Jerry Maguire
Senior Don Juan
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I was reading through Pook's Be A Man article and it got me thinking.
He was advising us to act unneedy because it's the desperation that puts women off.
Well, I am kind of like this, due to being quite shy. I have a kind of sociophobia, which makes me not really want to go out with friends/girls, or really talk to them. So while I'm being quiet, unneedy and have high standards, I've had no women ask me out for a while.
I know I'm pretty good looking with an approach very similar to Pooks, so why aren't girls asking me out all the time?
Surely at least some would ask me out, whereas the truth is, nobody has for a while.
I actually have no idea what girls opinions on me are, except from one girl that's kind of a friend of me, she finds me attractive but finds my personality to be arrogant.
The thing I'm getting at is, it's all fine having this approach, and the looks, but in the end of the day, if it isn't attracting any girls to ask me out, where am I going wrong?
I have issues with my shyness, but I don't see how shyness can be distinguished from being nonchalant at first glance.
Muddled post, insight appreciated.
He was advising us to act unneedy because it's the desperation that puts women off.
Well, I am kind of like this, due to being quite shy. I have a kind of sociophobia, which makes me not really want to go out with friends/girls, or really talk to them. So while I'm being quiet, unneedy and have high standards, I've had no women ask me out for a while.
I know I'm pretty good looking with an approach very similar to Pooks, so why aren't girls asking me out all the time?
Surely at least some would ask me out, whereas the truth is, nobody has for a while.
I actually have no idea what girls opinions on me are, except from one girl that's kind of a friend of me, she finds me attractive but finds my personality to be arrogant.
The thing I'm getting at is, it's all fine having this approach, and the looks, but in the end of the day, if it isn't attracting any girls to ask me out, where am I going wrong?
I have issues with my shyness, but I don't see how shyness can be distinguished from being nonchalant at first glance.
Muddled post, insight appreciated.