Best way to game a girl on Facebook?

ElStud

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Here's my situation. I have a lot of hot chicks that used to go to my HS as friends on Facebook; but I haven't talked to many of them in years. Most of these girls only recognize me by name pretty much. I know that once she's interested and once I've successfully opened her; I can take it from there. But what's the best way to open a girl on Facebook, who you don't know that well?
 

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post something funny or interesting and see if they respond or comment. Or comment on some of their sh!t. Get the banter and flirt going, ask for a date and a number.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Get the banter and flirt going, ask for a date and a number.
Protip: Ask for her date/number over chat or personal message, not on her wall or status.
 

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ElStud said:
Best way to game a girl on Facebook?
That's a trick question: you don't "game" anyone on Facebook. Unless they're already into you, which would then make Facebook redundant and unnecessary.

Women's Facebook egos are like trolls; don't feed 'em. You're better off spending your energy elsewhere, like actually approaching them in person instead of being yet another random guy from high school trying to get laid with the the only interaction you've had between each other were awkward whistful glances at each other x number of years ago.

Seriously, do you think that your online "persona", the fake little version of yourself (that I might add, everyone puts up) is going to compel a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you? All it takes is a guy with a strong enough reality to break her state and f*ck her while the cute little chat box in Facebook is still open with you waiting on the other side.
 

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A lot of my dates and lays during the past year and half have come from Facebook. I never really put much thought into opening. I just said a brief "Hello, I recognise you from ???. How's life treating you these days?" type message. If she responded, I just build up the conversation as I would in person, show interest in her, then gradually escalate to some flirting, rapport building and, if she's responding well, I'll work upto some sex talk and then ask her to meet.

Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
 

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Jariel said:
A lot of my dates and lays during the past year and half have come from Facebook. I never really put much thought into opening. I just said a brief "Hello, I recognise you from ???. How's life treating you these days?" type message. If she responded, I just build up the conversation as I would in person, show interest in her, then gradually escalate to some flirting, rapport building and, if she's responding well, I'll work upto some sex talk and then ask her to meet.

Just keep it simple and be yourself. You will get ignored and rejected, but that's not because of what you're saying, it's because she's just not interested in getting to know you. Just move onto the next.
Cool, so could I basically just say "Hey", and see if any of them respond?
 

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ElStud said:
Cool, so could I basically just say "Hey", and see if any of them respond?
Yes, this is a good idea but you don't want to just leave it at that. From what I've heard and read about online dating, you NEED to differentiate yourself from the rest of the male population by being more creative and unique. Maybe tell the girl something funny you remember about her, or mention something that happened to you awhile ago. That would be an easy way into rapport.
 
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