Being the rebound guy...

hjsknksbm

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well this girl that i've been trying to get with was "friends" with me for like the last month because she said that she had a bf, she said I was "cute" and that she would keep me in mind, she broke up with her bf yesterday. I stopped hanging out with her for the last 3 weeks to avoid getting too friendly with her. Now is my opprotunity to ask her out. A date would be stuipid because we already know each other. So how would I go about getting her to be by bf? She let's me do kino and touching without any resitance. Should I just try to do stuff with her and let it evolve into a relationship? I have a kind of all or nothing attitude for women and I don't want to be her friend even though I have a deep feeling for her. Should I just ask her out. I want this girl to be my gf. I guess my question is how do u ask a girl to be your girl friend?
 

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You cant just ask her out of the blue to be your girl. you gotta build up to it or at least KNOW she will say yes.

Ask her on a date, just because you know her doesnt mean you cant date. Thats where you should start and her answer to you asking her will tell you where to go next.
 

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You need to make known your interested and want her to affirmate this.

I'd ask her to ice cream after school, that's my little thing. Girls love ice cream, and they love me. Then you can get to talking about her boyfriend, about relationships, exchange phone numbers, yadda yadda.

Become good acquaintances and good things will happen.

After you've done that, we can discuss how to make her yours.
 

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uh, did u read my post? I did all that!
 
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Wach dris vade forthen.

Dinthzeer ching lu reesinvud blang!

:)
 

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acdc doesnt like homework and....


he has a *****?
 
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