I have only been on here a little bit, but I was married before, got divorced about a year and a half ago, and met this smokin chick who was about 8 years younger than me, I thought I hit the jackpot and she was everything I wanted......what a perfect time for that to happen right?
Well, it was because I didnt know what the hell I wanted, because like the guys before me said, I wasnt ready, and neither are you. I said the same exact things that you said before......I could give a damn about the ex wife, we dont contact each other.....this new girl is perfect for me, she is everything I was looking for.......except that its not!
Use this girl for what she is.......a confidence boost when you need it most. Right now, you are putting this girl on a pedestal, even though you think you arent. you feel secure and "aloof" because she has no friends or family, or social life. You said it yourself. What if she did make some friends and wasnt 100% responsive, then how would you feel?
You gotta go out and play the field, and realize that there are very few girls worth all the time in the world. Did you really think you would find the perfect girl with the very next one you find? She is perfect to you because she is prolly everything your ex wasnt. Not necessarily everything you truly want.
This is coming from another divorcee who right now a year and a half later is prolly in the best position I have ever been in with handling women and their bull**** and being able to get out of situations with females when it dont feel right, I exude confidence when dealing with chicks and they can sense it. Get to that point first bro.
But what do I know, im just a doctor