Being a master-DJ cant always get you the chicks

[eba]

At my school, my brothers, there is very few (fine) white girls. So all the 20 dudes go after them. My school is about 60% black, and Im not saying I wouldnt hit on a black girl, but they dont even want a white guy in the first place. Black girls and white girls are totally different ballparks. Im not trying to be racist or stereotypical or none such, but its true. I tried getting with this one black girl and she flat out told me she only went wif black guys. So I only have a very small percent of womens to do my DJ stuff on, and all this "competition".

For instance for everyone who read one of my previous posts, I said i was going to try to get this one girl, i think her name is Christine or Christina, but I found out today like every guy in my class wants her. Theres freshmen, sophs, juniors, and SENIORS. Of coarse she'll want the older dudes with the cars. Then theres this other girl who has a boyfriend I was going to "mack" on but shes always with her boyfriend and never talks to anyone else. D4mn. This is some wack a$$ sh1t. Anyone got any advice?

 

[Julian]

Damn man, thats a tough situation your in.

Dude, this is where the true DJ comes out. Dj's know no boundaries, race or whatever. Your thinking negatively, just because ONE black girl said she only goes with black guys doesnt mean they ALL think the same way.

You got shot down. And that will happen. Alot.

Keep trying man. And Who cares about this girls boyfriend, whats he got to do with you? Talk to her. If she spends every waking minute with him, i bet talking to someone new will be a welcoming change.

 

[Bjon]

Well you are in one tough situation. I really don't know what to tell you. But just get out there and don't really care what other people think. If you want to mack on this girl with a boyfriend then do it. Maybe you'll be able to win her over. Just be the man. Be a true DJ. Try other black girls. Just cause this one told you she only dates black guys doesn't mean all the other black girls at your school do. Just get out there and work the magic.

 

[drixsa]

listen to yourself...you are making excuses.

lets remember somethin a real DJ or a master DJ isnt just about the woman.

i used to think the same things about black woman ( yes i am a white)

but as i met more of them i realized that it was my ignorance of them not my skin color that was stoppin me from hookin up with them.

 

[eba]

The black girls isnt even the thing my brother. Once I actually find one I like THEN ill put what little skill I have on her. I just wanted to put that into the open. My problem is the women i DO want (the very very few of them) are already getting macked on by 30 other dudes.

I totally agree Im making excuses, but Im not a master-DJ. I dont know all this stuff how to instantly get any woman who has 30 other guys on the sideline.

Also, on this '10 number a day' thing, should I just mack on ANY woman, regardless if I want her number or not? That would make more sense considering there isnt many i do want.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by eba
The black girls isnt even the thing my brother. Once I actually find one I like THEN ill put what little skill I have on her. I just wanted to put that into the open. My problem is the women i DO want (the very very few of them) are already getting macked on by 30 other dudes.

I totally agree Im making excuses, but Im not a master-DJ. I dont know all this stuff how to instantly get any woman who has 30 other guys on the sideline.

Also, on this '10 number a day' thing, should I just mack on ANY woman, regardless if I want her number or not? That would make more sense considering there isnt many i do want.

the girls i know that are being persued by 30 others are coming to me

but with girls like this, that have an inflated ego, you need C+F

dont worry bout numbers just talk to everyone you can and establish just a small relationship with them

some you may find to like more than once thought

 

[Boricua_33015]

heh. I used to go to a school that was lke 60 percent black. Maybe more. I remember that there were only like 10 white/hispanic/other race out of like a 25 person class.

But thats not the point.

I went there when I was fat, and kind of geeky.... but still sort of pimpish.

I managed to get a black model chick attracted to me with my natural charm.

I ****ed it up though because even though I had charm, I turned into AFC and became needy.... and she LJBF me. Even though in the beginning she was the one wanting to interact with me.

Just keep trying man and dont give up.

Be funny, be charming.

Alot of black girls only go for black guys, but alot of black girls also go for other guys.

But usually black girls will go for the dominant guys. The more tougher guys, the more funnier, the ones who can give security.

 

[MetalFortress]

I remember someone on the DJ board awhile ago saying that black girls will usually be MORE attracted to white guys because it's a rare thing for white guys to go after them. Haven't tested that theory myself, though.

 

[THA REALNESS]

lol,they have cars ..so what ??unless it's sum luxury sh1t who cares??!! go after the first girl hard ,it doesn't matter who's trying 2 tag her!back of the second girl,untill ur sure he's not around,then go in 4 d kill,i'm not sure ur 2 ready 4 dat,right now>

 

[THA REALNESS]

p.s.

i've rarley seen a black girl fall 4 a white dj ,so maybe u should hook up with girls outside of school.

 

[Boricua_33015]

Yea me either.

I aint white though.

I am Puerto Rican with some black in me from a past generation.

So I have some sort of a hispanic 50 Cent look people tell me.

Sometimes I think the reason why the girl fell for me was because I wasn't fully white.

w/e, as long as your not a good ol homegrown American/polish/any other white race white boy you pretty much have nothing to worry about.

Black girls like black men and latin men. Thats pretty much it. If your white, to get that black girlyoud have to have really tite game.

I didnt intend to offend anyone with what I just said, but its pretty much the truth.

 

[Boricua_33015]

BTW Cormega is tha SHIZZNIZZLE! LOL

I gots all 3 of his albums. He is a great freestyler. He has really good flow.

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted by eba
At my school, my brothers, there is very few (fine) white girls. So all the 20 dudes go after them. My school is about 60% black, and Im not saying I wouldnt hit on a black girl, but they dont even want a white guy in the first place. Black girls and white girls are totally different ballparks. Im not trying to be racist or stereotypical or none such, but its true. I tried getting with this one black girl and she flat out told me she only went wif black guys. So I only have a very small percent of womens to do my DJ stuff on, and all this "competition".

For instance for everyone who read one of my previous posts, I said i was going to try to get this one girl, i think her name is Christine or Christina, but I found out today like every guy in my class wants her. Theres freshmen, sophs, juniors, and SENIORS. Of coarse she'll want the older dudes with the cars. Then theres this other girl who has a boyfriend I was going to "mack" on but shes always with her boyfriend and never talks to anyone else. D4mn. This is some wack a$$ sh1t. Anyone got any advice?

From your post, it seems that you're only going after girls in your school? Branch out dude.

Go to shopping centres (malls), parks, cafes, libraries etc and meet girls there!

If a girl ain't interested, next her! Who cares?

 

[THA REALNESS]

yeah

i know,playa ,i know