Being Well Off - How to use to your advantage?

[tosh]

How can being a very high earner be used at the earliest stages of meeting women?

I know that once you're dating someone she'll have one more reason to stay with you if you're well off but can you use your money to actually get more dates in the first place?

What would be a subtle way of bringing it up, or is there no such thing?

Thanks,

newbie

 

[Mystic]

Im not subtle about being ****ing loaded, I have fun flaunting my money. But if you dont want to be a ****head like me just dress well and have a nice pair of shoes and a really nice watch. Next time someone needs to know what time it is youll know its time to flaunt your money and look at your thousand dollar wris****ch.

 

[LiveStrong]

yeah dont be a **** about it...simply start carrying a load in a money clip...whenever you have the chance to buy something in front of her just whip out that money clip stuffed with cash...be real nonchaulant about it...don't look for her response once she sees ur clip. This way u can let her know ur loaded...but remember at this point she may think she can get some money out of you (i.e. buy dinner, buy "this or that")...if she asks for u to buy her something simply reverse her question back at her.
Example:
HER: im really hungry...wanna buy me something to eat?
YOU:I could use a bite to eat..how about you buy me something?
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This way she knows you have money but your not a ****ing ***** about it. She still has to earn her affection from you...money wont change that

Respect

 

[Good_ol_boy]

"...but can you use your money to actually get more dates in the first place?"

Look in the Yellow Pages under "Escorts".

That's the most direct way. After all, using "money" is going to attract the gold diggers anyway.

 

[Dr. Strangelove]

Originally posted by tosh


What would be a subtle way of bringing it up, or is there no such thing?

There might be subtle ways but...who the hell cares?.

Spend plenty on shoes and clothes, get a good car and frecuent upper-class joints...you'll have wanna-be posh, hot girls all over you before you can order the first drink!.

Of course, you're bound to bump into plenty of gold diggers if you take this route. But don't worry about it, **** 'em all and sort the good ones later!. Gold diggers can be good actresses, but if you test them right (cutting the money flow for a while) they'll end up showing their true face. As long as you don't get married your money will be safe.

Have fun...sure as hell you can!.

 

[##17]

You can't be serious here. Why would you want to do a thing like that? You realize that this is only asking for a woman who likes you only for your finances, who uses you for a meal ticket, right?

 

[tosh]

We seem to have two schools of thought here.

Obviously, I don't want to get women who are only interested in my money, but I mean MOST women will put "rich" on their list of "good features".

Even women who don't qualify as gold-diggers. It's in their nature isn't it?

Finding the best provider for their offsprings and all that

 

[MrNiceGuy]

I'm in a similar boat..

but you've still gotta have a certain mentality in order to pull it off even to get the gold diggers..

I'm quite lucky in that I landed a fancy job a couple of years ago, I earn more than double the average salary for a guy my age (25), plus if the company has a good year (which it has) then I get a fat bonus, this year it was 66% of my salary. so basically being young, single and with no responsibilties I've got loads in the bank..

But you still need a player type mentality in order to attract the gold diggers I think..

For the other chicks it just works as a plus.. provided you're modest about it..

One thing, to all you guys who are broke or still at uni or whatever, money does NOT make you happy.. Because you get used to whatever you've got and it becomes the norm.. I know because I went from having sod all to suddently earning more than both my parents combined almost overnight...

All it does is free you from the worry of paying bills / can I afford to go out etc.

I'm getting pretty bored with my job at the moment, and I'm seriously considering finding something more fulfilling even if it does involve a massive pay cut..

 

[Egoist]

actually having money makes it worse for you, it makes you more of an AFC because you start thinking that women should be with you because you have a couple extra grand. How pathetic.



i used to think along those lines, than i learned to know better. if you wanna be treated as a provider and be surrounded by golddiggers, show off your wealth. If you wanna fvck hot girls, learn how to be a real man, because it doesnt matter how much money you have, what matters is how you live your life.

 

[SamePendo]

Look at your post. You are talking of YOU qualifying, passing HER test. When, your wealth is another reason which it's the other way round baby. She's got to prove herself worthy to your DJ charm, natural unique carisma (and money too). Even if you didn't have the money, it's the other way around.

 

[tosh]

I guess you guys are right... I was thinking of buying a carrera in any case for my own pleasure. If it has an added benefit then so be it.

 

[LowPlainsDrifter]

It's all about how the gal feels, not the accessories

Interesting case - a client of mine who I got to know socially (rarely happens, which is actually a good thing) spent like 30 mins outside checking out a guy's new Nissan Altima - he pulls up and tells her about it, and she disappears for half an hour.
Now, just a few weeks before I had gotten a BMW 325xi, which took the place of my crummy Saturn. She's been in the saturn a few times, but didn't say anything about my new car when I drove us somewhere in it.
(I'm not saying that Nissans aren't great cars, in fact if I didn't feel that all wheel drive was critical, I would have strongly considered the 240 hp Altima myself).

Another situation: my jobless, carless, still living at home friend does better with women than I do, yet I own a 2 br apt, drive a great car, and have a successful business.

 

[spitkicker]

Put yourself together very well. If I could get a stylist, I would. Have them shop with you and wear some nice jewelery.

Girls will pick up on the money just by looking at how you dress, the watch you have on and your shoes.

Oh, and get some game to go along with all that

 

[TCDude]

When you really have wealth and have arrived you don't have to do anything at all -- it just shows in the way you present yourself. It shows in the places you go and the clothes you wear and the car you drive and the people you know.

When that's you, you needn't do a thing at all for the ladies to swarm to you for your cash.