Being busy, pursuing passions and scarcity drives up your value bigtime

[Georgepithyou]

Being busy and spending 0 time with women will never work.

A lot of these guys are going from one extreme to the other

At one point in life, most men come to the conclusion that chasing pvssy is the problem, not the solution

If you don't chase what do you expect is going to happen? A woman isn't just going to fall out of the sky and into your arms. If you want something you go out and work for it.

 

[Visionist]

Fvck a party...I am trying to retire in 6 months. I'll send you pics of the party from my yacht next year.

Unless you're into yachting in a big way, and I mean unless it's a passion on the same level as playing the crypto market, then charter, don't buy. It's a hole in the water you throw hard cash into and never get it back. And if you want a boat big enough to throw a party, even worse.

Two happiest days in a man's life. Day he buys a yacht, and the day he sells it.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Except to prove your nonsense talk is incorrect.

They will only ever care about you if you're willing to do something for them. If you focus on your goals and become rich, etc... What good does that do them unless you give some to them?

Wrong, thats the mindset of a beta-provider.

Also, its not about being/getting "rich" as you, the "millionaire", are obviously living proof of.

Its about becoming a high-value-man in the eyes of women and this is not achieved by (short term) PUA seduction or playing by the rules of western society.

If you don't chase what do you expect is going to happen? A woman isn't just going to fall out of the sky and into your arms. If you want something you go out and work for it.

"Don´t chase women" doesnt equal "lock yourself in at home".
Nobody said you shouldnt go out into the world and put yourself on the market.

Do what you enjoy, excell in it and there are groupies for allmost everything out there except video gaming.

The whole point in RP is to NOT work for(to get) women, BUT work to make yourself a high value man enough that women will want to be with you, without you having to work for it. And as mentioned above, a high value man is not bound to be rich.

If a women sees you as high value, all of the PUA-wisdoms fly straight out of window and unless you are stupid enough to talk yourself out of her pvssy it is an auto-win.

 

[Epicenter]

Wrong, thats the mindset of a beta-provider.

Also, its not about being/getting "rich" as you, the "millionaire", are obviously living proof of.

Its about becoming a high-value-man in the eyes of women and this is not achieved by (short term) PUA seduction or playing by the rules of western society.



"Don´t chase women" doesnt equal "lock yourself in at home".
Nobody said you shouldnt go out into the world and put yourself on the market.

Do what you enjoy, excell in it and there are groupies for allmost everything out there except video gaming.

The whole point in RP is to NOT work for(to get) women, BUT work to make yourself a high value man enough that women will want to be with you, without you having to work for it. And as mentioned above, a high value man is not bound to be rich.

If a women sees you as high value, all of the PUA-wisdoms fly straight out of window and unless you are stupid enough to talk yourself out of her pvssy it is an auto-win.

So most guys enjoy masturbation. They should excell in it and then make them high value? How that is going to work?

Or some like watching movies and porn. How should they proceed?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Wrong, thats the mindset of a beta-provider.

Also, its not about being/getting "rich" as you, the "millionaire", are obviously living proof of.

Its about becoming a high-value-man in the eyes of women and this is not achieved by (short term) PUA seduction or playing by the rules of western society.



"Don´t chase women" doesnt equal "lock yourself in at home".
Nobody said you shouldnt go out into the world and put yourself on the market.

Do what you enjoy, excell in it and there are groupies for allmost everything out there except video gaming.

The whole point in RP is to NOT work for(to get) women, BUT work to make yourself a high value man enough that women will want to be with you, without you having to work for it. And as mentioned above, a high value man is not bound to be rich.

If a women sees you as high value, all of the PUA-wisdoms fly straight out of window and unless you are stupid enough to talk yourself out of her pvssy it is an auto-win.

Well if getting rich is what I want to do... Then that's my decision.

I think you're full of nice-sounding theoretical advice that has no real-world merit.

Plus, nearly every hot girl I see is with a rich guy, or at least a guy who does above average. Unless the girl is a drug addict or other degenerate, in which case, that's what she'll find.

You create an arbitrary thing call "high value" without any sensible definition of what it might be. I see through your wannabe advice.

Edit: In fact, most couples I see include a guy who holds her hand, tells her he loves her, etc. The most blue-pilled thing you could think of. The exact opposite of the fictional alpha nonsense preached by this site.

 

[Epicenter]

Well if getting rich is what I want to do... Then that's my decision.

I think you're full of nice-sounding theoretical advice that has no real-world merit.

Plus, nearly every hot girl I see is with a rich guy, or at least a guy who does above average. Unless the girl is a drug addict or other degenerate, in which case, that's what she'll find.

You create an arbitrary thing call "high value" without any sensible definition of what it might be. I see through your wannabe advice.

Yes man be high value with something you enjoy

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Well if getting rich is what I want to do... Then that's my decision.

I think you're full of nice-sounding theoretical advice that has no real-world merit.

Plus, nearly every hot girl I see is with a rich guy, or at least a guy who does above average. Unless the girl is a drug addict or other degenerate, in which case, that's what she'll find.

You create an arbitrary thing call "high value" without any sensible definition of what it might be. I see through your wannabe advice.

Edit: In fact, most couples I see include a guy who holds her hand, tells her he loves her, etc. The most blue-pilled thing you could think of. The exact opposite of the fictional alpha nonsense preached by this site.

Nothing wrong with being rich, never said that.

I dont care what you think.

Yesyes.... we have all seen rich guys with gold diggers. Nothing new there.
Now, as you are a rich guy and know all the stuff, where are all the hot girls chasing you and what do you do here?

What is "high value" depends on the woman and what she is looking for, not on your imagination. But to throw out a few terms you can grasp: protection, looks, money, masculinity, social status, intelect etc.etc.

@Edit
Yeah.... thats what YOU see. What you don´t see is how much pvssy he gets, what freedoms he has, what SHE decides in the relationship, what happens if he doesnt "behave" as she sees fit, how much she has been cheating on him by now..... etc.etc.

The road to family courts is plastered with disney fantasies by men that thought "their woman was different" and that they could "just be themselves" and "do the right thing".

 

[Epicenter]

Nothing wrong with being rich, never said that.

I dont care what you think.

Yesyes.... we have all seen rich guys with gold diggers. Nothing new there.
Now, as you are a rich guy and know all the stuff, where are all the hot girls chasing you and what do you do here?

What is "high value" depends on the woman and what she is looking for, not on your imagination. But to throw out a few terms you can grasp: protection, looks, money, masculinity, social status, intelect etc.etc.

@Edit
Yeah.... thats what YOU see. What you don´t see is how much pvssy he gets, what freedoms he has, what SHE decides in the relationship, what happens if he doesnt "behave" as she sees fit, how much she has been cheating on him by now..... etc.etc.

The road to family courts is plastered with disney fantasies by men that thought "their woman was different" and that they could "just be themselves" and "do the right thing".

Amazing so "protection, looks, money, masculinity, social status, intelect etc etc."

So that is the solution etc etc...

Very new and enlightening concept (for the midget league)

 

[Lookatu]

So I now know what people have been talking about when they say how women will chase you when you are focused on your passions, are extremely busy and don't have much free time to see it talk to them.

It's because you discovered a new passion on making gains(money). That drug has taken over the pvssy drug as priority.
I do the same. I find myself checking my brokerage apps more than dating apps. I'll check financial news more than my OLD message que.
If I get a financial alert on my phone, I'll check it right away. If I get a new match/new message alert from OLD, I'll check it when I'm bored later. Either way, it's a good feeling to have.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It's because you discovered a new passion on making gains(money). That drug has taken over the pvssy drug as priority.
I do the same. I find myself checking my brokerage apps more than dating apps. I'll check financial news more than my OLD message que.
If I get a financial alert on my phone, I'll check it right away. If I get a new match/new message alert from OLD, I'll check it when I'm bored later. Either way, it's a good feeling to have.

You know what it is more than anything? I've gotten to the point where I realize that I have always had greatness inside of me and I have ran away from it my whole life...always been good at anything I ever put my mind too, very intelligent, successful, but I never really "went for it" in the way I should have. In my entire life, I have never lost by betting on me.

And now I am and it feels so liberating...like I just took this giant gorilla off my back, bodyslammed him and then dropped a bionic elbow off the top turnbuckle on him...

And to be honest...I would rather go for it and lose every single penny I have than to live with the regret every day the rest of my life of knowing I should have done it and didn't...

 

[sigma335]

i'm just starting to date again after divorce then finding a fwb during covid. just had a date where the woman rejected me afterwards because i did not communicate well. after reading the post in this thread i think the main mistake was not communicating in a passionate way what my interest are, why i like my hobbies/how they make me feel. felt rushed to get there after staring at spreadsheets on 3 monitors for 10 hours and having my md call me an hour before the date unexpectedly with changes he wanted sent over for a project i'm working on. also didnt help that she was better looking and more spoiled than expected. apparently my game is rusty af.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

i'm just starting to date again after divorce then finding a fwb during covid. just had a date where the woman rejected me afterwards because i did not communicate well. after reading the post in this thread i think the main mistake was not communicating in a passionate way what my interest are, why i like my hobbies/how they make me feel. felt rushed to get there after staring at spreadsheets on 3 monitors for 10 hours and having my md call me an hour before the date unexpectedly with changes he wanted sent over for a project i'm working on. also didnt help that she was better looking and more spoiled than expected. apparently my game is rusty af.

Start your own business! Raise your SMV!

Quit taking orders from the man! You know your skill set better than we do... So brainstorm!

Maybe that would have got her panties off. Especially if you can work remotely while on vacation.

 

[sigma335]

Start your own business! Raise your SMV!

Quit taking orders from the man! You know your skill set better than we do... So brainstorm!

Maybe that would have got her panties off. Especially if you can work remotely while on vacation.

Appreciate the reply.

I already can work remotely at a job that pays a lot, my problem has always been my communication skills... I have struggled with stuttering and "the way I say things" my entire life. Need learn to get better at communicating that when in person talking to women. There are things I do outside of work that are interesting and attractive to women, but I am failing to say them in passionate, interesting ways.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Appreciate the reply.

I already can work remotely at a job that pays a lot, my problem has always been my communication skills... I have struggled with stuttering and "the way I say things" my entire life. Need learn to get better at communicating that when in person talking to women. There are things I do outside of work that are interesting and attractive to women, but I am failing to say them in passionate, interesting ways.

What interesting and attractive things do you do?

 

[sigma335]

What interesting and attractive things do you do?

Mountain biking, rock climbing, weight training consistently for 10+ years, trading, winning poker player and travel to play tournaments

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Keep trying but do not bore the hoes with nerd stuff.

For sure, classify the lady you are talking to and address the audience properly.

 

[derby1]

my observation is, whenever I show a woman she is not the centre of my universe & I have my **** together. she will usually bail/ghost

Its as if they are looking for a beta provider to move in theres.

apart from them mentioning I'm not needy through DM which they like, its never resulted in them pursuing like mad.

Infact some of the best relationships Ive had was when I met the woman 3 times in one week.

Go figure.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Women love guys with passion for their jobs who are succesful. Nothing better than sugardaddies paying for their party.

But do not be a passionate ambitious nerd without money and do not ever talk about Fibonacci to hot girls.

Actually you can get away with it, if she was part of a class where this material came up, or in a working environment of engineering or scientific types. They will like to hear the ideas conveyed correctly, those types do judge markers of "intelligence" and it can turn them on ( sapiosexual ). For most club or clique girls, no it will put in in a nonsexual box, it will "bore" them, it'll fvck you up badly.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

my observation is, whenever I show a woman she is not the centre of my universe & I have my **** together. she will usually bail/ghost

Its as if they are looking for a beta provider to move in theres.

apart from them mentioning I'm not needy through DM which they like, its never resulted in them pursuing like mad.

Infact some of the best relationships Ive had was when I met the woman 3 times in one week.

Go figure.

That is because your mindset is weak. You don't buy it yourself and you expect them to buy it.

 

[B80]

Actually you can get away with it, if she was part of a class where this material came up, or in a working environment of engineering or scientific types. They will like to hear the ideas conveyed correctly, those types do judge markers of "intelligence" and it can turn them on ( sapiosexual ). For most club or clique girls, no it will put in in a nonsexual box, it will "bore" them, it'll fvck you up badly.

yep. you can loosely insinuate stuff or breeze over it without going into any detail, if they;re interested they'll ask more... that goes for most subjects really.

its about knowing your audience.