best of luck guys

backbreaker

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i remember when i very first came to this site i was in a motel 6 crying beucase the girl i loved was getting rammed by some toher dude. and every last person i knew in real life, had told me look, she' sjust not for you, she's not the right one, keep trying you will find the right one. and somewhere in my mind, i knew somehting about that **** just wasn't right. so i went online and i found this place.

I remember going home to my mom's house and waking up at night. beucase back then we still had dial up and my mom worked in the day so the only time i could really just use the internet fully was at night and just being overwhelmed with just how much **** was here. and this was 2002 lol. it just opened my eyes to like, oh this is how the **** is supposed to be done. i had to browse this site for a good 2 weeks and in the first 2 weeks, i never read the same thing. just page after page of good ****. stuff was making sense to me. a few days after the girl did what she did, i had learned enough on this site, not alot but enough to tell her look, if we aren't fvcking get out. don't call me.

i never thought i could understand all this **** here. and i'm not saying I do 100% but for the most part I think I did a pretty good job of sucking the info in. When i came here i was a confused, lazy skinny kid living with his mom. 10 years later i'm a married business owner with a son. that's a pretty fvcking big jump. lol I was chanign my sisters dipers when i first came here and **** she is taller than I am, literally.


Mecernery said something a few days ago on another thread that stuck with me.. after a point, you really can't learn **** anymore. And truth be told i was there years ago. Not saying i dont' pick up little nuggets here or there but I'm not getting any grand realizations or anything, and it' sjust time for me to close the chapter in my life and do something else.

I know some people think that I am a drama queen(or king) and that i am trying to seek attention; but you have to understand i was on this site months after 9/11. i grew up here, seriously. there are people on this forum, squirrels, desinova who i have known here longer than i have known my friends in real life. I was getting in heated debates with some of the members here about how all these new things my then oneitis was doing obviously pointed to her wanting me before 98% of the people here even found this site, so I have quite a bit of graitude to a lot of people here and at times, feel that i am obligated to give back as was given to me so Frey.

however i have come to the conclusion that , this can't work like that. the way this site is supposed to be is that you have the DJ bible, and you have field reports, and the forums are to talk about the bible and how it relates to your personal dealings and life with women. I mean, i can't tell you **** that you can't find here already so in reality i'm here for no more than my own egotistical need to help people and i realize that. . That and i care about this site and the message of the site too much to the point where I don't want to be a distraction to the main message and I am becoming that for whatever the reasons may be. once you get a little knowledge under your belt and a little success you tend to get so caught up in site politics that you forgot there are people out there really hurting. when i first came here i was hurting, very very badly. very badly and i needed to hear someone tell it ot me like it is. that's what this site is here for. with that said however, this site is too important for me to just leave without saying a few things and and saying a few good byes.


1. to anyone on this site who is new or lurking, don't make the same fvckign mistakes i did for my first years on this forum. lol listen to the people who know what they are talking about lol please it will save you nights of headache, heartache and every other ache you can think of.


2. Regarldess of how different or unique or speical you think this chick is or your relatinship wtih this chick is, rather it be a LTR or a LJBF relationship there are probalby 50 people here that have gone through exactly what you have gone through.

3. don't ever let anyone tell you what you can't do or can't have or can't achieve. you can anything you put your mind to if you want it bad enough the only thing you need to ask yourself is what are you willing to sacrifice to get it. don't be afraid to fail. with women and with life.

4. last but not least, man, these are just women. not rubix cubes, not scientific formulas. for as hard as we make them to be they aren't all that complicated.

I came here to get a particular set of skills and I ahve those now. I helped when i could and It's jsut time fo rme to let the site run it's course and let people do their thing.


warrior keep your head up buddy. you are going to be okay. even if you don't think so i have faith in you man i really do and i mean that.


prettyboyAJ you remind me of me more than anyone else on this site. you are a spitting image of me 8-9 years ago. you are going to aright dude just keep your head straight and money over *****es. they aren't going anywhere.

scars just don't let your baby momma steal your joy. I assure you she's going to try at some point. don't let her. you made some mistakes but you aren't a bad due, and don't let her lead you down that path. women can very easily.


burroughs, we have had our disagreements but i will honestly say you are one of the smartest people i have ever met, lol at least i think you are. for you it's the gift and the curse. your only problem is dude you think too fvcking much. just stop dude let it come to you. stop treating every situtation like you are taking a chemistry test. trust your gut take chances.


desi don't get soft on the young one, you are slippin man bad.


I mean, 10 years ago if you would have told me i would be where i am now i would have laughed you out the room. I am walking testimiet to what you can do, the success you can have with women with life if you just buckle down and roll up your sleeves and take on the issues in front of you.

take care guys. i will keep my pm's empty and check every month or so but i won't post any longer.
 

georgie24

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just under 10 years here myself on/off, 2 major disabling replationships that failed and im still standing, and i agree your destiny is in YOUR hands, choose wisely

Best of luck

By the way why did you pick " backbreaker" as a hanlde?
 

Greasy Pig

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Say it ain't so, BB!
I don't want to sound like a fag but backbreaker, this site will be poorer without your mature insights.
You've helped so many people, me included.

You might feel like you're repeating yourself a lot of the time as newbies join up, but you should see that as your role. I think this site needs more veterans to keep reinforcing the message.

You're living proof that life can change for the better if you stick to the principles espoused here.
I hate the thought of all that knowledge not being available almost daily.
 

Tiguere

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I dont know why but i love reading old threads. This forum was pure gold from 2000-2004. Got mixed 2005-2008 because a bunch of f@g puas wanna bees started joining. And its been downhill after that.

"Igetit" and "kontrollerx" have killers post search them.
 

Slickster

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BB, I've been around here almost as long as you. Difference is I don't come here every day. I don't post every visit. I don't post essays every time. The majority of my posts came when I was recovering from major surgery and another time from other health issues.

Ive often wondered how you live your life spending so much time and effort on this site. I know how long it takes to write a well thought out lengthy post. In my opinion you've overdosed on this site!

I get what you are saying about nothing left to learn but that's okay. You are a teacher just like me. You can't change that and nor can I. Whether I come to this site or not I know I will be passing on this knowledge to young guys forever. My career is working with young people and every year I take several guys under my wing. It's what I do. Not for my ego but because I sincerely enjoy helping guys who struggle with this stuff. I was there once too and I know it can change and I know I can help.

Maybe you do need a change. I can't imagine what it's been like writing 2.27 essays a day for the past decade. Take a break and I believe you may find your way back in some form or capacity.

Until then, good luck bro!
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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I look up to you BB. As much as it hurts my pride to admit it. You made yourself a boss with 6 figures and you got a dime piece broad. Much respect goes out to you.

But onto your post. Not too many people are able to read and apply everything on the site. They need to deal with stuff and learn from it first hand. When I got in my first relationship I was doing weeny sht and I knew I was doing it too. SS people said I Was doing it too but that never stopped me from doing it. I had to get burned first hand. But without all that bs I would not be the person I am today.

I would never do half the stuff I did in the past. I sold my playstation 3 for 80$ and my new copy of nba 2k12 to pay for this girls hair treatment. Weeny sht!!!! I'm nowhere near perfect now and I'm still learning the game but I know the quality and quantity of females I deal with are way better every single year.

Best of luck to you in the future BB. You inspired a lot of people on this forum
 

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I give it 30-60 days before BB is back. :)

That is the usual run time for one of his many breaks on this forum in the past. They are ALWAYS preceded by an argument he has on here.

I'll go with 47 days to be exact. Anyone want to bet the over/under? We will go -150 for the under, and +125 for the over.
 

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blind_one

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Greasy Pig said:
Say it ain't so, BB!
I don't want to sound like a fag but backbreaker, this site will be poorer without your mature insights.
You've helped so many people, me included.

You might feel like you're repeating yourself a lot of the time as newbies join up, but you should see that as your role. I think this site needs more veterans to keep reinforcing the message.

You're living proof that life can change for the better if you stick to the principles espoused here.
I hate the thought of all that knowledge not being available almost daily.
100% this

Everytime a long time poster leaves its a hit to the community :/
 

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"Understanding requires not just a moment of perception, but a continuous awareness, a continuous state of inquiry without conclusion." - Bruce Lee

If you think you've learned it all, then you haven't learned much because there's still to learn.
 

iqqi

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Not this sh!t again.

Stop being so dramatic, BB. I do see how you are wrestling with how much time you spend here, it's like an addiction for you. I really doubt you'll be successful in going no contact on the forum though, lol. And it's not a big deal anyways, come fvck around here when you are bored some days. No need to make announcements on what you are doing and how you are leaving and all that jazz.

Don't you know the legends just disappear? A la Pook/Squirrels? ;)
 

SamTheHobit

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Peace out.
 

Rubirosa

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I can tell from your postings that you spend ALOT of time on this forum. Take a break from the computer and take your kid to Chuck E Cheeze or the park. I just got back from vacation and I didn't touch a computer for 2 weeks and the world didn't end.
Take care dude
 

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cordoncordon said:
I give it 30-60 days before BB is back. :)

That is the usual run time for one of his many breaks on this forum in the past. They are ALWAYS preceded by an argument he has on here.

I'll go with 47 days to be exact. Anyone want to bet the over/under? We will go -150 for the under, and +125 for the over.
Pretty much. I have no ill will towards the guy whatsoever, but it's almost become a sosuave meme.

BB, something will happen in your life and you're gonna wanna post about it. :yes:
 
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