PeasantPlayer
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Ok I was try and make this as short as possible. Alright.....so I go to this coffee shop as a regular to read, write and pretty much mind my own business. Its where I get my "work" done.
A few months ago I was sitting, listening to music in my headphones minding my own business when some chick walked by me and used the washroom behind me (No big deal) When she came out she dropped a note next to me and walked away to the front. I began to feel very awkward and thought this was a bit childish. I opened the note and it said some gibberish like she wanted to talk to me and get too know me blah blah.
I folded the note back up and left out the back door, and went about my day. As I began going to the coffee shop more I noticed this girl who left me the note is there every damn day, for hours on time.
I'm not one to judge as I am there often to complete work and plan my goals. I noticed her going in there before, but I wasn't attracted to her, she's not ugly, but it wasn't on my mind on the time I was elsewhere is thought. Anyway I kept ignoring her and she would always stare at me and listen to my conversations. (she admitted this) My gut was telling me stay away from this chick even before I got the note, everytime I seen her I would feel a tension.
so after weeks she left me a 2nd and third note on the 3rd note her number. Out of curiosity I texted her a week and a half later. We texted back and forth with her initiating 99 percent of the text.
Honestly I just wasn't feeling it, but continued to text, that was my fault. She seemed stalkerish and has a crazy look in her eyes. When we are both at the coffee shop she try and position herself near me.
Ok now the weird part, So I am sitting in the shop minding my own business....sit on the table and after about 10 minutes of sitting down some cute lady comes up to me and ask if I know some girl with curly hair, blah blah blah. I was like umm maybe do you have a name? She was trying to think of the name and said she forgot. Anyway she continued on saying she was sitting down and some girl started talking to her and described me, and said I was staring at her and that I liked her and might be shy and scared to approach her! I started laughing, this crazy chick flipped the whole story and left parts out. 1 I don't stare at her I barely noticed her and when I did her aura annoyed me. 2 she left me 3 damn notes randomly and gave me her number! The women who told me was laughing and she whispered yea she does seem kind of stalkerish! So I smiled and laughed back, the lady was really friendly and attractive. I had my guard up regardless, I notice this women was talking to a guy at the coffee shop before she came up to me, and other people very "social-able"
We talked briefly more and she introduced herself and said I should probably stay away from that chick. I laughed shook her hand and she left. I also got a flirty vibe from this woman, but had my guard up.
Now I am wondering what I should do with the crazy chick? Should I confront her? Let it be?
How can I game the lady who told me? What would be a good approach since seems have been planted by the crazy chick that I was "staring" at her? What do you guys think about this situation?
Thanks
A few months ago I was sitting, listening to music in my headphones minding my own business when some chick walked by me and used the washroom behind me (No big deal) When she came out she dropped a note next to me and walked away to the front. I began to feel very awkward and thought this was a bit childish. I opened the note and it said some gibberish like she wanted to talk to me and get too know me blah blah.
I folded the note back up and left out the back door, and went about my day. As I began going to the coffee shop more I noticed this girl who left me the note is there every damn day, for hours on time.
I'm not one to judge as I am there often to complete work and plan my goals. I noticed her going in there before, but I wasn't attracted to her, she's not ugly, but it wasn't on my mind on the time I was elsewhere is thought. Anyway I kept ignoring her and she would always stare at me and listen to my conversations. (she admitted this) My gut was telling me stay away from this chick even before I got the note, everytime I seen her I would feel a tension.
so after weeks she left me a 2nd and third note on the 3rd note her number. Out of curiosity I texted her a week and a half later. We texted back and forth with her initiating 99 percent of the text.
Honestly I just wasn't feeling it, but continued to text, that was my fault. She seemed stalkerish and has a crazy look in her eyes. When we are both at the coffee shop she try and position herself near me.
Ok now the weird part, So I am sitting in the shop minding my own business....sit on the table and after about 10 minutes of sitting down some cute lady comes up to me and ask if I know some girl with curly hair, blah blah blah. I was like umm maybe do you have a name? She was trying to think of the name and said she forgot. Anyway she continued on saying she was sitting down and some girl started talking to her and described me, and said I was staring at her and that I liked her and might be shy and scared to approach her! I started laughing, this crazy chick flipped the whole story and left parts out. 1 I don't stare at her I barely noticed her and when I did her aura annoyed me. 2 she left me 3 damn notes randomly and gave me her number! The women who told me was laughing and she whispered yea she does seem kind of stalkerish! So I smiled and laughed back, the lady was really friendly and attractive. I had my guard up regardless, I notice this women was talking to a guy at the coffee shop before she came up to me, and other people very "social-able"
We talked briefly more and she introduced herself and said I should probably stay away from that chick. I laughed shook her hand and she left. I also got a flirty vibe from this woman, but had my guard up.
Now I am wondering what I should do with the crazy chick? Should I confront her? Let it be?
How can I game the lady who told me? What would be a good approach since seems have been planted by the crazy chick that I was "staring" at her? What do you guys think about this situation?
Thanks
