Being Stalked

[PeasantPlayer]

Ok I was try and make this as short as possible. Alright.....so I go to this coffee shop as a regular to read, write and pretty much mind my own business. Its where I get my "work" done.

A few months ago I was sitting, listening to music in my headphones minding my own business when some chick walked by me and used the washroom behind me (No big deal) When she came out she dropped a note next to me and walked away to the front. I began to feel very awkward and thought this was a bit childish. I opened the note and it said some gibberish like she wanted to talk to me and get too know me blah blah.

I folded the note back up and left out the back door, and went about my day. As I began going to the coffee shop more I noticed this girl who left me the note is there every damn day, for hours on time.

I'm not one to judge as I am there often to complete work and plan my goals. I noticed her going in there before, but I wasn't attracted to her, she's not ugly, but it wasn't on my mind on the time I was elsewhere is thought. Anyway I kept ignoring her and she would always stare at me and listen to my conversations. (she admitted this) My gut was telling me stay away from this chick even before I got the note, everytime I seen her I would feel a tension.


so after weeks she left me a 2nd and third note on the 3rd note her number. Out of curiosity I texted her a week and a half later. We texted back and forth with her initiating 99 percent of the text.


Honestly I just wasn't feeling it, but continued to text, that was my fault. She seemed stalkerish and has a crazy look in her eyes. When we are both at the coffee shop she try and position herself near me.



Ok now the weird part, So I am sitting in the shop minding my own business....sit on the table and after about 10 minutes of sitting down some cute lady comes up to me and ask if I know some girl with curly hair, blah blah blah. I was like umm maybe do you have a name? She was trying to think of the name and said she forgot. Anyway she continued on saying she was sitting down and some girl started talking to her and described me, and said I was staring at her and that I liked her and might be shy and scared to approach her! I started laughing, this crazy chick flipped the whole story and left parts out. 1 I don't stare at her I barely noticed her and when I did her aura annoyed me. 2 she left me 3 damn notes randomly and gave me her number! The women who told me was laughing and she whispered yea she does seem kind of stalkerish! So I smiled and laughed back, the lady was really friendly and attractive. I had my guard up regardless, I notice this women was talking to a guy at the coffee shop before she came up to me, and other people very "social-able"

We talked briefly more and she introduced herself and said I should probably stay away from that chick. I laughed shook her hand and she left. I also got a flirty vibe from this woman, but had my guard up.

Now I am wondering what I should do with the crazy chick? Should I confront her? Let it be?
How can I game the lady who told me? What would be a good approach since seems have been planted by the crazy chick that I was "staring" at her? What do you guys think about this situation?
Thanks

 

[BetterCallSaul]

There are a number of guys here who wont admit it but they'd love to have a chick stalking them. I suggest you forward her number to them.

 

[dustmuffin]

Just ask her out and f uck her.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Women.....i swear, I'm thinking about gaming the women who told Me, she's more my speed and she told me she sees me at the coffee shop often. As for the other chick I want to confront her and tell her off but maybe avoiding her altogether would be a better option, thanks fellas

 

[PeasantPlayer]

She's like 22-23 and she's a HB 5.5. The women who told me about her talking to her is a HB 6.8

 

[Red Legg]

There are a number of guys here who wont admit it but they'd love to have a chick stalking them. I suggest you forward her number to them.

I had several ONS where the woman pursued me and I had to run from them..at first I was like this is fun...but when they did not let up it became not fun fast (I am well endowed)....I think that has something to do with it,or if you are really good in the sack they may come after you full bore...

 

[PeasantPlayer]

When our text do get personal, I cloak and misdirect my personal information, I'm not going to let her ruin my place of solitude. What I will do is pursue the cute chick who told me, with my guards up of course

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Well I told the stalker we can't talk no more via text, she tried to say it was the other female who was weird and asking questions. It could be partly true either way, screw em both I'm ABUNDANT

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Have to bring this topic back up. For context I stopped texting this chick after other woman at the coffee shop told me this chick tried to flip the script, and make it look like I liked her and was obsessed with her. Well fast forward I stopped going to the shop for awhile. Well I went one day (few days ago) and seen that woman who before had told me about the stalker chick. Well I decided to stop by the shop as it was nice and they have a patio and doing some reading. After about 30 minutes of reading, the woman had pulled up and she seen me sitting down and instantly starting talking to me, inside I had a big sigh....she was like "I don't like to gossip, but" I cut her off and said with a half smile, but you do like to gossip....she was like well "yea.....but no" She basically told me the chick who is "stalking" me told her ex boyfriend that it was the other way around (this chick is nuts) I laughed and the woman laughed and said she knows its not true, I have a very calm quiet demeanor, while other guys are aggressive and thirsty and always ask for her number. I was like listen I got the notes from this crazy chick, I got all the proof. Not worried I cut her off its over. The woman was like "yea keep those notes she's crazy" I do notice this woman is always trying to touch my arm, and I think I might have 2 stalkers!

Maybe this woman is not a stalker per se, but she is interested, and she gives off a slutty vibe and I like it.

When we finished up chatting she walked in the shop and my stalker walked in a few minutes after, I can see through the glass door at the stalker giving this woman dirty looks it was hilarious.

But yea this is making me look bad as its not true and this chick is truly a head case, now I am wondering if both chicks are head cases and how the hell should I handle this? I feel like banging the woman aka the messenger

 

[Alvafe]

pretty sure the teller is friend of the stalker, possible this is just a game for the stalker one get you moving, I would really run from both, possible the teller will jsut want to grab you to show the stalker she is better then her, not really worth the trouble, better find another shop to go too

 

[PeasantPlayer]

You should be at Lallapalooza where all the whipper snappers are hanging out right now.

Been working too much lately