Being a "Lone Wolf"-picking up girls at clubs on your own

[Fatality]

Originally posted by SheepSter
Going out alone doesn't make you look like a loser. At least if you approach. I mean standing alone in the corner trying to find IOI's, yes that is VERY AFC. The trick is to become the life of the party, read this: Attaining Social Mastery. This post is dead on, you'll have a great time because you're THE MAN. I must say I actually got better results in the clubscene going out alone,then in a group. But in my case that's because going alone makes me approach everybody because else I'm bored. I still like going out with wings though, there's nothing like checking out the fine honeyz in the joint and grading them, approaching and having great fun.

Exactly

If somebody asks why you are alone just say that you don't need your friends to hold your hand when you go out.

 

[Lysol]

even thought im usually at the club with friends, i always will break away from them to approach women 'on my own'. so i really dont think there should be any problems going by yourself! im not a fan of using wingmen, its personally more satisfying for me to get the ladies on my own. besides you wont be fighting over who is getting the ugly one! lol

 

[Trance]

Focus on your social life instead. Make lots of friend circles, have a lot of fun, and women will come by all sides.

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

Originally posted by Lysol
even thought im usually at the club with friends, i always will break away from them to approach women 'on my own'. so i really dont think there should be any problems going by yourself! im not a fan of using wingmen, its personally more satisfying for me to get the ladies on my own. besides you wont be fighting over who is getting the ugly one! lol

EXactly, even if i go with my friends..i break away cuz they r too scared to do stuff. I jus dance with the girls and have fun

Let me give you some tips tho (from exp):

1) If you wanna dance, make sure the song is appropriate (not too fast...cuz she might reject you simply bcuz she cant dance to the song)

2) Don't wonder around the dance floor 50 times in the whole night....people will notice you are a loner and a dumbass (haha i did this, and got lotsa dances but now that i think of it...its stupid to walk around)

3) Wear jeans, If you wear some sort of pants that have weak material (so you can feel your skin - like a very thin layer) its bad for gridin!!!! Jeans are mcuh harder so when you grind you feel harder, and the women won't feel your (you know what) as much

4) Don't ask a girl again after a while if she already rejected you...youll get a definite NO

5) If a girl is jammin and dancing to the song [WITH HER FRIENDS], dont stop her...approach when shes taking a break

6) You made a good decision going alone....i personally think when girls are in a group at a dance, its a lot harder to approach them cuz there so sercure. So on the other hand, if a girl wants to approach you and your alone...its better than being with friends.

7) YOU GOTTA HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE!!!!!! There are so many times where you can feel down at dances...and wihtout friends there, youre pretty much screwed and you might wanna quit. Youll need all the confidence you got if youre goin without friends.

Unlike you...i LOVE the dance floor now, I really love it, meeting girls and stuff....and dont hesistate to touch when ur griding!

HAVE FUN and GOOD LUCK man....theres many things to be learned..but i already gave you too much to remember. Just remember that number 7 is the most important!

One last thing....if you wanna dance with someone, go up and ask, cuz once ive waited so long, and the girl kept looking at me i felt like a stocker. This is bcuz i kept wondering around and wanted to ask her but couldnt find the courage so i jus surrounded her...ai stupid me

OK HAVE FUN....by the time you read this, the dance is probably already over haha next time?

 

[Tha Realnezz]

No fvking way.

Lone-wolves are considered to be losers/nut-cases by women or men they just don't have the confidence to hold down.

Men will also think you're stuck up and you'll become a target for hate.

I understand why some people here think it's the natural way of doing things for a player.But that way of thinking fvcked up my whole life for awhile there.It's always better to be among peers than to be alone..no matter how that saying goes.

People are gonna turn on you regardless if you befreind them or not.That's just the way of the world.Now if you're a loner..you're fvcked cuz when you need help there's absolutley no one to turn to.

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
No fvking way.

Lone-wolves are considered to be losers/nut-cases by women or men they just don't have the confidence to hold down.

Men will also think you're stuck up and you'll become a target for hate.

I understand why some people here think it's the natural way of doing things for a player.But that way of thinking fvcked up my whole life for awhile there.It's always better to be among peers than to be alone..no matter how that saying goes.

People are gonna turn on you regardless if you befreind them or not.That's just the way of the world.Now if you're a loner..you're fvcked cuz when you need help there's absolutley no one to turn to.

yeah...thats kinda what i tried to say but that was a bit harsh

Its hard to do things without friends, especially at a dance

And

when you need help there's absolutley no one to turn to.

that is so dam true!!!!!

 

[So Many Ways]

I've gone to clubs 3 times by myself, 2 times I got a makeout session and almost got a ONS out of one of them.

It think when you're out of town, it is much easier to go out alone. Two of the times I was by myself and the clubs were absolutely packed, so it wasn't a big deal that I was by myself. The one other time I went out solo mission was a couple of weeks ago, and the field report is in the mature forum. I was at a local spot and it was a little more difficult and you really have to swallow your pride, abandon your ego and just force yourself to engage women you see.

Even though you may think that going out alone makes you a loser, the truth is, most women honestly don't care. If you think that everyone is going to point at you and scream loser, that's just paranoia, insecurity and self centered thinking. The truth is, no one at the club really cares or notices that you're by yourself.

I know personally, there have been plenty of times when I've gone with friends where I just take off by myself and starting combing the club for hotties. What's the difference between doing that and going out alone? It's the same thing.

There is one thing that can be said about going with friends, it is more enjoyable when you have your buddies there, even though you may not be focused on trying to pick up.