Benefits of being less available?

[OJN_98]

How exactly does it work rather than "she'll miss your presence" or "it gives her time to think about you?"

 

[Urbanyst]

People want what they can't have. Enigmas are more interesting than people who are very obvious and easy.

Easy is boring. Women have loads of easy men chasing them all the time. A man she has to work to attain is more interesting and exciting.

 

[ThisNThat]

How exactly does it work rather than "she'll miss your presence" or "it gives her time to think about you?"

Most times when I had made myself unavailable, I've never been missed.

 

[bigneil]

Most times when I had made myself unavailable, I've never been missed.

You disappeared too early. You must become omnipresent first. Everything must remind them of you before you vanish. That's why you have to spoil them a little first.

 

[RedZone]

It's the cat/string theory. If you dangle a piece of string in front of a cat it will keep clawing for it. Once, you drop the string the cat loses all interest. People love the chase. Wanting something they don't have.

 

[Krueg]

Girls like a guy who is a Challenge.

 

[wifehunter]

If she's good looking, she's got guys in her face 24/7. Low value guys, are plenty and always available. High value guys are scarce and have a busy, filled out, life.

Gold or plain old rocks...which one would you choose?

 

[bigneil]

Try this sometime: try ending a date or even the relationship. Just to test the waters.

 

[wifehunter]