I think it was bond who wrote:
If a girl finds you attractive almost anything you do or say will work, but if she does not find you attractive not much can change that.
If you talk to a lot of girls you will experience this time and again.
How many times have you hooked up when you were retardedly intoxicated? You didn't tap that a$$ due to your charisma, did you casanova? Remember when you were shot down by that drunk skank and how the next time you talked to her she didn't even remember you? She didn't like you much that time either huh.
If you don't hit on girls that often all you have to do is listen to your good looking buddy while he picks up some chick to see how much "game" really counts. At first glance he will seem like one charming motha because the girl will be laughing, blushing and generally reacting positivly. Listen to the jacka$$'s words and see how awsome they are without looking through the lens of lust. He's no Larry King huh.
I am not saying that ugly guys can't get laid and a good looking dude will always win. 90% of us are not studly looking 10's. 50% of us are not even in the best looking 50% of the population (It's sad but I double checked the math, and it adds up). The X-factor is that there is no accounting for taste. Psychological issues like early crushes and daddy complexes alter what a girl wants while unfathomable genetic issues dictate what a girl needs.
[THE GOOD]
How good a girl looks has nothing to do with how attractive she finds you. No matter what you look like, some Hot girls will find you attractive. In fact many women probably think you are cute (or at least doable).
[THE BAD]
Many girls will not find you attractive! We have all experienced the indignity of getting shot down by a nasty hefer.
[THE UGLY]
Just because a gorgous girl thinks you are cute and the hefer don't, does not mean that you have a better chance with the hotty. The hot b!%*# gets hit on 5 times a day by guys with the confidense to do it. The guys hitting on her are confident because they have had a lot of success with other girls, likely due to their genes being more desirable than most. Out of this pool of elite sausage it is probable that even if the girl thinks you are hot she is accustomed to guys she finds even hotter. So the girl of your dreams could think that you are cute while the only sow who would have you finds you disgusting.
The best way to adjust to this is to know your self! Use your own X-factor and primarily go for the mediocre girls that you find extreemly attractive. But make eye contact with every girl you see, and never automatically count yourself out with a cute chick. If you would f^@k a ugly chick if the situation presented itself, how much greater are your chances with a hot girl who for some reason finds you attractive.
If a girl finds you attractive almost anything you do or say will work, but if she does not find you attractive not much can change that.
If you talk to a lot of girls you will experience this time and again.
How many times have you hooked up when you were retardedly intoxicated? You didn't tap that a$$ due to your charisma, did you casanova? Remember when you were shot down by that drunk skank and how the next time you talked to her she didn't even remember you? She didn't like you much that time either huh.
If you don't hit on girls that often all you have to do is listen to your good looking buddy while he picks up some chick to see how much "game" really counts. At first glance he will seem like one charming motha because the girl will be laughing, blushing and generally reacting positivly. Listen to the jacka$$'s words and see how awsome they are without looking through the lens of lust. He's no Larry King huh.
I am not saying that ugly guys can't get laid and a good looking dude will always win. 90% of us are not studly looking 10's. 50% of us are not even in the best looking 50% of the population (It's sad but I double checked the math, and it adds up). The X-factor is that there is no accounting for taste. Psychological issues like early crushes and daddy complexes alter what a girl wants while unfathomable genetic issues dictate what a girl needs.
[THE GOOD]
How good a girl looks has nothing to do with how attractive she finds you. No matter what you look like, some Hot girls will find you attractive. In fact many women probably think you are cute (or at least doable).
[THE BAD]
Many girls will not find you attractive! We have all experienced the indignity of getting shot down by a nasty hefer.
[THE UGLY]
Just because a gorgous girl thinks you are cute and the hefer don't, does not mean that you have a better chance with the hotty. The hot b!%*# gets hit on 5 times a day by guys with the confidense to do it. The guys hitting on her are confident because they have had a lot of success with other girls, likely due to their genes being more desirable than most. Out of this pool of elite sausage it is probable that even if the girl thinks you are hot she is accustomed to guys she finds even hotter. So the girl of your dreams could think that you are cute while the only sow who would have you finds you disgusting.
The best way to adjust to this is to know your self! Use your own X-factor and primarily go for the mediocre girls that you find extreemly attractive. But make eye contact with every girl you see, and never automatically count yourself out with a cute chick. If you would f^@k a ugly chick if the situation presented itself, how much greater are your chances with a hot girl who for some reason finds you attractive.