Beginning to fall ...

CARush

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So I met this really cute girls about a year ago. I introduced myself to her and everything, tried to flirt with her but was always cblocked by her some of her female friends. Back then I wasn't really good with girls, got kinda nervous around her, but I figured I might as well give it a shot.

Some of her friends wanted her to hook up with me, but those also friends talked a lot of sh1t about me behind my back, so idk what to make of that.

Never really made a friendship with her though. So anyway about 6 months ago we met up again, she seemed pretty excited to see me. I still liked her a bit, but only saw her for a few days and didn't game her. Recently she got her braces removed, she looks stunning and I really would want to be with her, but sadly I don't think there's anything going now. We see each other at times, but usually I don't really stay much time with her. I always get kinda nervous when talking to her, even though I can easily flirt with any other girl now. She's a party girl now so I'm a little concerned about how that might affect me. I mean, don't get me wrong I party a lot too, I defnitely drink much more than her but she's the type of girl that usually gets hit on by guys at parties or w/e. Now, looking back it seems I'm really lucky she hasn't hooked up with anyone yet, seeing how I haven't done anything myself.

Though to be honest, I think having a relationship with her would be a bit hard for me, as I don't feel like I really want something serious right now. If that wasn't enough, I can hardly ever manage to find her alone. Somehow her friends are always glued to her, and there's times when she's with her guy friends so I can't really approach.

I won't be seeing her for at least 4 months, I guess that's a good thing because I'll be able to take my mind off her, but still I'd like to be with her. I feel a bit weird asking for advice because I've learned already how to seduce girls, but it seems like I freeze up when trying it on someone I really do like (not just because of her looks).
 

NorwegianDJ

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Dude. You have to realize something.

YOU'VE BEEN HERE FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS!

It's time to take some action. Step out of your comfort zone.

Enough reading, it wont change anything. Go be proactive about your life.
 

I'm in the Mood

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NorwegianDJ said:
Dude. You have to realize something.

YOU'VE BEEN HERE FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS!

It's time to take some action. Step out of your comfort zone.

Enough reading, it wont change anything. Go be proactive about your life.
I wish someone had said this to me 2 years after I first came here.

Look, either you make yourself uncomfortable and show your interest in her, or you stay comfortable where you are and nothing at all changes in your life. That's how it works, and that's the way to eventually get what you want.
 
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