Hey Guys,
I need your help in the following situation that I am involved.
Going back 12 years ago (...in 1998) I had a crush on this girl that I went to college with during my senior year. We use to meet on many occasions at the Campus gym whereby she and I use to work-out. I must admit I was very attractive to her as she was very hot and surely had the looks. One day at the gym, I took the bold step to break-out a conversation with her and she came across very friendly with me as I discovered that she was single. Few days later, I asked her if she wanted to go for a coffee with me and she replied YES. But few hours later she got cold feet and made-up her mind and said NO. In other words, I got the hint that she wanted me to stop bothering her because I was not her type. Therefore, I got the hint and moved-on
A year later, I discovered that she did meet another guy at the same campus gym who she started dating him. From there, she went-on to married this guy and bared a kid with him in 2002.
Today (...seven years later), I have finally was able to reconnect with this girl again as she has moved into my neighborhood (...talk about a small world). She is now officially divorced from this guy who she married and had child with. Ask me why, I don't know.
Now that she is divorced, she all of sudden has started showing interest for me again after she had rejected me going back since 1998. Let us not forget she has indeed rejected me in the rudest manner. She has now started courting me by sending me e-mails through Facebook or trying to break a conversation with me on the street. She went far of asking me out on a date. I must admit that I am very bewildered by her attention.
Guys!!! Is she’s the right choice after she rejected me over for this guy who she went on to get married and divorced him??? Am I being use??? And am I getting involved with baggage?? Because I am convinced that she’s faking it with me!!!
I need your help in the following situation that I am involved.
Going back 12 years ago (...in 1998) I had a crush on this girl that I went to college with during my senior year. We use to meet on many occasions at the Campus gym whereby she and I use to work-out. I must admit I was very attractive to her as she was very hot and surely had the looks. One day at the gym, I took the bold step to break-out a conversation with her and she came across very friendly with me as I discovered that she was single. Few days later, I asked her if she wanted to go for a coffee with me and she replied YES. But few hours later she got cold feet and made-up her mind and said NO. In other words, I got the hint that she wanted me to stop bothering her because I was not her type. Therefore, I got the hint and moved-on
A year later, I discovered that she did meet another guy at the same campus gym who she started dating him. From there, she went-on to married this guy and bared a kid with him in 2002.
Today (...seven years later), I have finally was able to reconnect with this girl again as she has moved into my neighborhood (...talk about a small world). She is now officially divorced from this guy who she married and had child with. Ask me why, I don't know.
Now that she is divorced, she all of sudden has started showing interest for me again after she had rejected me going back since 1998. Let us not forget she has indeed rejected me in the rudest manner. She has now started courting me by sending me e-mails through Facebook or trying to break a conversation with me on the street. She went far of asking me out on a date. I must admit that I am very bewildered by her attention.
Guys!!! Is she’s the right choice after she rejected me over for this guy who she went on to get married and divorced him??? Am I being use??? And am I getting involved with baggage?? Because I am convinced that she’s faking it with me!!!