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You sleeping with other girls?

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When asking about past relationships.
 

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It depends what stage the relationship is at.

If I get the "are you sleeping with other girls" question early on, I just tell them that I'm dating around .. But if you've been dating say 3 months and you are looking to make her exclusive then it's ok to say you're not sleeping with anyone else.

If you get the "what are we" question and you don't want her to be your gf just deflect -

Her: what are we?
You: human beings

If she keeps pushing for an answer just tell her you don't want to rush/you want to get to know her better or just be honest with her ..

Avoid talking about past relationships .. If they ask why my last relationship failed, I just say "not sure" .. I've found that high quality girls will rarely question you on past relationships. If a girl keeps pushing me for info I'll just deflect with some teasing -

"It's in the past, but now that I have your attention, we can get down to the more serious business of making fun of you"
 

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You sleeping with other girls?

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When asking about past relationships.
1) You sleeping with other girls? --- "Should I let you know next time it happens so you can come join in a threesome? Damn... never knew you were into them, should have told me sooner!!"

2) What are we talk/where is this going -- "I don't know, what are we?"/ "It's going to the bedroom---let's go" <while grabbing her hand and leading her to the bedroom>

3) When asking about past relationships. -- "Hey, you are going to have to work a lot harder to successfully psycho-analyze me...nice try tho! You get an A for effort!"

While smiling, laughing and generally not taking any of them very serious...you treat her like a 5 year old kid
 

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You sleeping with other girls?

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Bro if you can't handle 3 simple questions from a simple girl, how are you going to handle slightly more difficult problems?

I really dont know how you guys hold down jobs if a slut, trying to see if you are any use for her, can make your head spin without even trying.
 
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You sleeping with other girls?

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When asking about past relationships.
"I'm not sleeping with anybody, unless she promises not to snore lol."

"I'll have to check our FB relationship status lol."

In all seriousness, just answer how you want to answer.

Multiple questions ARE irritating. I get that. Unfortunately, they really cant be avoided because women are usually very curious about all this stuff.
 
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Heheh I d add to Mike s line .....if I had Facebook

Although I don't know if yr allowed to joke about Facebook seems like it's compulsory in the USA
 

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You sleeping with other girls?
My mom let me sleep with her at a young age because I was scared to be alone in my room at night. Sadly, some things never change.

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Depends on how long you've been seeing her. If you're just a few dates in, say "two people who are highly interested in each other". If you've been seeing her for 2 months or more, you either have to commit to an exclusive relationship or cut her loose.

When asking about past relationships.
I had a dog I loved far more than any woman. Let's talk about him.
 

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You sleeping with other girls?

I don't kiss and tell.

The What are we talk/where is this going..

I'm not a planner, and I'm not into labels.

When asking about past relationships.

Once again, I don't kiss and tell.
 

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Asking advice is why this forum exists.
You are right. But when she asks you SPECIFIC questions that have to with EMOTION and you answer them you're lost the game.

And these questions are awkward. Women use them for a particular purpose.
Who is she to ask any questions for any purpose? She is good for sex. Other than that if she asks a question about emotion you get back to her at a time and place that works for you.

These girls are the same girls who will absolutely destroy you if things get a *little* rough for them or if they meet another guy who will better suit their needs.

Managing women is easily as challenging as any job. That's what keeps it interesting.
If you have to 'manage' women you are playing into their game. Your only job is to let her have fun with you and don't get emotionally attached. It's her job to connect :up:
 

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Answer to all these questions:

"Awww how cute, you like me."
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Is it always completely off limits for you guys to talk about past relationships?
 

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Yep. She will always want to know why it failed. Solipsism means she will always imagine herself as the rejected girl
 

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You sleeping with other girls?

The What are we talk/where is this going..

When asking about past relationships.
1. Smile. I don't kiss and tell.
2. Is this your way of asking me to be your boyfriend.
3. Smile. I don't kiss and tell.
 
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