Being used for sex but I want more

QuadDeuces

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Im currently traveling through Asia and Australia.
About 2 months ago i met a girl HB8 who was also traveling and we decided after dating and a few sleepovers to travel together. This actually went so good we ended up 2 months in eachothers private space 24/7 with great sex 3 almost every day but also good intimate contact had developed.
In bed I am very dominant, and Ive taught her a few sexual things, she loved being submissive, Ive made her fantasy come true sort of.
She had a history of **** relationships, but she was always the dominant, and the submissive, feminine exes (one dresses up like a woman, and loves to take it backwards) still stalk her on facebook and follow her around like crying puppy dogs. No matter how bad she treats them. One was crying on the phone, after me and her had the most disgusting degrading sex.
This actually made me feel really sick for the guy, and made me release once again how evil women are.

Anyway we had to split up, I had a flight to Perth she to Sydney, but now shes gone I kind of miss her I have sort of developed feelings for her, but I dont want to express them to her, dont want to end up on the same pile of used up wussie ex-bf's. So I always remain cold, try to never initiate contact, be nagging with ******* remarks. But I am thinking about coming to Sydney sometime soon, (for work of course not primairly for her)

But she appears to never have cared at all, all she can talk about is sex, never about how Im personally doing. I dont even think she cares at all.
She only cares about sex with me.
She always calls me "travel mate""Mate" or "Man" never as "Baby" (Only when were having sex)

Is this a **** test?
Do you think I can apply some techniques to make her emotionally attach to me, or should I delete her of FB and go on? Because I really hate seeing pics of her partying, all done up with slutty makeup dancing with other guys. Im not going to torture myself like that.

Ive just come out of a heavy relationship with someone with a BPD disorder, which completely destroyed my trust in women, I see women now more as the enemy of which you are in constant mental warfare, I really want something sort of solid, because Im tired of all the games you have to play with women.
 

TonyBaloney

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Hey buddy,

I was in the same kind of relationship on and off for over 3 years. Let me tell you that your are right on the edge of the abyss, and I really really fear for your wellbeing if you walk toward her again. This sound like possibly "the worst" type of PD woman, one who is a sadist to boot.

I would COMPLETELY urge you to step back, turn around and realize that this demented situation is a lose lose....for anyone....

Please bro, I hope that your understand how your psychological wellbeing is being jeopardised here....



Tony
 

Skalioppe

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Sorry dude, but you were the fvckbuddy. You need to accept what it was and not try to dress it up into something it wasn't.

Enjoy it whilst it lasted and move on, the truth - as hard as it is to swallow - is that she just doesn't see you in any other capacity than the c0ck that was used to scratch her itch.
 
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Greasy Pig

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Most women can't help but bond with a man they regularly have sex with. The fact that she could screw you for so long, so often and so passionately but still not get attached to you is a HUGE red flag.

It sounds like she's a master manipulator of men and sees them as mere playthings which can be easily tossed aside once they've exceeded their usefulness.

I'd keep in touch with her just for the filthy sex if you ever meet up again. I wouldn't worry about trying to figure out how to make her fall for you.
If she didn't after this long, I think it's impossible she ever could.

Don't take it personally, be happy that you got to experience what must be a truly amazing fvck.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Scaramouche

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Dear Quad Deuce,
Oh you poor Boy......She only wants you for your body?....It must be Hell!
 

Serg897

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Skalioppe said:
Sorry dude, but you were the fvckbuddy. You need to accept what it was and not try to dress it up into something it wasn't.

Enjoy it whilst it lasted and move on, the truth - as hard as it is to swallow - is that she just doesn't see you in other other capacity than the c0ck that was used to scratch her itch.
^this
 
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