The poster who commented on the smv of said female friends has a point. Does anyone here have grotesque female friends that could be the perfect friends? Or is everyone always higher smv?
I love to take long walks.
I've observed couples while being outside, walking around in the city, parks but I also neighborhoods. One thing I've noticed is that most successful looking couples all have one thing in common; the man has more smv than his woman. The woman is a cite 6/7 but hardly ever a 8+. Should be a thread by itself.
My homie isn't as black and white as me when it comes to this topic. But the female friend he has is;
-not attractive
- needs him for all kinds of things. Money, car advice about men ect.
-even though he is hardcore single she never hook him up. Seems like she wants him to stay single.
Best version imo. A friend is rare. A female friend is alien to most men.
I work and socialize with a multitude of women everyday. Some are pleasant and some are exhausting. Sure they are fun to look at and interact with but at the end of the day, they are all acquaintances and outside of work their contributions are minimal.
Granted you need to be able to interact and socialize with women your entire life. But female friends that you interact with like you would with your male friends is rare in my experience. Especially if you have a wife. My wife is suspect just hearing me say another woman’s name until she meets her and sees she’s not attractive. Funny how that works. If she is hot, then be prepared for an interrogation. They are all platonic acquaintances if you think about it. Problem is the benefits don’t out weight the effort.
Being a husband and father, I have little time to myself. That free time I‘d rather spent with guy friends to do shared hobbies and get away. Females are solipsistic and only want to talk about themselves. I have a coworker that occasionally reaches out on the weekends. Majority of the time it’s with a fake lead-in question and then she unloads her drama like a machine gun. Is this my “benefit” of her friendship? Getting to be on the receiving end of sh!t I don’t care about? I’d rather watch paint dry. Call one of your girlfriends to share your drama with. I’ve got plenty at home, thank you but no thank you.
I‘d say this situation only occurs while you are younger and single. Once in an LTR or marriage, neither partner wants their significant other spending alone time with the opposite sex. These “friendships” morph into couple friendships or they fall off.
Sounds like most men here never lived with a woman. Sounds like they are all 25 ,happy at home living a Friends episode.
This is also why we get this woke agenda pushed down our throat. Women refuse to acknowledge their position and wanna infiltrate into man's spaces and force men to "be cool " with it.
Meanwhile there are more and more places like gyms, even studio rooms where there are only women allowed. So a man can make women feel uncomfortable, but the other way around is something you can't talk about. Again, the woke left agenda being forced upon people.
