BEST PLACE to find a girl thats "gf-material"

[skip2mylou781]

There is no denying that im a player and i play and juggle girls all the time.............BUT, i HAVE had several very very good girlfriend's before and I noticed the same thing about them all (there's been 3 by the way)

they werent "city" girls.....aka they lived in towns that were pretty desolate without much to do - aka they were SMALL TOWN girls, and for some reason, they always ended up as the ones that u DONT need to play games with, they didnt lie or cheat or act *****y either by the way, its almost as if there was no need to game them

and i was an afc, and i DIDNT game them....in fact i was sweet and straight forward, "just being myself" while I was an AFC worked on them, and lets face it, for a serious gf, u cant just don juan ur way thru a relationship, u NEED to just be urself and let ur feelings speak.

Again, i noticed that these SMALL TOWN girls were just really well brought up nice loyal "gf material" type of girls


just thought id throw that one out there!

 

[Sammer VII]

There is no denying that im a player and i play and juggle girls all the time.............BUT, i HAVE had several very very good girlfriend's before and I noticed the same thing about them all (there's been 3 by the way)

they werent "city" girls.....aka they lived in towns that were pretty desolate without much to do - aka they were SMALL TOWN girls, and for some reason, they always ended up as the ones that u DONT need to play games with, they didnt lie or cheat or act *****y either by the way, its almost as if there was no need to game them

and i was an afc, and i DIDNT game them....in fact i was sweet and straight forward, "just being myself" while I was an AFC worked on them, and lets face it, for a serious gf, u cant just don juan ur way thru a relationship, u NEED to just be urself and let ur feelings speak.

Again, i noticed that these SMALL TOWN girls were just really well brought up nice loyal "gf material" type of girls


just thought id throw that one out there!

Perfect example why you should "just be yourself" AFTER you have had your fun in life and want to settle down...

 

[skip2mylou781]

keep in mind that just being urself with MOST girls in this country will result in u getting burned 1 way or another, and when u find that 1 girl thats DIFFERENT from most, thats when just being urself will result in marriage


however, itd be hard to "just be urself" and keep ANY girl if "urself is insecure, pathetic, needy, jealous, and boring all rolled into 1.......which is y u gotta work on urself so that "urself" becomes somethin desirable for girls

 

[skip2mylou781]

u gotta become "urself" to the point that ****y/funny, push/pull, neghits, aplphaness are NATURAL and dont need to be practiced and rehearsed, then it will just all be a PART of U

 

[Lifeforce]

Very true. Small town girls are way better than the city girls. =)

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

ahh I agree. They are, but harder to bag.

I really hate to generalize girls but to me it seems like city girls are much more promiscuous and I love that.

I prefer city girls over small town girls, Im a horny one I guess. Am I a bad boy?

 

[DonJuanForever]

Classic thread skip, keep em' comin.

City girls just wanna have fun, so the exciting, fun lifestyle and thrill of a guy is what most of these girls go for.

County girls or small town girls are not really exposed to the "city" high life, so they are still the "great women/girls" that they were raised as. City girls turn bad due to the media and what's currently "popular" being a heavy influence on them.

But yeah, just be yourself is what you want to end up being, but its being your "improved self." A man is a sum of beliefs, whatever beliefs are consciously programmed into the subconscious mind is how a man is and how his world becomes. By programming traits of successful people and great leaders into your subconscious, you begin to form the beliefs of those men, thus you begin to behave and eventually succeed like them as well.

DJF

 

[AngelusPUA]

That’s a bit of a generalization I know plenty of city girls that want to have a serious BF.

Overall you will probably find more serious girls in country towns you are right but I'm not the kind of guy who goes for those girls; I like classy, rich, stylish girls. If I want a serious GF I can easily find one in the city.

 

[blinkwatt]

The best gf material I have come across are the ones I havent looked for,ie gone out to clubs,sarging with friends. The best girlfriends are the ones you just happen to find in your everyday life,whether it be work,the gym or out shopping. I actually find myself drawing in more and more chicks when I'm not looking to do so,funny isn't it.

 

[animal crackers]

I would like to say that you can find a good LTR anywhere, and I may be right. But in my experience, the girls who are lasting usually I hook up with from my social circle. These girls have commonalities with you already from being in the same peer group, and I have found that the LTR has succeded through similar friends/interest/socioeconomic background/location.

Good luck


animal crackers

 

[Krassus]

This is very true. I've noticed that people are DRAMATICALLY different even if you only go 100km from the big city. The difference was so apparent that i remember talking about it with my friends afterwards. Small(er) town people seem more friendly and outgoing, i guess because there's more of a sense of a community, and everyone treats one another as a neighbor (even though those towns still have tens, if not hundreds of thousands of people living there). You're no more likely to run into the same person twice in a small town than in a big city (the population per square mile is still the same), but what a difference in the way of life the ATTITUDE makes!

 

[Phyzzle]

A woman's suitabilty for "gf material" depends on competition.

In large universities that have 2 girls for every guy, promiscuity is practically an epidemic.

When guys outnumber girls, NO guy gets laid. And the girls soon become porculetntly fat and hopelessly shallow.

Big city GOOD-LOOKING American girls are so outnumbered by guys, they literally cannot finish an entire diet pepsi in pulblic without "excuse me, can I ask your opinion . . . " from some guy trying to bed her that day. 700 days in a row, it's gonna have a perverse effect on her mind.

Go to St. Petersburg, Russia, and OMG . . . I've been paralyzed in shock by the difference in attitude. "So you're not just sitting around waiting until 5:45 to cancel our 6:00 date to play some game?" (Faints) "No more American Byches"

But small town girls are a good immitation. . . .

~Phyzzle

 

[madgame]

u gotta become "urself" to the point that ****y/funny, push/pull, neghits, aplphaness are NATURAL and dont need to be practiced and rehearsed, then it will just all be a PART of U

pretty damn well put, that's exactly what has happened to me. And after all people who are ooooverly sweet and romantic aren't that way b/c it's in their genes but because they had allllways thought that's how it works. THat's why they became like that and when it was time for a change they would say "but that's not me" as in..that's not the way i used to make myself be during the last decade, b/c I thought all girls were nice and all wanted nice guys.

But when you've realized you better be ****y and funny and stuff it totally becomes you...I mean like..i'm always talking to female friends about sex and make allusions and stuff like that...I mean not toooo damn forward, but I doubt any of them (who i got to know after my afc days) would see me as pure FRIEND-ZONE material

 

[Rastaman]

I pick up LTRs in the school library, they are generally cool, intelligent, loyal, organized and most importantly not very "street wise". I'm not a great fan of small town or "village champions" gals. Some of them are very conservative and tend to move on after you shine their eyes.