me she was skinny, so i playfully told her, "I bet I could pick u up".. She told me to try and see. I picked her up few times and she seemed to like it. Lot of laughin goin on but at the end, I didn't ask for the number cause I thought she'll ask if she is interested. Damn, whats the best way to ask a woman her number? I dont want her to think im a chump who is lonely(Im not)..
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AlwaysLearning
Don Juan
What the hell? YOU are the guy, it's your responsibility, not hers. She was probably thinking the same thing. The only difference is she has the right to think that, not you. YOU are the guy.
Damn, whats the best way to ask a woman her number?
"What's your number?" Period.
I dont want her to think im a chump who is lonely(Im not)..
You can't care what she thinks. 99% of the time you'll be wrong about what women think. If you believe you are not a desperate chump, then you will not come off like a desperate chump, and she won't think you're a desperate chump.
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jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
she's a woman. her job is not to ask YOU for your number. she probably has tons of men asking her anyway. you think she'll bother asking them?
go on man....
three simple words.
"what's your number??"
go on man....
three simple words.
"what's your number??"
TurboLover
Senior Don Juan
"Whats your number?", may be a big step if your nervous about getting the digits.
So as nervousness goes away you can proceed with the following or whatever
"Hey can I give you a call sometime?"
Then, "I'd like to give you a call sometime, whats your number?"
Finally, "Whats your number?"
And remember, rejection is better than regret.
So as nervousness goes away you can proceed with the following or whatever
"Hey can I give you a call sometime?"
Then, "I'd like to give you a call sometime, whats your number?"
Finally, "Whats your number?"
And remember, rejection is better than regret.
strong like bull
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"hey, i just had a great idea. give me your number so we can hang out sometime."
Player_Supreme
Banned
Look Dawg...you obviously have no idea how many women wait for a man to ask for their numbers only to be disappointed by the man punking out!
Here is how you coulda done this:
You: Next time you need someone to help you carry that heavy load why don't you call me or better yet I will call you (as you pull out your cell)..why don't you put your number in my phone and I will ring your cell so it shows up"
Now if she is really interested she will put her number in your phone.
Anyone else got any suggestions or examples for this playa:
cAssanova? Diablo since your such a ladies man? whois that other fool...bond something or another...
Can any of you supposedly playa's add to this...actually cassanova I will leave you out...your excused homie
Show me your game fellas!!!
Here is how you coulda done this:
You: Next time you need someone to help you carry that heavy load why don't you call me or better yet I will call you (as you pull out your cell)..why don't you put your number in my phone and I will ring your cell so it shows up"
Now if she is really interested she will put her number in your phone.
Anyone else got any suggestions or examples for this playa:
cAssanova? Diablo since your such a ladies man? whois that other fool...bond something or another...
Can any of you supposedly playa's add to this...actually cassanova I will leave you out...your excused homie
Show me your game fellas!!!
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Snatchmaster
Don Juan
Playa throwin' it down... 
Tell her what to do:
"You need to give me your number, so we can continue this another time."
Tell her what to do:
"You need to give me your number, so we can continue this another time."
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So let me get this straight, you picked her up without getting her number? Ba-boom TING!!!!
Oh come on, that WAS funny.
Oh come on, that WAS funny.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
LOL Francisco.. Man I feel like such a dumbass for not gettin that number. When she let me pick her up off the ground many times like that, I shouldve taken noticed and got the number. I mean those were obvious buying signals.. lol. I ain't lettin the next one pass me by.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
Damn, she did everything but hit you over the head with a frying pan. Don't let this happen again.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Chirp chirp...the sound of crickets...chirp chirp...and on goes the silence.