NOTE: Being a "sensitive" guy is NOT the same as being a "Nice guy" or a pvvsy.
It's common knowledge, at least on this forum, that women are attracted to masculine behavior. Therefore, you have to "man-up" in order to attract girls. You have to become more masculine and less feminine (a.k.a. beta) in order to be successful.
This looks pretty solid as it sounds pretty obvious as well. Opposite poles attract each other...
HOWEVER
This is brought down by an extremely simple argument. There are lesbians.
Ok, you say, thiat's a whole different story. They like feminine traits, just as we do. They're like man.
True. But then there are female bisexuals as well. They like BOTH men and women.
Again, you say, they are "different". It's not normal for a girl to like feminine traits, normal girls will always pursue 100% alfa male toughness.
Are you sure?.
From a psychoanalytical point of view, we all born with the capacity to be attracted to both men and women. One of these tendencies will get repressed. So, normally, your own gay-ness will stay in the subconscious. But you can do something about it, like becoming a singer or a painter, or even write poems! Or you can make a mental illness out of it and get on Prozac.
Other schools may or may not disagree with this thought. However, I think most of us agree we've got a feminine side. "Man don't cry", but many of us have cried sometimes...
Some of us are "sensitive" guys. We don't like things like... injustice. inequity. We embrace nature. We like animals. We occasionaly hear love songs. We watch Woody Allen movies. We like arts. Some do Yoga. We can be romantic. We care for other people.
QUESTION.
Are these "feminine" qualities an asset or a liability?.
Do we have to hide it from "normal" girls and be more like Schwartzenegger?.
Are there girls out there that like these "sensitive" traits? Or are they repelled by them?.
It's common knowledge, at least on this forum, that women are attracted to masculine behavior. Therefore, you have to "man-up" in order to attract girls. You have to become more masculine and less feminine (a.k.a. beta) in order to be successful.
This looks pretty solid as it sounds pretty obvious as well. Opposite poles attract each other...
HOWEVER
This is brought down by an extremely simple argument. There are lesbians.
Ok, you say, thiat's a whole different story. They like feminine traits, just as we do. They're like man.
True. But then there are female bisexuals as well. They like BOTH men and women.
Again, you say, they are "different". It's not normal for a girl to like feminine traits, normal girls will always pursue 100% alfa male toughness.
Are you sure?.
From a psychoanalytical point of view, we all born with the capacity to be attracted to both men and women. One of these tendencies will get repressed. So, normally, your own gay-ness will stay in the subconscious. But you can do something about it, like becoming a singer or a painter, or even write poems! Or you can make a mental illness out of it and get on Prozac.
Other schools may or may not disagree with this thought. However, I think most of us agree we've got a feminine side. "Man don't cry", but many of us have cried sometimes...
Some of us are "sensitive" guys. We don't like things like... injustice. inequity. We embrace nature. We like animals. We occasionaly hear love songs. We watch Woody Allen movies. We like arts. Some do Yoga. We can be romantic. We care for other people.
QUESTION.
Are these "feminine" qualities an asset or a liability?.
Do we have to hide it from "normal" girls and be more like Schwartzenegger?.
Are there girls out there that like these "sensitive" traits? Or are they repelled by them?.
