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Don Juan
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- Dec 14, 2004
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First off, let me just say Im back after quite a few years away from the site, and Im bac in hopes of getting some future advice on women. Now when I was first on this site, I was a total AFC. I mean, I remember beating myself up for 6 months over this one girl who broke up with me. It makes me cringe to see how pathetic I was. So anyway, I could still use some work but Im much better than I used to be. Now to the matter at hand.
Ok so Ive been talking to this girl for about a week now. Shes actually a very cute girl, at least for someone like me, shes about an 8. Now we went to the mall on our first date and everything seemed to go really well. She was smiling constantly, and we were holding a convorsation. The next day she tells me she only thinks of me as a friend. Ok well now we have the dreaded friend zone. The rest of the week for about Id say 5 days. when Im on facebook, shes Instant messaging me, Im not even thinking about instant messaging her. So last night I was at her house, and once again, I would say things went well. I tried to show I had game without giving her TOO much attention if that makes sense. I tried to keep up the ****y and funny which can always be an instant win like for example. Her and her mom said I was too skinny and I needed to eat. I respond with "No I dont, you have 90 pounds of man standing right here" and I struck a pose. she laughed at everything I said. She even asked me to watch tv with her and patted the spot next to the couch and told me to sit down. When I left it was a little akward because well, I guess some of my AFCness came back, but just before I left she hugged me. Good sign. So anyone care to analyze this for me so I know where to go from here?
Ok so Ive been talking to this girl for about a week now. Shes actually a very cute girl, at least for someone like me, shes about an 8. Now we went to the mall on our first date and everything seemed to go really well. She was smiling constantly, and we were holding a convorsation. The next day she tells me she only thinks of me as a friend. Ok well now we have the dreaded friend zone. The rest of the week for about Id say 5 days. when Im on facebook, shes Instant messaging me, Im not even thinking about instant messaging her. So last night I was at her house, and once again, I would say things went well. I tried to show I had game without giving her TOO much attention if that makes sense. I tried to keep up the ****y and funny which can always be an instant win like for example. Her and her mom said I was too skinny and I needed to eat. I respond with "No I dont, you have 90 pounds of man standing right here" and I struck a pose. she laughed at everything I said. She even asked me to watch tv with her and patted the spot next to the couch and told me to sit down. When I left it was a little akward because well, I guess some of my AFCness came back, but just before I left she hugged me. Good sign. So anyone care to analyze this for me so I know where to go from here?