Best friends younger sister sent me a FaceTime

[Divorced w 3]

We had dinner planned a month ago but she felt weird and backed out. The family knew about it and were supportive of it but last night I get a FaceTime which I missed. So I text her today and go ‘was that a pocket FaceTime’ and she goes ‘no I was out with Mary’ and I was like ‘haha what did you guys want to Ft about’ and she’s like ‘we were out that’s all’

do I ask her back out to dinner?

 

[Clockwerk50]

Nah, she needs to ask you out since she backed out initially.

I’d leave her on read since she is being dry on text as well.

 

[TheProspect]

Personally, if I am just looking for a lay, then the sister of any good friend of mine is off limits.

On the off chance that there is some LTR potential, and the chemistry is natural and develops organically, then I will play the long game and not force anything, all the while considering how I would feel if I were in my friend's shoes. Assuming my friend gives his blessing, it will play out how it plays out.

Ultimately, at the end of the day though, maintaining my friendship with my best friend would be more important than any personal desire to bed his sister...

No need to potentially add conflict to a friendship if you don't have to, there are plenty of other girls out there to pursue.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I'm stunned to learn that anyone still uses FaceTime. I take it you all still record each episode of General Hospital via VCR as well

do I ask her back out to dinner?

If you want to, ABSOLUTELY!!! Your desires are what's paramount , hoss: Whatever anyone else thinks or feels about this subject is worth less than JonBenet Ramsey's application to Julliard, here in '24

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Perhaps a booty call opportunity as she would have some plausible deniability, ie, "I was drinking".

I wouldn't...she needs to put the effort in, she backed out. Don't chase her.

If you chase a cat they run away and hide, then hiss at you if you try and get it out...if you ignore it and pay no attention to it eventually they get curious and come around to see what is going on...

Treat women like cats.

 

[BPH]

Wait wait wait...you're trying to bang your best buddy's sister?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Perhaps a booty call opportunity as she would have some plausible deniability, ie, "I was drinking".

I wouldn't...she needs to put the effort in, she backed out. Don't chase her.

If you chase a cat they run away and hide, then hiss at you if you try and get it out...if you ignore it and pay no attention to it eventually they get curious and come around to see what is going on...

Treat women like cats.

This. Text her "Meow" OP. Randomly. See what happens

If she responds "?" say you were just thinking about cats. Two can play this game.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Wait wait wait...you're trying to bang your best buddy's sister?

That's not his territory, is it?

 

[BPH]

That's not his territory, is it?

?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Treat women like cats.

If you're Haitian or Chinese, just refrain from tossing them onto your backyard grill, until your neighbors aren't looking