I would say:
1. do not make women your top priority; work out, get a job, study, try new activities, make your life fulfilling and interesting. women are a fun break from the other parts of your life
2. more practical advice; approach women straight up and say 'Hi, my names x , whats yours?' etc this should build your confidence. spin lots of plates. the law of averages dictates that after a certain number of approaches at least one will be successful
3. read and digest as much of the bible as possible. if it helps, condense important parts down into a few simple tips to keep you on course on a daily basis.
difficult to summarise all that this community has taught me