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CableLight

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No, the plot of this isn't quite as sinister as the connotation you might percieve from the title, but...whatever, just read.

I remember when I first joined this site as a 16-year-old and I heard a tactic on the board and dismissed it (ignorantly, might I add) without much thought. It sounded so stupid and unnecessary; but now that I've actually tried it and benefitted from it, I suggest some of you maybe give this a try as well. The only real problem with this is that it takes some patience.

What to do: Befriend women. You might have read that last line and thought to yourself "Wow, brilliant idea, retard" but let me finish. I'm not talking about befriending girls with the implication of hooking up with them later, I'm talking about actually getting girls as legit friends to hang around with and whatnot without romatic underties - period.

Why? Because having girls as actual friends you hang out with can bring some nice rewards. About 50% of the people I hang around with on a regular basis at college are girls, and those girls have a lot to offer. Think about it - most girls have a whole squad of people they want to hang out with and party with and bring over, etc. And what makes up the general population of the friends of girls? Thats right: More girls.

By befriending girls, you're potentially able to access 2-3 times (or higher) more girls vicariously - which, simply put, means you don't have to put in hardly any effort to meet women as they're basically brought to you.

Sound easy? It is. The only real trouble is dealing with their friends you aren't attracted to. It should also be said that even the girls you're not attracted to can have some decently hot friends of their own, so you might consider befriending them as well.

To the girls you befriend you're coming off not as a guy obsessed with gettin' poon-tang, but as a guy who simply wants to hang out with them (which they'll enjoy). Also, there's nothing wrong with chillin' with girls in the first place, so don't just try to use them or they'll probably figure it out after a while and get pissy. It's a good idea to keep them happy, because if they get angry, your free supply of girls will be effectively shut down.
 

LikRetsam

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Girls, guys... All the same in the realm of friendship to me.
 

AC/DC

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That's a HELLA good idea!

Some of my closest friends are girls!!
 

Oni

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i hang out with friends that are girls too. In fact, there's this girl in our group that i've known for a long time that i want to get with. Some guys have been trying to get her but she rejected them because she keeps saying shes not into relationships now, and she would not talk to them ever again. So learning from that, I've decided to just keep everything cool with her and see what happens next.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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The last girl I tried to be with friends with...

The last girl I tried to be friends with ended up being my first relationship.

I cant be friends with girls - I want to sleep with them, or they want to sleep with me - in this case... both. <sigh>
 

Luscious

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Lots of people here need to take a look at this. It's a solid tip, for sure.

Bump.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Man... I have been preaching this one for years.

For anyone who has yet to discover the power of having women friends.... I suggest you find it. The possiblities are endless.
 
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