Of course you get mad or negative when you see women, I can see from your post that you're batsh!t crazy. There's no tactics, tricks or psychological games you can play, women these days are sharp enough to not be fooled.
I fvcked a girl on saturday, want to know my tactic? I spent a couple of hours drinking and talking to everyone who was there. I went out with her to take a cigarette every time, just talking casually. No ****y attitude, no stupid jokes and no trying hard to be funny. Did we laugh about stuff anyways? Yes. Then I spent a couple of hours looking at drama and the party falling apart. Me and her thought it was ridicoulous watching this couple where the girl was a monster and the guy a beta just taking it. I made out with her as that's more interesting than drama, no smoke and mirrors. No jokes or anything, I just leaned in and made out, really simple. I went with her and a friend of hers to a bar, all the drama people went home. Finally we could have a good time, although her friend disappeared. Me and her was alone now, some dude came over trying to hit on her. I made out with her, smiled a bit and told this guy good luck. He vanished, other guys constantly asked if we were a couple. She said that might happen and she looked over at me, I told her that yeah it might. Later she brought me back to her place, again there's no sign of me using psychological tricks other than normal talking and touching.
Now to the juicy part, what trick did I use to get her naked and on my d!ck? We started watching south park, because we both like it and that's her excuse for taking me home with her. Now this trick is super-effective, I leaned over starting to make out and took off her clothes. No jokes, no ****y lines or anything stupid like that. Then there's the next trick, this one is awesome, I put my d!ck inside her pvssy and fvcked her hard. Then she was amazed at how wet she was, I came, she came and we went to sleep.
Want to know how I learned this? What book I read? None at all, I went out to figure it out for myself through experience.